Serving For Him and Because of Him

God uses us; however, we must be careful to remember He is the author of all good things. Anytime we are able to help, encourage, or serve, it is not to be for personal accolades. It is for His praise alone.

1Peter 4:11​​ Whoever speaks, is to do so as one who is speaking the utterances of God;​​ whoever serves is to do so as one who is serving by the strength which God supplies; so that in all things God may be glorified through Jesus Christ, to whom belongs the glory and dominion forever and ever. ​​ Amen.

A few weeks ago, we began looking at this verse and concentrated on the Apostle’s admonition to be careful of the content of our words,​​ Whoever speaks, is to do so as one who is speaking the utterances of God.​​  ​​​​ No matter what particular gifts we may use to serve one another, our speech needs to represent the Word correctly. ​​ We are to be mindful of sharing words of encouragement, words of compassion, and words of Truth.

In the next section of verse 11, Peter now expands on serving – how we are to serve, and why we are to serve. ​​ Whoever serves is to do so as one who is serving by the strength which God supplies;

What often happens when we seek to serve in our own strength?

The serving mentioned here is that of attending to another’s needs as a friend, or in ministry in specific roles in the church. ​​ Serving takes time, commitment, and energy; it often affects our personal life, finances, and requires decisions to put aside our wants and schedules to meet the needs of others. ​​ If you are involved in serving, you recognize that a large part of your life is spent in ministry – preparing, praying, and encouraging others. ​​ My own opinion is if you are bored, you’re not serving enough. ​​ Pull out a piece of paper and write an encouraging note; pick up your phone and share encouraging words. ​​ If you are lonely, you are not looking for opportunities to serve. ​​ If you become discouraged, disappointed, or depressed, serve more – get involved in people’s lives for the sake of encouraging others. ​​ When we are consumed with serving to benefit others, we will not have the time to concentrate on ourselves, our feelings, etc. ​​​​ We do need to take care of everyday responsibilities, so this does not mean we serve in lieu of dealing with the immediate things that need our attention. ​​ It does mean if we are​​ only​​ focused on our own issues, we are in danger of ignoring opportunities to help others.

How do we serve?

By the strength which God supplies.​​ ​​ God blesses each of His children with gifts to be used for Him. ​​ Our talents, abilities, strength,​​ and​​ compassion, are not given to us to make us feel good about ourselves, instead we use these things to encourage others in the faith. ​​ All we are and have, is for God’s glory.

Romans 12:6-8 Since we have gifts that differ according to the grace given to us, each of us is to exercise them accordingly: if prophecy, according to the proportion of his faith; if service, in his serving; or he who teaches, in his teaching; or he who exhorts, in his exhortation; he who gives, with liberality; he who leads, with diligence; he who shows mercy, with cheerfulness.

God uses us;​​ however,​​ we must be careful to remember​​ He​​ is the author of all good things. ​​ Anytime we are able to help, encourage, or serve, it is not to be for personal accolades. ​​ It is for His praise alone.

“[Of the ability which God giveth] Perhaps the ministering here may refer to the care of the poor, and the ability is the quantum of means which God may have placed in their hands; and they are to minister this as coming immediately from God, and lead the minds of the poor to consider Him as their benefactor, that He in all things may be glorified through Christ Jesus. ​​ This is implied in the essence of any charitable act: the actor is not the author, God is the author; and the poor man should be taught to consider Him as his immediate benefactor. ​​ Those who give any thing as from themselves, rob God; for to Him the praise for all good, and the dominion over all men and things, belong for ever and ever. ​​ ​​​​ Adam Clarke’s Commentary

We should serve in humility, knowing it is God’s work through us;

we should serve diligently, knowing it is God’s desire for us.

 

Matthew Poole’s Commentary​​ says,​​ “Let him do it as of the ability which God giveth; i.e. not remissly and coldly, but diligently and strenuously, and with his might, as far as God enables him; this being to do it faithfully, which is especially required in a steward,​​ 1Corinthians 4:2 In this case, moreover, it is required of stewards that one be found trustworthy”.

Consider. ​​ We serve in God’s strength, using the gifts He has given to each of us. ​​ We are to be found trustworthy in being good stewards of the abilities we have. ​​ Therefore, we do not hide our talents in the closet but rather, we need to be sensitive to the areas where we can be helpful. ​​ In this way, the truths of the Gospel are manifest in our lives as a witness to those around us.

Why do you serve? ​​ What is your motivation?

