Is It About Me or About My Savior?

In all things we are to glorify God. In all relationships we are to glorify God,
looking to Jesus’ example of humility and righteousness.

 

1Peter 2:18 Servants, be submissive to your masters with all respect, not only to those who are good and gentle, but also to those who are unreasonable.

What do you read in the above verse?

Peter​​ now moves to the duty of servants to their masters. ​​ The words in this verse are straight forward, meaning when you read them, they say what they mean. ​​ You may have heard this often-used phrase, ‘If the plain literal words make good sense, seek no other sense’. ​​ Sometimes a problem arises because we do not like the plain literal sense of the message we are given. ​​ Think how often you have told your child to do something and the answer you get is ‘but what about …’. ​​ Most of us are guilty of this same response to direction. ​​ We think of a way out or a way around or simply a way to change the instruction we do not like.

In our culture today, we would not necessarily describe relationships using the terms servant and master. ​​ The word servant in this verse refers mainly to household servants or domestic servants which lived in the same house. ​​ This was common at that time and the command would apply whether they were hired or whether they were owned as slaves.  ​​​​ In our culture and practices today, we could apply this command to anyone in a paid position or under the service of one in authority.  ​​​​ This could even be a worker you have hired to do a specific job. ​​ For instance, we have in the past had someone who was paid to work on the yard or help with something​​ inside our home. ​​ The expectation was that this person would receive a certain amount of money for a specific amount of work.  ​​​​ Fulfilling our request did not matter if the worker agreed with our plan. ​​ It is quite possible they had a better way of doing something – what mattered was they did what was expected.  ​​​​ Think of this example – when you were a student, specific goals were set for you to accomplish. ​​ It did not matter if you liked or even agreed with the course material; it did not matter if you felt you already knew the information or had a better way of accomplishing the same task, if you wanted to pass the class you adhered to the direction given by your professor.

Under most circumstances, when we find ourselves under the obligation to act in obedience, it will be toward those who are good and gentle, and reasonable and kind. ​​ For instance, I was blessed to develop a friendship with a woman who helped in our home when my mother-in-law lived with us. ​​ Our families became involved with one another,​​ and she eventually accepted Jesus as her Lord and Savior in my kitchen!  ​​​​ 

Yet, what do we do when we are asked to submit to those who are unreasonable? ​​ Well, as long as we are not asked to sin, then it is not important whether we think something is unnecessary or a waste of time, or foolish. ​​ If my employer requests that I draw a red line exactly down the center of each piece of paper that filters across my desk, then however ridiculous I think it might be, I can choose to do it because they are in charge. ​​ I might think their request is unreasonable and they are crazy, however their position requires my respect and submission. ​​ Not only might I get fired if I don’t submit, but I will also loose the opportunity to build relationships with the hope of sharing Christ.

The question that pops in my mind is,​​ “Am I willing to deny myself for my Savior”?​​ ​​ Read the words of Paul in​​ Philippians 2:5-8, Have this attitude in yourselves which was also in Christ Jesus, who, although He existed in the form of God, did not regard equality with God a thing to be grasped, but emptied Himself, taking the form of a bond-servant, [and] being made in the like ness of men, and being found in appearance as a man, He humbled Himself by becoming obedient to the point of death, even​​ death on a cross. ​​ If anyone ever had the right to stand His ground, it was Jesus! ​​ But He chose not to do so in order to please His Father and redeem your soul. ​​ His example is what we are to follow.

It is difficult to choose to give up what we deem our ‘rights’. ​​ We do not like others pressing in upon our space or crowding our ‘freedoms’. ​​ We are quick to draw lines in the sand. ​​ Our feelings​​ get hurt or we concentrate on the ‘unfairness’ of a situation. ​​ Consider what happens when a child comes home from​​ school and is hurt because someone was ‘mean’ to them. ​​ Do they stop going to school, or quit? ​​ Of course not! ​​ Hopefully, they are encouraged to be kind and carry on in spite of those who aren’t nice. ​​ Our thinking can focus on ourselves and an attitude​​ of “you can only go so far until I will become insistent on my views’. ​​ However we need to be certain our views and where we choose to be immovable is according to the truth and example we have in God’s word. ​​ If I choose to take a stand for my own convenience or my opinion or because it fits what I think, without proof for my action from Truth, then I am serving myself under the pretense of serving God. ​​ I cannot form my opinion and then find the scriptures that will support my thinking; rather, I must go​​ to the scriptures and ask God to give me understanding of His word. ​​ Then with that understanding of His truth, I am led what to think. ​​ We need to be careful!  ​​​​ Words can sound compelling, and we are easily led by what sounds righteous rather than what is​​ truth and fact in scripture. ​​ Are the decisions you make based on the word or on feelings.

