Kindness and Blessing

When we fully understand God’s love towards us, we will be motivated to love others. We will be drenched in humility and look for opportunities to extend the love we have received.

Nearing the end of Chapter 2 in Ruth, conversation between Naomi and Ruth continues. ​​ Naomi reveals to Ruth that the man named Boaz, whose field she was allowed to glean, is a relative. ​​ In fact, Boaz is of their closest​​ relatives. ​​ Ruth offers even more specific information of the interaction between herself and Boaz. ​​ Naomi then encourages Ruth with direction for the coming days ahead. ​​ The relationship between these two women is evidence of their deep affection for one​​ another. ​​ The treasure we have in relationships, the ability to confide and seek counsel, and the encouragement we gather from one another is a blessing as we move forward in our knowledge and understanding of God.

Ruth 2:20 And Naomi said to her daughter-in-law, "May he be blessed of the LORD who has not withdrawn his kindness to the living and to the dead.” ​​ Again Naomi said to her, "The man is our relative, he is one of our closest relatives."

 Naomi’s blessing to Boaz. ​​ Just as Naomi’s words in verse 19 blessed Boaz for his kindness, her words in verse 20 proclaim an abundance of blessing upon him from Jehovah God. ​​ The KJV of Ruth 2:20 reads, “Blessed be​​ he​​ of the Lord.” ​​ There is recognition from Naomi of God’s hand through Boaz in their care and she​​ rightly turns the praise towards God. ​​ 

  • What is your reaction when God allows you to clearly see His hand directing your life?

​​ Often, God uses others as an encouragement to us when we are truly seeking to live for Him. ​​ Naomi honors God by giving Him the glory for this amazing turn of circumstances. ​​ Boaz’s kindness towards Ruth means the women will not be in fear of their supply of food and that Ruth will be safe as she works in the fields as a foreigner, without being harassed. ​​ To Naomi, who understands Jewish Law, it also means a possibility of redemption for her family name.

Naomi may have been fearful that with the death of her husband Elimelech, and their two sons, she could be forgotten in the family and left to fend on her own. ​​ We can surmise this because she had warned Ruth, even before their journey began, how difficult it might be when returning to Bethlehem. ​​ Yet, here is evidence of God’s mercy on His children.

Naomi prays for blessing upon Boaz because he had ‘not withdrawn his kindness to the living and to the dead.’ ​​ Kindness is the same word used for mercy. ​​ 

  • What does it mean to show mercy to someone? ​​ 

 According to​​ Word Web, mercy means to show great kindness toward the distressed. ​​ It is the feeling that motivates compassion. ​​ 

  • Do we take the opportunities we have to show kindness and mercy towards one another? ​​ What might this look like?

  • Do we take the time to consider how we can be an encouragement?

God’s mercy toward us is much more than the kindness we might display towards others. ​​ We have been declared guilty and in need of salvation from sin’s destruction. ​​ In contrast, God is perfect, and man’s ugly display of sin is a grievance towards His holiness. ​​ Even though we are guilty, God chose to extend his love to man through the​​ death of His Son, Jesus Christ. ​​ God’s mercy towards man declares the guilty to be guiltless. ​​ We have been saved from the wrath and punishment we truly deserve. ​​ 

When we fully understand God’s love towards us, we will be motivated to love others. ​​ We will be drenched in humility and look for opportunities to extend the love we have received. ​​ Boaz was merciful toward Ruth and her reaction is one of humility. ​​ A humble mind has no thought of deserving something more or something better. ​​ Any advantage given, no matter how small it may seem, will be valued as an undeserved blessing.  ​​​​ 

  • How do these truths affect your attitude?

 Naomi’s disclosure to Ruth. ​​ “The man is our relative, he is one of our closest relatives.” ​​ This is incredible​​ information. ​​ Boaz is not only a distant relative but one who is able to act as kinsman redeemer for the family. ​​ This means restoring the family name and property. ​​ Imagine how difficult the past ten years or so has been for Naomi – leaving her home town​​ during a time of famine, going to an area of idol worshippers, watching her sons get pulled into a heathen culture, the death of her husband, the death of both her sons, ​​ and returning destitute to Bethlehem. ​​ Now, in God’s perfect timing, when the famine​​ in Bethlehem has ended, and at the beginning of harvest, with a loyal daughter-in-law whose heart has turned toward God, Naomi is given hope. ​​ God’s lovingkindness is shown towards Naomi and Ruth in a very practical way and unsuspecting set of circumstances. ​​ There is no doubt that God’s hand is directing the lives of Naomi, Ruth, and Boaz. ​​ We have the advantage of reading this account from beginning to end so it is not difficult for us to see the blessings that are accumulating through the hands of God in​​ these three lives. ​​ 

  • As you retrace God’s direction in your life, are you able to see His blessings?