There are some who are not believers, who serve others. ​​ But they get their rewards in full here on earth by men. ​​ The motivation is to do something good,​​ yet invariably they gain something. ​​ A special interest​​ of theirs​​ gets attention, their financial donations offer a tax benefit, or perhaps they get support from a foundation they choose to help. ​​ Something or someone other than God is elevated. ​​ 

Matthew 6:1-2 "Beware of practicing your righteousness before men to be noticed by them; otherwise you have no reward with your Father who is in heaven. ​​ So when you give to the poor, do not sound a trumpet before you, as the hypocrites do in the synagogues and in the streets, so that they may be honored by men. ​​ Truly I say to you, they have their reward in full.

There’s lots of reasons people serve in the church. ​​ We need to be careful even when serving in the church body because our motivation may be for self. ​​ Some give of their time, energy, and resources because it is expected, and others may be watching. ​​ Some serve because it gives them a sense of belonging. ​​ Unfortunately, recognition, titles, popularity, and importance can be motivators in serving in a church body. ​​ But what if no one encouraged you; what if no one recognized your hard work; what if you felt unsupported and were even discouraged by others’ lack of response – would you keep serving? ​​ Do you serve when it means sacrificing your time, or when it gets difficult?

As a side note, we should try to show our appreciation for those who work hard to serve us so this is not a license to ignore those who serve diligently; but appreciation should never be expected. ​​ You should squelch those feelings of hurt when your efforts go unnoticed.

Consider what Christ did for us. ​​ He came to serve – not for His own benefit, but for the glory of His Father. ​​ He was ignored; He was not appreciated. ​​ He never belonged, in fact he had nowhere to even lay His head. ​​ Matthew 8:20 Jesus *said to him, "The foxes have holes and the birds of the air have nests, but the Son of Man has nowhere to lay His head. ​​ "He was of lowly birth​​ (Luke 2:7 And she gave birth to her firstborn son; and she wrapped Him in cloths, and laid Him in a manger, because there was no room for them in the inn). ​​ His ministry was challenged, certainly not supported​​ (Mark 11:27-33); He was threatened, and ridiculed, beaten, and crucified. ​​ Yet, even while dying on the cross, He served – asking forgiveness for those who sinned and proclaiming salvation to one of the criminals crucified with Him.

Are you self-serving or serving God? ​​ Do your thoughts center more on how you feel or what you can do to encourage others? ​​​​ If you are serving self, you are likely to receive earthly benefits; serving for God’s glory will prove your eternal birth right.

Matthew 7:21-23 "Not everyone who says to Me, 'Lord, Lord,' will enter the kingdom of heaven, but he who does the will of My Father who is in heaven will enter. ​​ "Many will say to Me on that day, 'Lord, Lord, did we not prophesy in Your name, and in Your name cast out demons, and in Your name perform many miracles?' "And then I will declare to them, 'I never knew you; DEPART FROM ME, YOU WHO PRACTICE LAWLESSNESS.'

We serve​​ so that in all things God may be glorified through Jesus Christ, to whom belongs the glory and dominion forever and ever. ​​ Amen.

Remember the account written for us in Mark, of James and John asking who would sit on Jesus’ right and left in glory. ​​ They were all about themselves, seeking their own benefit. ​​ Jesus’ reply to them is recorded in​​ Mark 10:42-45.

Calling them to Himself, Jesus *said to them, “You know that those who are recognized as rulers of the Gentiles lord it over them; and their great men exercise authority over them. ​​ “But it is not this way among you, but whoever wishes to become great among you shall be your servant; and whoever wishes to be first among you shall be slave of all. ​​ “For even the Son of Man did not come to be served, but to serve, and to give His life a ransom for many.”

Whatever you do is to be done for God’s glory. ​​ The last part of 1Peter 4:11 reads,​​ Jesus Christ, to whom belongs the glory and dominion forever and ever. ​​ Amen.

Revelation 5:12-13 saying with a loud voice, "Worthy is the Lamb that was slain to receive power and riches and wisdom and might and honor and glory and blessing." And every created thing which is in heaven and on the earth and under the earth and on the sea, and all things in them, I heard saying, "To Him who sits on the throne, and to the Lamb, be blessing and honor and glory and dominion forever and ever."

Ephesians 3:20-21 Now to Him who is able to do far more abundantly beyond all that we ask or think, according to the power that works within us,​​ to Him be the glory in the church and in Christ Jesus to all generations forever and ever. ​​ Amen.

Romans 11:36 For from Him and through Him and to Him are all things. ​​ To Him be the glory forever. ​​ Amen.

