Serving for the Benefit of Others

Since we are all servants of the Lord, each of us has opportunities to encourage, to share Truths from God’s word, to edify one another – all for God’s glory.

1Peter 5:2-4

 

Recall from our last study, the Apostle Peter counts himself among those who are leading the church. He does this with humility and describes himself as one who has witnessed the sufferings of Christ, and one who is promised the glory of Heaven. In the next few verses, Peter gives general instruction to the leaders of the church, explains the details of his instruction, and encourages them with a reminder of their future in Christ.​​ 

1Peter 5:2-4 shepherd the flock of God among you, exercising oversight not under compulsion, but voluntarily, according to the will of God; and not for sordid gain, but with eagerness; nor yet as lording it over those allotted to your charge, but proving to be examples to the flock. And when the Chief Shepherd appears, you will receive the unfading crown of glory.​​ 

The Apostle gives a general instruction to​​ shepherd the flock, then he describes what it means. He answers the question, ‘How are we to do this?’.​​ 

By exercising oversight not under compulsion, but voluntarily, according to the will of God;​​ 

Not for sordid gain, but with eagerness;​​ 

Nor yet as lording it over those allotted to your charge, but proving to be examples to the flock.​​ 

The ‘flock’ are those who follow Jesus, those who belong to God. The elders or ministers of the church are to care for God’s children. This is a serious stewardship and responsibility.​​ Thought – do you pray for the elders in​​ your church? How difficult do you think it might be to oversee individuals who have different personalities, come from different backgrounds and experiences, and are in varying stages of spiritual growth and maturity?​​ 

Shepherds guide their flock to food, and they protect their flock. The KJV reads ‘feed the flock’. Peter would well remember this same charge repeatedly given to him by Jesus. Recall that three times Peter had denied Jesus​​ (Matthew 26:70,72,74).​​ In the book of John, we read the interaction between the risen Christ and Peter. Jesus questions Peter’s love for him three times; then Jesus gives him a charge to care for the church – three times. The repetition of this exchange​​ is important to show​​ Peter’s genuine repentance, but also the repetition to shepherd the flock​​ shows it is gravely important.​​ 

John 21:15-17 So when they had finished breakfast, Jesus *said to Simon Peter, "Simon, son of John, do you love Me more than these?" He *said to Him, "Yes, Lord; You know that I love You." He *said to him,​​ "Tend My lambs."​​ He *said to him again a second time, "Simon, son of John, do you love Me?" He *said to Him, "Yes, Lord; You know that ​​ I love You." He *said to him,​​ "Shepherd My sheep."​​ He *said to him the third time, "Simon, son of John, do you love Me?" Peter was grieved because He said to him the​​ third time, "Do you love Me?" And he said to Him, "Lord, You know all things; You know that I love You." Jesus *said to him,​​ "Tend My sheep.​​ 

Paul gave the same instruction to the elders in Ephesus as they gathered in Miletus.​​ Acts 20:28 "Be on guard for yourselves and for all the flock, among which the Holy Spirit has made you overseers, to​​ shepherd the church of God​​ which He purchased with His own blood.​​ 

When you read this verse, what insights do you have?​​ I thought it was interesting when I read one commentary on the explanation of feeding the flock. It simply said, ‘Do not fleece the flock’​​ (Adam Clarke’s Commentary).​​ The meaning is quite clear – to fleece someone means to rip them off for your own benefit. This is the opposite of feeding the flock with the purpose of growing their understanding and desiring their individual blessing as a result. It is the opposite of caring for them. The leaders were to shepherd the flock of God among them, or those in close proximity to them. They were to shepherd the flock diligently and willingly, not because they had to but because they wanted to.​​ 

“Not by constraint, but willingly. Not as if you felt that a heavy yoke was imposed on you, or a burden from which you would gladly be discharged. Go cheerfully to your duty as a work which you love, and act like a freeman in it, and not as a slave. Arduous as are the labours of the ministry, yet there is no work on earth in which a man can and should labour more cheerfully”,​​ Albert Barnes’ NT Commentary.​​ 

Exercising oversight not under compulsion, but voluntarily, according to the will of God;​​ They were to care for the church, understanding they were stewards of God’s church, and they were to set the greater interest of their ministry on those who were in their immediate surroundings. God has purposefully placed His children right where He wants them. Not by compulsion – as if forced to do so, but voluntarily – willingly. Think of the difference between being made to do something and wanting to do something. The church at the time Peter wrote this was under persecution; overseeing the spiritual care of individuals was a difficult task. Serving should not be looked upon as a burden.​​ 

Although these instructions are written to a specific group of individuals – the elders and leaders of the church – this does not mean we can cast away the principles set before us. Since we are all servants of the Lord, each of us has opportunities to encourage, to share Truths from God’s word, to edify one another – all for God’s glory.