When we are in the midst of difficult circumstances, we may neglect to look to the hope we have that God is in control of all things. ​​ We can allow ourselves to become weighed down by discouragement (see Naomi’s response in Ruth 1:20), and forget the truth that God works all things for His glory. ​​ It is all about Him! ​​ We do not live for our pleasure – we live for His purpose. ​​ 

 Searching in​​ Torrey’s Topical Textbook​​ under the subject of glorifying God, one of the headings is listed as​​ “All the blessings of God are designed to lead to” His glory. ​​​​ This is true in the account we are reading now, and it is true in your own life.  ​​​​ Isaiah 60:21​​ reads,​​ “Then all your people [will be] righteous; they will possess the land forever, the brand of My planting, the work of My hands,​​ that I may be glorified.”

  • Matthew 5:16 Let your light shine before men in such a way that they may see your good works, and​​ glorify your​​ Father who is in heaven.

  • John 15:7-8 "If you abide in Me, and My words abide in you, ask whatever you wish, and it shall be done for you, "By this is My Father glorified, that you bear much fruit, and [so] prove to be My disciples.

 The apostle Paul in​​ Philippians 2:12​​ gives this charge to the church,​​ “So then, my beloved, just as you have always obeyed, not as in my presence only, but now much​​ more in my absence, work out your salvation with fear and trembling; for​​ it is God who is at work in you, both to will and to work for [His] good pleasure.

Again, the apostle Paul in his book to the Hebrews encourages them to honor God in all things. ​​ “Now the God of peace, who brought up from the dead the great Shepherd of the sheep through the blood of the eternal covenant, [even] Jesus our Lord, equip you in every good thing to do His will,​​ working in us that which is pleasing in His sight, through Jesus Christ, to whom [be] the glory forever and ever. Amen.” ​​​​ Hebrews 13:20-21.

  • How are you led to apply these truths? ​​ 

  • How is God using you to glorify Himself?

 

Author: Sharyn Balogh

You know it's difficult to write about yourself. The most important fact I can disclose is that I'm saved by God's grace through faith in the death and resurrection of Jesus Christ. My desire is to live a life honoring to God in response for the gift of salvation I've been given. This is so much easier said than done! I struggle daily with right choices, right words, right thoughts, and right actions. My best and only defense against sin is the power of God in me and for that I am inexpressibly thankful. I have three amazing grown-up children who have responded to God's call in their lives along with their spouses. One of the great joys of my life is knowing my children and their families strive to serve and follow God. My grandchildren are another wonderful joy in my life! My husband and I are blessed with four beautiful grandchildren to date with another expected very soon on September 12th. We also are thankful for the comforting knowledge that an additional three of our grandchildren, a set of twins at three months gestation and a little boy, Isaac, at four and a half months gestation, are in our Savior's presence. I have attended the same church since the day my eyes were opened to Truth over thirty years ago. How fortunate it is to have been led by God’s hand immediately to a church body that follows the Bible, no man-made doctrines, just the Word clear and strong. My husband is my best friend, my confidant, my encourager, and I still can't believe how blessed I am by his example of love and generosity towards everyone around him. He is God-fearing, compassionate, and kind and I have learned so much from him. I am a daughter to my almost 92 year-old mother, sister to three brothers, a wife, mother, mother-in-law, grandmother, aunt, great-aunt, neighbor and friend. That means, whomever is reading this, we probably have something in common! I love every unique role I have been placed in. I'm frequently stretched and sometimes feel like silly putty that wants to bounce right back into my comfort zone. My greatest ambition is to be a follower of Jesus; a light that shines for Him at all times, in all circumstances. So, there it is, a bit about me. I guess I was able to write about myself after all! However, my existence cannot be defined without Jesus Christ, my Lord and my Savior. His love has permeated my life to His glory and my eternal thankfulness.