Jude 1:25 to the only God our Savior, through Jesus Christ our Lord, be glory, majesty, dominion and authority, before all time and now and forever. Amen.

Hebrews 13:20-21 Now the God of peace, who brought up from the dead the great Shepherd of the sheep through the blood of the eternal covenant, even Jesus our Lord,​​ equip you in every good thing to do His will, working in us that which is pleasing in His sight, through Jesus Christ, to whom be the glory forever and ever. ​​ Amen.

Think of the words associated with Christ – glory and dominion. ​​ There is none other who can rightly claim honor, praise, and worship. ​​ There is none other who has power and strength over all creation.​​ 

Amen. ​​ Literally, this is a trustworthy statement.

 

Speak His Truths,

serve in His strength,

all for His glory.

 

 

Called by Grace to Glorify God

Our lives should glorify God in the hopes that those who surround us will think more favorably of the One we follow and be drawn towards Him.

We continue Peter’s address to the dispersed Christians – You have been born again, therefore refrain from sin and seek to grow in your salvation. ​​ Even though men may​​ reject you, in God’s sight you are precious. ​​ Your purpose is to live according to God’s word and to proclaim His excellencies because of His mercy on your soul. ​​ In verse 11, the Apostle urged the saints to refrain from the enticement of worldly cravings​​ which leads to sin. ​​ He continues this thought in verse 12 with an order for excellent behavior, so that even when they are slandered, their actions speak otherwise.

1 Peter 2:12 Keep your behavior excellent among the Gentiles, so that in the thing in which they slander you as evildoers, they may on account of your good deeds, as they observe [them,] glorify God in the day of visitation.

To​​ keep​​ is a continuous action, think ‘keep on keeping on’. ​​ Coming from the Greek word​​ echo,​​ it means to hold or to use. ​​ Consider what happens to your behavior once you are truly saved. ​​ You change! ​​ Those things you once thought were okay suddenly become questionable; your actions turn from being self-absorbed to becoming mindful of helping others. ​​ Your thoughts and words begin to reflect the Truth you believe. ​​ Your focus is changed as you seek to become more Christ-like in all your ways. ​​ And … others cannot help but notice. ​​ The importance of holding your actions to the standard of following Christ, using your behavior as a proof of your salvation; the necessity of changed behavior in bringing others to know God and in proving His testimony in your life, cannot be overemphasized.

‘Having your conversation’​​ KJV

‘Having your behavior’​​ ASV

‘Maintain good conduct’​​ RSV

‘Keep your conduct’​​ ESV

There is a need for awareness of our​​ behavior​​ and conversation as a believer. ​​ No longer do we say what might first come to mind, or act on impulse – instead, we consider Truth and act in such a way which will encourage​​ others and please God. ​​  ​​​​ Our actions and words need to be filtered through Truth. ​​ We seek to refrain from responding according to our feelings, instead​​ our lives should depict our relationship in Christ. ​​ 

Do you feel you just have to share something negative because it will make you feel better?

Are you maintaining a witness consistent with your salvation?

Are you excusing improper conduct towards others because you are ‘weak’, or cannot help​​ it, or you feel someone deserves you to be upset with them? ​​ 

Do you put limits on patience and love and serving, checking out when you have had enough or are tired of always being the ‘nice guy’, or simply do not feel like helping any longer? ​​ 

Do you only respond in love if others act accordingly?

 

We could ask ourselves all sorts of questions that are convicting regarding our behavior. ​​ It is no surprise that we all struggle with sin; but are we willing to change?  ​​​​ 1 Peter 2:12 does not give a choice,​​ it gives a command. ​​ Keep your behavior excellent so that Christ may be seen in you.

Read this quote from the​​ Jamieson-Fausset-Brown Commentary,​​ “Our conversation should correspond to our Saviour’s condition; this is in heaven, so ought that to be”.

Romans 12:17-18 Never pay back evil for evil to anyone. ​​ Respect what is right in the sight of all men. ​​ If possible, so far as it depends on you, be at peace with all men.

2 Corinthians 8:21 for we have regard for what is honorable, not only in the sight of​​ the Lord, but also in the sight of men.

Philippians 2:15 that you may prove yourselves to be blameless and innocent, children of God above reproach in the midst of a crooked and perverse generation, among whom you appear as lights in the world,

1 Peter 1:15 but like the Holy One who called you, be holy yourselves also in all [your] behavior;

“A good walk does not make us pious, but we must first be pious and believe before we attempt to lead a good course”,​​ Luther.

