Happy Valentine’s Day

Valentine’s Day. ​​​​ In our culture​​ today, it marks the recognition of that someone special in your life. ​​ Flowers, chocolates, hearts, cupids, and love letters are all part of this​​ celebration. ​​ We confess undying love to those who are important to us, relating to them that we would do anything for them.

So consider those who are special to you. ​​ Picture their faces and the relationships​​ you have with them. ​​ ​​ Each of them has been created by God who loves you immensely – more than you could begin to imagine. ​​ Today, as you remember those you love,​​ thank God for His many blessings of friends and family. ​​ And most important,​​ remember the One who gave His only Son so​​ that​​ you could have eternal life –​​ all​​ because He loves you! ​​​​ 

Does God have your whole heart?

Psalm 119:10a With​​ all my heart I​​ have​​ sought Thee;​​ 

The heart encompasses the will and the intellect. ​​ All my heart means exactly what is says –​​ everything in me strives to know God. ​​ 

One commentary​​ says we​​ “must seek God; make earnest prayer and supplication to Him for Divine light, for a tender conscience, and for strength to walk uprightly”. ​​​​ All the while, with a whole heart – all our affections,​​ (Adam Clarke’s Commentary).

Think of the difference between being fully committed to something and just somewhat supportive. ​​ The first means you are all in and ready to use your time, energy, and resources towards the fruition of a goal. ​​ The second is a bit sketchy. ​​ Maybe​​ you will avail yourself to the cause​​ if​​ it works in your schedule or it does not take too much effort or sacrifice on your part. ​​ Often ‘lip service’ is the extent of a shallow commitment. ​​ There are examples and warnings throughout God’s word of those who lack a whole heart devotion to God. ​​ Consider the nation of Israel as they flopped backed and forth in their faithfulness to God. ​​​​ 

Psalm 78:37 For their heart was not steadfast toward Him,​​ nor were they faithful in His covenant.

Their whole heart was not engaged in worship and prayer to the God who loved them. ​​ God does not want​​ only​​ a portion of our heart; He requires our entire being.​​ ​​ 

A common scenario​​ we might see​​ today is a couple having dinner or lunch​​ with​​ either one or both on a phone, talking, texting,​​ or searching the web. ​​ One might wonder if they are really spending time together. ​​ I remember a specific instance when my husband and I were in a small café and a family walked in with three teenage children. ​​ They sat at a table near us, and we were immediately transported to a time of nostalgia when our children were about the same age. ​​ The conversation around a table at that time in our lives was often filled with laughter as each family member engaged in one other’s recall of a latest adventure. ​​ This interaction was an important part of growing close in our understanding of each other. ​​ As my husband and I glanced back at the group near us, we were disappointed to realize that although they were physically in each other’s company, each had in their hand an electronic device. ​​ There was deafening silence emitting from this family of five. ​​ They were​​ physically​​ present but their minds elsewhere.

Think of your relationship with God. ​​ Are you engaged with His truths,​​ seeking to understand His word with ears that listen, fully devoted to His worship? ​​ Or is your mind elsewhere as you give​​ only lip-service to His name?

Treasure the commitment and love you have with others. ​​ Hold them close and​​ seek to be an encouragement. ​​ Recognize them as God’s blessings, and bow before Him in thankfulness for the gift of His great love.​​ ​​ Offer your whole heart​​ to His name for His glory.

Be​​ hopefully​​ devoted​​ to Him – having the certain hope of a future in heaven with Him and a zealous commitment to do His will on earth.

Christmas

Through Christ, all sin was atoned for, all sin past, present, and future.

John 3:16 For God so loved the world, that He gave His only begotten Son, that whoever believes in Him should not perish, but have eternal life.

The question –​​ How can one be born again? ​​ 

The answer – Christmas, the birth of Jesus Christ.

The explanation –​​ For God so loved the world. ​​ The reason we can celebrate Jesus’ birth is God’s love for mankind. ​​ We are imperfect, we mess up, we make the wrong choices, we even do bad things – this is called sin. ​​ No matter how hard we try we are unable to break​​ through the bondage of sin on our own. ​​ God knows this,​​ so out of His perfect love for us,​​ God gave His only begotten Son. ​​ Jesus, born in human flesh, God​​ incarnate, lived among us. ​​ Jesus – Teacher, Healer,​​ Perfect in all His ways,​​ Savior of the world, came to earth so we​​ might live​​ free from the power of sin now and free from the presence of sin in the future. ​​  ​​​​ 

Do you believe? ​​​​ 

The promise​​ ​​ Whoever​​ believes in Him should not perish. ​​​​ Everyone​​ who​​ genuinely​​ places their complete faith and trust in Jesus’ birth, death, and resurrection​​ will absolutely not perish; we will not be under the hand and power of sin’s destruction. ​​ We will not be separated eternally from God. ​​ Faith and trust in the things of this world is transient. ​​ Disappointment will meet us at every corner. ​​ However one thing remains constant​​ – faith and trust in an all-powerful and perfect God. ​​ Through Christ, all sin was atoned for, all sin past, present, and future. ​​ No one is ‘good enough’ however, everyone is welcome. ​​ Because​​ God​​ loves​​ you​​ – not​​ based​​ on​​ your own​​ merit – but based on His choice,​​ you can choose to believe.