​​ Do you serve willingly with a cheerful heart, grateful for the opportunities God gives you? Or do you serve because you feel pressured to do so?​​ 

What is the attitude of your service? Are we truly desiring spiritual growth and blessing in other’s lives?​​ 

The purpose of our service is to glorify God, the mission of our service is to share the Gospel. We are to act according to God’s will, not our own. Our service should not be for our own gain, but the blessing and spiritual growth of others; this is what glorifies God.

When our sight is on God’s glory, we are not as easily discouraged. We cannot be driven by what we think but rather our actions are to be based on the Truths in God’s Word.​​ How can we be certain we are acting according to God’s will rather than our own desires?​​ 

Psalm 54:6 Willingly I will sacrifice to You; I will give thanks to Your name, O LORD, for it is good.​​ 

Psalm 78:70-72 He also chose David His servant and took him from the sheepfolds; from the care of the ewes with suckling lambs He brought him to shepherd Jacob His people, and Israel His inheritance. So he shepherded them according to the integrity of his heart, and guided them with his skillful hands.​​ 

And not for sordid gain, but with eagerness;​​ 

Are you looking to get or give? Are you seeking to be noticed?​​ 

Again, be certain of your motivation. We should not serve to look important or to be recognized. If this is your goal, you will be easily discouraged and lose your​​ interest and​​ become disenchanted with others. Instead, we should serve willingly, always motivated by our love for God and for one another.​​ 

“But of a ready mind. Cheerfully, promptly. We are to labour in this work, not under the influence of the desire of gain, but from the promptings of love. There is all the difference conceivable between one who does a thing because he is paid for it and one who does it from love--between, for example, the manner in which one attends on us when we are sick who loves us, and one who is merely hired to do it”,​​ Albert Barnes’ NT Commentary.​​ 

Nor yet as lording it over those allotted to your charge,​​ 

The leaders in the church were not to think of themselves as greater than those they were shepherding; theirs was not a position of control but of shepherding, teaching, and caring for the flock. Looking at the translation of these words, it could be worded ‘but not in a manner of dominating God’s children’. Everyone, especially those in any kind of leadership position, needs to remember they are stewards in all roles God has placed them. It is an honor and a privilege to serve our Lord. Remember, those who are called by God belong to Him.​​ 

Matthew 20:25-28 But Jesus called them to Himself and said, "You know that the rulers of the Gentiles lord it over them, and their great men exercise authority over them. "It is not this way among you, but whoever wishes to become great among you shall be your servant, and whoever wishes to be first among you shall be your slave; just as the Son of Man did not come to be served, but to serve, and to give His life a ransom for many."​​ 

2Corinthians 1:24 Not that we lord it over your faith, but are workers with you for your joy; for in your faith you are standing firm.​​ 

The leaders of the church are to guide the flock, feed the flock, and protect the flock, not in a position of absolute authority or dominion, but with a heart of love. There are many so-called religions whose leaders place themselves in a position of authority and lordship which is exactly opposite of the teachings we find in God’s word. Think of the pharisees dressing in a certain way to be recognized. All honor and glory is​​ to be​​ for God alone.​​ 

Jeremiah 3:15 "Then I will give you shepherds after My own heart, who will feed you on knowledge and understanding.​​ 

“Preacher or minister, whosoever thou art, who readest this, apply not the word to thy neighbour, whether he be state-appointed, congregation-appointed, or self-appointed; take all to thyself; ... See that thy own heart, views, and conduct be right with God”,​​ Adam Clarke’s Commentary.​​ 

But proving to be examples to the flock. “Not assuming to yourselves dominion over those who fall to your lot; but being humble, and behaving towards them with such gentle, tender solicitude for their souls, and such an entire freedom from the very appearance either of avarice or ambition, that your examples may be rendered worthy the imitation of the flock, and your conduct as instructive as any of your cautions and precepts can be”,​​ Doddridge.​​ 

In other words, practice what you preach. To preach without practice is called hypocrisy.​​ 

Philippians 3:17 Brethren, join in following my example, and observe those who walk according to the pattern you have in us.​​ 

I am drawn to think of the sincerity of the heart. We all know individuals who say one thing and do another. Often, words alone do not convey what is in a person’s heart. It is the action we see which shows genuineness. Consider our greatest example of humility in leadership – Jesus. He walked as a man yet was Lord of all. He did not force His Truths upon others; He lived the Truth. His example was service, yet He had all authority. Following His Father’s plan was difficult, yet Jesus submitted to God’s will. Each of us should consider the example of our actions.​​ 