Peter’s words are to​​ Christians who are being ridiculed and persecuted because of their faith. ​​ However, he does not make amends for them to take into account their hurt, or difficult circumstances. ​​ Rather, the admonition is to keep going regardless! ​​ 

Concerning ourselves we​​ are to maintain a character that represents our life in Christ. ​​ Notice there is a personal responsibility to one’s own behavior. ​​ We are to be mindful and sensitive to our​​ own​​ actions and words, not quickly pointing out another’s mistakes but having our own​​ witness point towards God.

Our behavior is the manner in which we act or control ourselves. ​​ There is no truth for the thought, “I can’t help it, it is just the way I am”. ​​ Our conduct in all circumstances should emulate our change as a new creature in Christ. ​​ God wants us to be holy, therefore, He will provide the means to grow us toward His holiness.  ​​​​ Our conversation in all circumstances should reflect our position as His child.

There is a familiar cliche which says, “do as I say, not as I do”. ​​ This​​ is an unfortunate example of excusing one’s own mistakes and making exception for unfit behavior while ordering others to have a higher standard. ​​ This is hypocrisy! ​​ We are to be an example – not perfect by any means – but striving for holiness, confessing and turning from sin rather than making excuses.

1 Peter 2:12 says our behavior is to be​​ excellent! ​​ Excellent is translated from​​ kalos, meaning beautiful, good, valuable, or virtuous. ​​ This is more than just being better than another, like grading on​​ a curve in school.  ​​​​ It is a standard of moral excellence; doing what is right and avoiding what is wrong. ​​ It is not​​ “barely unblamable, but virtuous in every respect”,​​ John Wesley’s Notes on the Old and New Testaments. ​​ Matthew Poole’s Commentary​​ explains having your conversation honest​​ as “irreprehensible, fruitful, such as may gain men’s love, and commend the religion you profess”.

As God’s child you are held to His standard of holiness. ​​ This is exhausting! ​​ It takes purpose, commitment, and the understanding that only through Christ’s strength are we able to be holy. ​​ We are to always be on guard ready to defend the hope we have in Jesus. ​​ 

Are you clothed in armor appropriate for the battle? ​​ Look​​ up and read​​ Ephesians 6:10-17​​ in your Bible.

Are you seeking to live an upright and consistent life?

Notice the word consistent in the previous question. ​​ This is our daily life, no matter where we are or who we are dealing with. ​​ In other words, it is not acting a certain way only when others are watching or when we are at a ‘church’ function, or particularly mindful of our surroundings. ​​ The goal is a 24/7 witness of God’s grace and mercy which has been extended towards us because of His great love. ​​ William Burkitt New Testament,​​ notes this​​ “is not a single action, but our general course and conversation, that denotes us either good or bad; and the word translated honest, signifies fair​​ and amiable, beautiful and adorning, the doing nothing that is unseemly or a blemish either to our person or profession”.

 2 Corinthians 1:12 For our proud confidence is this, the testimony of our conscience, that​​ in holiness and godly sincerity, not in fleshly wisdom but​​ in the grace of God, we have conducted ourselves​​ in the world, and especially toward you.

 Philippians 1:27 Only​​ conduct yourselves in a manner worthy of the gospel of Christ; so that whether I come and see you or remain absent, I may hear​​ of you that you are standing firm in one spirit, with one mind striving together for the faith of the gospel;

 1 Timothy 4:12 Let no one look down on your youthfulness, but [rather]​​ in speech, conduct, love, faith [and] purity, show yourself an example of​​ those who believe.

Peter specifically mentions excellent behavior​​ among the Gentiles​​ – meaning those who are not saved. ​​ The recipients of Peter’s letter were surrounded by heathens who observed their conduct. ​​ These atheists were prone to look for reasons to attack those who did not worship their false gods. ​​ Robertson’s NT Word Pictures​​ says,​​ “The Gentiles were on the watch for slips in moral conduct by the Christians”. ​​​​ Think! ​​​​ This is the same for us today; we are surrounded by those who have not trusted Jesus alone. ​​ Have you ever noticed that those who have opposite loyalties or convictions sometimes wait for others to fail? ​​ This is the ‘I told you so’ mentality. ​​ We want our witness to shine God’s glory​​ rather than turn people away. ​​ When others look for something negative, we want them to see only that which brings honor to God. ​​ We may be reproached for our faith but let us not give grounds for reproach.