In any relationship we find ourselves, we must remember we are Christians, ultimately representing God and serving Him. ​​ To those who are our masters (rulers, employers, teachers, and all those in authority over us), we are to submit. ​​ Obedience is a choice we are able to make because Christ has changed our heart and our desire is to please Him and follow His example. ​​ If you find yourself thinking ‘you’ve had enough’ and you ‘can no longer take it’, think back to Christ. ​​ I am personally so thankful He never gave up on the human race.

1Timothy 6:1 Let all who are under the yoke as slaves regard their own masters as worthy of all honor​​ so that the name of God and [our] doctrine may not be spoken against.

Titus 2:9-10 [Urge] bondslaves to be subject to their own masters in everything, to be well-pleasing, not argumentative,​​ not pilfering, but showing all good faith​​ that they may adorn the doctrine of God our Savior in every respect.

Go back for a moment to the reason this letter was written. ​​ The Apostle Peter wrote this to believers who were being persecuted for their faith. ​​ Peter reminded them of God’s protection and their inheritance in heaven. ​​ They were suffering through difficulties, yet these trials were a means for the proof and strengthening of their faith in Jesus. ​​ Peter reminded them to fix their hope on the future and to act in obedience to God’s calling. ​​ They were to follow Jesus’ example of holiness. ​​ They were valuable and were to love one another remembering that their time here on earth was short. ​​ Therefore, they were to seek God’s truths so that they would mature as Christians and regard their difficulties as opportunities to glorify God. ​​ God was their secure foundation, and their purpose was to proclaim Him. ​​ They were to honor Him by keeping their behavior excellent, willingly submitting to those in authority. ​​ They had been freed from the control of sin, and now had the freedom to choose righteousness. ​​ What did this look like? ​​ By all means they were to promote peace, setting their sights on furthering the Gospel. ​​ Their freedom was not to be used to usurp authority but rather to honor God. ​​ Even when it was difficult.

Our text says,​​ Servants, be submissive to your masters​​ with all respect. ​​ Seriously?! ​​ In our selfish and prideful thinking we can easily think that this is asking a bit too much! ​​ We are to not only submit, but we are to submit with all respect. ​​ Respect does not​​ mean we must agree. ​​ It means we understand the position someone holds. ​​ This is difficult. ​​ However, we need to have the right attitude towards those in charge because it is what scripture teaches. ​​ In our own human weakness, this is quite impossible. ​​ Let’s remember, God is the one who has placed people exactly where He wants them for His purpose. ​​ God is the one we are honoring when we willingly yield to His perfect plan just as Christ did when He was crucified.  ​​​​ 

When we bow ourselves before God and are reminded of the sacrifice of His only Son, willingly assuming the pain of suffering and separation as our sin was atoned, we are equipped by grace to act in humility and righteousness towards others.

This gets even more difficult when we read the rest of​​ 1 Peter 2:18.  ​​​​ We are to be submissive to those in authority with all respect​​ regardless if they are good and gentle or unreasonable. ​​​​ The overriding imperative to everyone is to act with good conduct (1Peter 2:11, 12, 13, and 16); a direct application is servants to masters. ​​ Submit with respect, if at all possible, under all circumstances. ​​ Respect is translated ‘fear’. ​​ Not necessarily because of a fear of the person themselves although in many cases they would have the authority to exercise disciplinary action, but​​ ultimately because we fear God, ​​​​ (1 Peter 2:13).

Colossians 3:22 Slaves, in all things obey those who are your masters on earth, not with external service, as those who [merely] please men,​​ but with sincerity of heart, fearing the Lord.

Ephesians 6:5-8 Slaves, be obedient to those who are your masters according to the flesh, with fear and trembling,​​ in the sincerity of your heart, as to Christ; not by way of eyeservice, as men-pleasers, but as slaves of Christ, doing the will of God from the​​ heart. ​​ With good will render service, as to the Lord, and not to men,​​ knowing that whatever good thing each one does, this he will receive back from the Lord, whether slave or free.

Jesus was fully God and fully man while on this earth. ​​ Yet, He placed Himself in subjection to His earthly parents. ​​ Luke 2:48-51

1 Peter 3:1​​ says wives are to be subject to their husbands.

According to one commentary, the Jews were unwilling “to submit to any Gentile masters; and those of them who believed in Christ were by their Judaizing teachers persuaded to think that they owed no obedience to unbelieving masters”,​​ Thomas Haweis. ​​ From the same commentary we are reminded of Jesus’ example –​​ “leaving us an example of patience and long-suffering under all the most cruel and​​ unjust treatment which he met with, that ye should follow his steps, and be conformed to his blessed pattern; who, grievously as he suffered, yet did no sin, neither was guile found in his mouth; his bitterest enemies could not so much as fix upon him the​​ shadow of a crime: who, when he was reviled, reviled not again; but observed an admirable silence, as the sheep before her shearers is dumb: when he suffered, he threatened not, nor discovered the least anger at his tormentors; but committed himself and his cause to him that judgeth righteously, and to whom vengeance belongeth”.