If I say I am a Christian, do I live as one? Are the words I share reflected in the life I live?​​ Telling others the way they should act is not as effective as showing others through your own life. The elders or leaders in the church were exhorted to shepherd those whom God had placed in their care. Shepherding was not a position of authority but rather a position of guidance and instruction in Truth by example. This was a high calling, and considering the period of time in which it was written, a difficult calling – one filled with trials and persecution – yet they were called to be faithful, to be humble, and to be an example. All the while looking to the glory of Heaven. This is the motivation and the promise to those who labor for Christ.​​ 

And when the Chief Shepherd appears, you will receive the unfading crown of glory.​​ The Chief Shepherd is Jesus. Those leaders who are faithful, who place themselves under Christ’s authority, who accept their role of shepherding the sheep with humility of heart and care for the lost, will be rewarded when Jesus returns.​​ “O ye heavenly-minded, diligent, self-denying pastors after God's own heart, whether ye be in the Church established by the state, or in those divisions widely separated from, or nearly connected with it, take courage; preach Jesus; press through all difficulties in the faith of your God; fear no evil while meditating nothing but good. Ye are stars in the right hand of Jesus, who walks among your golden candlesticks, and has lighted that lamp of life which ye are appointed to trim; fear not, your labour in the Lord cannot be in vain!”,​​ Adam Clarke’s Commentary.​​ 

Think of the analogy used above: a lighted candlestick which requires trimming. If you do not trim the wick of a candle, it will burn furiously bright for a while but will then dim and eventually drown itself out in a pool of hot wax. To remain a continuous steady light, it needs regular trimming.​​ 

1Peter 1:3-7 Blessed be the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, who according to His great mercy has caused us to be born again to a living hope through the resurrection of Jesus Christ from the dead, to obtain an inheritance which is imperishable and undefiled and will not fade away, reserved in heaven for you, who are protected by the power of God through faith for a salvation ready to be revealed in the last time. In this you greatly rejoice, even though now for a little while, if necessary, you have been distressed by various trials, so that the proof of your faith, being more precious than gold which is perishable, even though tested by fire, may be found to result in praise and glory and honor at the revelation of Jesus Christ;​​ 

1Corinthians 9:23-25 I do all things for the sake of the gospel, so that I may become a fellow partaker of it. Do you not know that those who run in a race all run, but only one receives the prize? Run in such a way that you may win. Everyone who competes in the games exercises self-control in all things. They then do it to receive a perishable wreath, but we an imperishable.​​ 

Notice it is an​​ unfading crown of glory​​ which is received. This is unlike the crowns used in that period of history for victors in public games and the conquerors of war. The crowns placed on their heads were made of leaves and flowers which would eventually fade and dry up. The Greek word used for ‘unfading’, or in the KJV, ‘that fadeth not away’, comes from the word for a flower called amaranth. Even after these flowers die, they retain their rich color. The crown of glory, also referred to as the crown of righteousness and the crown of life, is imperishable. An eternal reward awaits those who labor for Jesus.

2Timothy 4:8 in the future there is laid up for me the crown of righteousness, which the Lord, the righteous Judge, will award to me on that day; and not only to me, but also to all who have loved His appearing.​​ 

James 1:12 Blessed is a man who perseveres under trial; for once he has been approved, he will receive the crown of life which the Lord has promised to those who love Him.​​ 

“And if this be indeed your character and behaviour, you will render up your account hereafter with joy; for when he, who does you the honour to acknowledge himself the chief Shepherd of the flock, shall appear, to take the final survey of it, and examine into the conduct of those to whom he had partly committed it, you shall be most magnificently and nobly rewarded, and receive an unfading crown of glory: a crown which shall bloom in immortal beauty and vigour, when all the transitory glories of this world are withered like a fading flower”,​​ Doddridge.​​ 

Apply It!​​ 

Pray for​​ your Elders and Leaders that they seek to glorify God in their service.​​ 

Do you seek to make their leadership easier by trusting God for their direction or do you voice discontent regarding their leadership?​​ 

Do you serve with a cheerful heart, desiring​​ that others are​​ blessed? How can you grow in this area?​​ 

Are you discouraged if your service goes unrecognized? Do you need to check your motivation?​​ 

Do your words and actions reflect your love for God?