1 Peter 2:12 goes on to say,​​ ‘so that in the thing in which they slander you as evildoers, they​​ may on account of your good deeds, as they observe [them], glorify God in the day of visitation’.

Albert Barnes’ NT Commentary​​ reads,​​ “at the very time when they speak against you in this manner they may be silenced by seeing your upright lives … that they may see by your meek and upright conduct that there is really no ground for reproach … that in the very matter for which we are reproached we are conscientious and honest”.

2 Corinthians 13:7 Now we pray to God that you do no wrong; not that we ourselves may appear approved, but that you may do what is right, even though we should appear unapproved.

The goal then is to persuade them by means of honest behavior to think differently upon the very things they revile. ​​ Sometimes the best way to answer a false charge is to give no evidence for it in your actions. ​​ Perhaps your honest conduct will be a tool used as those around you acknowledge your sincere behavior and see God’s work in your life. ​​ The prayer is that God will have mercy upon them which brings​​ them to an understanding of His love by our example.

Matthew 5:16 "Let your light shine before men in such a way that they may see your good works, and glorify your Father who is in heaven.

John 15:8 "By this is My Father glorified, that you bear much​​ fruit, and [so] prove to be My disciples.

Romans 13:13 Let us behave properly as in the day, not in carousing and drunkenness, not in sexual promiscuity and sensuality, not in strife and jealousy.

Titus 2:7-8 in all things show yourself to be an example of​​ good deeds, [with] purity in doctrine, dignified,​​ sound [in] speech which is beyond reproach, in order that the opponent may be put to shame, having nothing bad to say about us.

Hebrews 12:15 See to it that no one comes short of the grace of God; that no​​ root of bitterness springing up causes trouble, and by it many be defiled;

1 Peter 3:16 and keep a good conscience so that in the thing in which you are slandered, those who revile your good behavior in Christ may be put to shame.

“It was incumbent on Christians to maintain an honorable and becoming conversation, in all respects, among their Gentile neighbors: that whereas these, through their enmity against God and true religion, and their ignorant prejudices were led to invent and propagate slanders concerning them as evil-doers, or malefactors guilty of crimes injurious to society (verse 14), because they would not join with them in the established idolatry; Christians might silence their calumnies, and soften their prejudices, by their evident and abundant good works. Thus their example in the presence of their enemies, would concur with the preaching of the gospel in promoting the conversion of the Gentiles; and “in the day of their visitation,” when the Lord should please to call them also by his grace​​ to glorify his name, the holy lives of his people would be owned as the means of that happy change”,​​ Thomas Scott.

Is your conversation honest?

Do your works glorify God?

Does your conduct align with the world or according to the Gospel you​​ profess?

Consider again the group of Christians Peter is exhorting. ​​ They were surrounded by those of the same governing authorities, yet they had professed faith in Jesus Christ. ​​ It was important for them to behave different than those who were not Christians.

1 Peter 4:14-16 If you are reviled for the name of Christ, you are blessed, because the Spirit of glory and of God rests upon you. ​​ By no means let any of you suffer as a murderer, or thief, or evildoer, or a troublesome meddler;​​ but if [anyone suffers] as a Christian, let him not feel ashamed, but in that name let him glorify God.

“Our conduct as Christians should be such as to bear the strictest scrutiny; such that the closest examination will lead our​​ enemies to the conviction; that we are upright​​ and honest”,​​ Albert Barnes’ NT Commentary. ​​ 

“Having your​​ conversation honest, fair and honourable​​ among the Gentiles, particularly in an exemplary discharge of all social and relative duties;​​ that whereas they speak against you, as evil-doers, in separating from the worship of their gods, and joining yourselves with what they presumptuously call the impious sect of Christians,​​ they being eye-witnesses continually of your good works, may not only lay aside these blasphemous reproaches, but exchange them for commendations and praises; and so​​ may glorify God in the day of their visitation, during the season in which the gospel is preached among them, whereby they are visited with the offers of pardon and salvation”,​​ Philip Doddridge N.T.

The​​ day of visitation​​ means generally a time period of inspection​​ “designed to confer favours rather than to inflict punishment … to denote God’s coming to men to bless them; to pour out His Spirit upon them; to revive religion”,​​ Albert Barnes NT Commentary.

The whole focus of​​ keeping excellent behavior among those who do not know Jesus is the hope that God will call them to a saving knowledge of Christ. ​​ We are here to make disciples, to share the Truth of the gospel. ​​ Our lives should glorify God in the hopes that those who surround us will think more favorably of the One we follow and be drawn towards Him.​​