The result –​​ Eternal life.​​ ​​ Consider –​​ perpetual​​ suffering​​ and​​ destruction​​ versus eternal joy​​ in God’s presence.

The​​ answer to Nicodemus’ question, ‘How can one be born again’ is Christmas. ​​ Through the greatest gift ever given, the birth of a Savior. ​​ Through God’s grace alone, through faith​​ and trust alone, in Christ alone, we are saved from sin to eternal life.​​ 

Celebrate Jesus’ birth. ​​ I pray you are filled with the joy and peace of the Gospel.​​ 

 

Focus Heavenward

Flash back to the spring of 1998. My first child was accepted into a college he had applied to. This was great news and this was not so great news as felt by a mother’s heart. This university happened to be located almost fifteen hundred miles away from home! Think the late 1990’s, before FaceTime was available to the general public. Keeping in touch was done by phone, email or snail mail. There was no snap chat or instant messaging, and pushing a “purchase” button on an Amazon shopping icon wasn’t familiar, if it even existed. We had cell phones but compared to the devices we have now, they were pretty slim in their options (however, not in their size!! They looked like big black walkie talkies with antennas, and forget fitting a phone into your jeans pocket!). Everyone we knew had land lines as their main phone connection.

I plastered a smile on my face to hide the hole in my heart and helped our son get ready for the grand adventure ahead of him. We decided to make the trip into a vacation for all of us. The traveling provided some good together time before the makeup of our family, as we knew it, changed forever.

We gave our son several prepaid phone cards, and after we helped settle him into his dorm room, we said good-bye. There is something about that first child moving out that brutally reminds parents that this person they had nurtured from birth until now, had always belonged to God. It’s something you know and fully accept and even want for them but the reality hits hard when you begin the long drive home with an extra seat in the van.

Ge 33:5 And he lifted his eyes and saw the women and the children, and said, “Who are these with you?” So he said, “The children whom God has graciously given your servant.”

In accordance with Scripture, everything we have belongs to God. We are stewards of His creation. This includes our children!

Any type of change disrupts our comfort. The birth of a child, the release of a child, marriage, relocation, illness, loss of a friend, and even ministry changes, serving in a different area or assuming different responsibilities. It doesn’t matter whether it’s good, bad, exciting or disturbing, chosen or forced upon. Change is difficult and scary and leaves you feeling vulnerable.

What does one do with the emotions that accompany significant change?

In the world you turn towards the things that seem to offer stability, albeit temporal. You may concentrate on the things you feel you can control. You may decide to ignore changing circumstances until the point in which they must be acknowledged.

In the believing Christian world, the effects of change are still felt but (hopefully) the reaction is different. You turn towards God for peace and assurance. You trust He is in control and will guide your direction. You pray for perspective and a response that proves you are His child. You focus heavenward.

At the time of releasing my first child I began writing via email to him, signing each letter with the reminder to keep his focus heavenward no matter what circumstances were presented. (I always drew an arrow pointing upwards as a visual.)      Focusing on God, keeping him close in heart is the one thing I knew would act as a comfort and guidance to my son. I’m not sure if that reminder did more for me or my child. But, I knew God’s plan was for good and I personally needed that constant message to keep my focus on His truth, His promises, His care and to trust in God’s ownership of my son.

How do you focus heavenward?

I had a website at that time under the name ‘Focus Heavenward’ with the statement that its purpose was to be used as a tool to look to the Bible for growth, purpose and encouragement. The site was a collection of past and present Bible studies and women’s retreats I had written over the years.

In order to focus heavenward, a direction is assumed. That direction is up. Up towards a higher position, up towards God. Up towards something that has greater value. In order to focus heavenward, faith in someone bigger than ourselves needs to have been claimed. In order to focus heavenward, a desire to give attention to someone other than ourselves is necessary. In order to focus heavenward, we need to follow the One whose established throne is in heaven.

Whenever life’s direction is significantly altered or disrupted from what is familiar, we respond in one of two ways. We fight it or we accept it. Fighting change won’t stop change, it will only make change more difficult. Accepting change as a necessary part of life will ease the paths of uncertainty.

God permits and sometimes even instructs circumstances in our lives in order to draw our eyes upward. Hanging onto God’s overwhelming love for His children, and His perfect plan and control of all things will allow us, through His grace, to focus heavenward through joyous times and even through tears.
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