 

Entrusted to God; Living for Him

Think! God has entrusted you, as His child, with His Truths. This is enormous! It is the most valuable possession we can have –

In this last chapter of 1Peter, the Apostle concludes with instructions given to the elders of the church to shepherd the flock in verses 1-4. ​​ Then Peter gives​​ specific instructions to those who are younger, and also addresses the group as a whole – encouraging them, praying for them, praising God, and reminding them to stand firm in their faith.

1Peter 5:1 Therefore, I exhort the​​ elders among you, as your​​ fellow elder​​ and​​ witness of the sufferings of Christ, and a​​ partaker also of the glory that is to be revealed,​​ 

‘Therefore’​​ resumes the exhortation from​​ 1Peter 4:19, Therefore, those also who suffer according to the will of God shall entrust their souls to a faithful Creator in doing what is right. ​​ Peter’s message of ‘keep on keeping on with your focus on your heavenly future’​​ continues. It’s as if he is saying, ‘since​​ you have entrusted your souls to a faithful Creator in doing what is right’,​​ then​​ here is​​ your calling. ​​ Before we get to the specifics of what they ought to do, we’ll look at who this letter is addressed to and the words the Apostle uses to describe himself.

First, the Apostle addresses those in charge –​​ the elders among you. ​​ Peter includes himself in this group of those he is exhorting; he refers to himself as a​​ fellow elder. ​​ These are the individuals who care for the church – the shepherds of the flock, the teachers, pastors, elders, and deacons. They may have also been elders in age considering that Peter addresses the younger men in verse​​ five, but this does not change the exhortation to the ministers of the church. ​​ We learn something about Peter’s humility in this verse as he includes himself in the same role as the elders of the church. ​​ He was one of the twelve disciples and a witness of Jesus’ life and death, yet he does not place himself in any position except that of serving together with those he is writing to. ​​ He also spent time with Jesus under His direct teaching but notice that the direction Peter gives to these men who lead the church is for himself also. ​​ If we are worldly thinking, then who you know gives you clout. ​​ When we are Christ-minded, each of us is equal; the need for our salvation is the same; the price paid the same; the eventual fruition of God’s grace and mercy the same. ​​ Individually we have certain roles, but each person is needed and as important as another.

To​​ exhort​​ in this verse means to invite, to call for, to (be of good) comfort, to desire. ​​ It seems that this is not so much a command as it is an encouragement to come alongside one another in their endeavors to lead the flock. ​​ Read this as an earnest request from the Apostle to the ministers of the church to press on.

Note, Peter describes himself as a​​ witness of the sufferings of Christ.​​ Imagine, walking with Christ physically, in His footsteps literally. ​​ This was Peter’s experience.

 

Acts 1:21-22 "Therefore it is necessary that of the men who have accompanied us all the time that the Lord Jesus went in and out among us – beginning with the baptism of John until the day that He was taken up from us – one of these must become a witness with us of His resurrection."

 

Acts 2:32 "This Jesus God raised up again, to which we are all witnesses.

 

The Apostle​​ well understood the sufferings of Jesus.

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Acts 3:5 but put to death the Prince of life, the one whom God raised from the dead, a fact to which we are witnesses.

 

Acts 10:39 "We are witnesses of all the things He did both in the land of the Jews and in Jerusalem. They also put Him to death by hanging Him on a cross.

 

“He was with Christ in the garden; he was with him when he was apprehended. ​​ and he was with him in the high priest's hall. ​​ Whether he followed him to the cross we know not; … He could, however, with the strictest propriety, say, from the above circumstances, that he was a witness of the sufferings of Christ. We are all to be a witness for Christ”,​​ Adam Clarke’s Commentary.​​ 

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The word witness,​​ martus, is literal or figurative, by​​ analogy, a martyr, someone who gives his life. ​​ A witness is also someone who can give an account or record of what they have seen or heard. ​​ Read what Jesus said to the Apostles:

 

Luke 24:44-48 Now He said to them, "These are My words which I spoke to you while I was still with you, that all things which are written about Me in the Law of Moses and the Prophets and the Psalms must be fulfilled." ​​ Then He opened their minds to understand the Scriptures,​​ and He said to them, "Thus it is written, that the Christ would suffer and rise again from the dead the third day,​​ and that repentance for forgiveness of sins would be proclaimed in His name to all the nations, beginning from Jerusalem.​​ "You are witnesses of these things.

 

Acts 1:8 but you will receive power when the Holy Spirit has come upon you; and​​ you shall be My witnesses​​ both in Jerusalem, and in all Judea and Samaria, and even to the remotest part of the earth."