Note these questions and applications –

  • We look to Christ for pardon and righteousness, should we not also follow His example of patience and meekness? ​​ 

  • Are we desiring to receive​​ His forgiveness and gift of eternal life but not willing to accept that in receiving His grace we must act in accordance with His commands?

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Since we have been saved to righteousness, we are deceived if we choose to live in sin and flatter ourselves with​​ the certain hope of eternal life in Christ. ​​ We should be encouraged to willingly accept every burden which He places in our lives.

 

  • Our sufferings or mistreatment are not an excuse for impatience or anger, however unreasonable our authorities may be.

  • Christ’s example not only teaches us to not lash out for ill treatment or demand the rights we wrongly claim title to – His example also teaches us to pray for the very ones who are unreasonable – He prayed for those who crucified Him. ​​ 

  • We gain nothing from​​ strife; contentment is found in godliness. ​​ We ​​ should not choose to give up when we feel we are treated poorly, or someone is ‘mean’ or unfair. ​​ We continue to serve – following Christ’s example.

 

I fear, as a people, we have claimed ‘rights’ to​​ things which were never given to us by God. ​​ Think! ​​ What did you bring into this world?​​ Of course the answer is nothing. ​​ The reality is we own nothing – not even our own selves. ​​ Jesus purchased our souls. ​​ God created our being.

In all things we are to​​ glorify God. ​​ In all relationships we are to glorify God,​​ 

looking to Jesus’ example of humility and righteousness.

 

 1 Peter 2:20-24 For what credit is there if, when you sin and are harshly treated, you endure it with patience? ​​ But if when you do what is right and suffer [for it] you patiently endure it, this [finds] favor with God. ​​​​ For you have been called for this purpose, since Christ also suffered for you, leaving you an example for you to follow in His steps,​​ WHO COMMITTED NO SIN, NOR WAS ANY DECEIT FOUND IN HIS MOUTH; and while being reviled, He did not revile in return; while suffering, He uttered no threats, but kept entrusting [Himself] to Him who judges righteously; and He Himself bore our sins in His body on the cross, that we might die to sin​​ and live to righteousness; for by His wounds you were healed.

 Christ chose to endure ill-treatment, harshness, false accusations, physical pain, and ultimately spiritual separation from His Father as the sin of man was atoned. ​​ Are we more concerned about how others treat us than how we are to serve God in righteousness?

Author: Sharyn Balogh

You know it's difficult to write about yourself. The most important fact I can disclose is that I'm saved by God's grace through faith in the death and resurrection of Jesus Christ. My desire is to live a life honoring to God in response for the gift of salvation I've been given. This is so much easier said than done! I struggle daily with right choices, right words, right thoughts, and right actions. My best and only defense against sin is the power of God in me and for that I am inexpressibly thankful. I have three amazing grown-up children who have responded to God's call in their lives along with their spouses. One of the great joys of my life is knowing my children and their families strive to serve and follow God. My grandchildren are another wonderful joy in my life! My husband and I are blessed with four beautiful grandchildren to date with another expected very soon on September 12th. We also are thankful for the comforting knowledge that an additional three of our grandchildren, a set of twins at three months gestation and a little boy, Isaac, at four and a half months gestation, are in our Savior's presence. I have attended the same church since the day my eyes were opened to Truth over thirty years ago. How fortunate it is to have been led by God’s hand immediately to a church body that follows the Bible, no man-made doctrines, just the Word clear and strong. My husband is my best friend, my confidant, my encourager, and I still can't believe how blessed I am by his example of love and generosity towards everyone around him. He is God-fearing, compassionate, and kind and I have learned so much from him. I am a daughter to my almost 92 year-old mother, sister to three brothers, a wife, mother, mother-in-law, grandmother, aunt, great-aunt, neighbor and friend. That means, whomever is reading this, we probably have something in common! I love every unique role I have been placed in. I'm frequently stretched and sometimes feel like silly putty that wants to bounce right back into my comfort zone. My greatest ambition is to be a follower of Jesus; a light that shines for Him at all times, in all circumstances. So, there it is, a bit about me. I guess I was able to write about myself after all! However, my existence cannot be defined without Jesus Christ, my Lord and my Savior. His love has permeated my life to His glory and my eternal thankfulness.