 

Pause for a moment and consider the Apostle who wrote this epistle. ​​ He walked with Jesus, he was friends with Jesus, shared meals with Him, and listened to His teachings. ​​ But Peter also knew what it meant to be pulled by fear, selfishness, and sin in the world. He denied the Teacher and Friend whom he​​ loved and​​ suffered the regret and shame of his weakness. ​​ Yet God still used him mightily. ​​ Our faithfulness may falter as we fight sin but God’s faithfulness to His children is always certain. ​​ Peter had witnessed the suffering of Jesus, he experienced His faithfulness and forgiveness, and now he was willing to suffer for Him.

 ​​​​ Think of the conversion of the Apostle Paul. ​​ Known by the name of Saul and a great persecutor of Christians,​​ God called him​​ to be a​​ witness,​​ and his life was dramatically changed. ​​ God is faithful to His children even when they are not, His forgiveness and blessings abound. ​​ This is a good reminder to move forward in our serving and walk with God despite our failures, because He is the One holding us up, providing His strength that we might continue to glorify His name. ​​ It is also an important reminder that we should never give up on praying for those who haven’t placed their trust in Jesus. ​​ God is working in hearts even though we may not see​​ it. ​​ There is no one He cannot save if they genuinely seek Him.

 

Acts 22:14-15 "And he said, 'The God of our fathers has appointed you to know His will and to see the Righteous One and to hear an utterance from His mouth.​​ 'For you will be a witness for Him to all men of what you have seen and heard.

 

Consider what it means personally for you to be a witness of Jesus Christ. ​​ To speak truth from God’s word, we must endeavor to know it; if we are to witness by our life, we must seek to understand what God desires from us so that we can be obedient and faithful to His call.

Think! ​​​​ God has entrusted you, as His child, with His Truths. ​​ This is enormous! ​​ It is the most valuable possession we can have – to be purchased by our Savior’s blood, to be called by God, to be an heir of His promises.

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  • Do you seek to be a faithful witness of God’s word in your speech and in your serving? If so, how – what does this look like? ​​ 

  • Is the desire of your life to be an ambassador of the Truth? Is your answer backed by action?​​ 

  • When others look at your life, do they ‘see’ Jesus; do they know there is something different about you? ​​ If asked about Jesus, do you respond as a witness of who He is and what He has done?

 

More than once, after sharing the Gospel with someone, I have heard their response of, ‘I know I need to do this but I’m not​​ ready’. ​​ There are examples written for us of those who were called by Jesus and​​ immediately​​ left what they were doing and followed Him. ​​ There is an urgency to respond to Him, tomorrow is not guaranteed. ​​​​ In and of ourselves we would never be ready to bow before Jesus and accept Him as our Lord and Savior. ​​ It is God’s work in us – when we respond to His call, it is His power which changes our thinking, our behavior, and all the ‘things’ in our lives that need attention.

 ​​​​ Everything else in our lives is secondary to our walk with Jesus. ​​ We are to be striving to become​​ increasingly​​ like Him, to give glory to God through our testimony of His truths. ​​ Being a Christian, a follower of Christ, is not something we add to our life – it becomes our purpose for living, our mode for serving, and our focus for the future.

Today, what is your purpose? How will you serve? ​​ Where is your focus?

 

Along with being a witness of the sufferings of Christ, the Apostle associates himself with​​ being a partaker also of the glory that is to be revealed. ​​ He shares in the praise and worship of Christ for the hope that is promised to those who follow Him. ​​ A believer’s inheritance is Heaven!​​ 

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Do you anticipate your home in Heaven where you will be in the presence of God’s glory?

 

I have sweet memories of spending time with my​​ dad​​ in the weeks before he passed away. ​​ He wanted to hear about heaven. ​​ He was not afraid of death, instead he looked forward to his future. ​​ I remember his eyes lighting up when we read the description of the holy city, Jerusalem, found in Revelation Chapter 21.

Imagine. ​​ The hope we have of heaven is absolutely certain. ​​ Those who have placed their trust in Christ alone for forgiveness of sins become heirs in God’s Kingdom. ​​​​ Not because we have earned it but because of His grace.

 

1Peter 1:3 Blessed be the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, who according to His great mercy has caused us to be born again to a living hope through the resurrection of Jesus Christ from the dead,​​ to obtain an inheritance which is imperishable and undefiled and will not fade away, reserved in heaven for you, who are protected by the power of God through faith for a salvation ready to be revealed in the last time.

 

1Peter 4:13 but to the degree that you share the sufferings of Christ, keep on rejoicing, so that also at the revelation of His​​ glory you may rejoice with exultation.

 

John 17:19-24 "For their sakes I sanctify Myself, that they themselves also may be sanctified in truth.​​ "I do not ask on behalf of these alone, but for those also who believe in Me through their word;​​ that they may all be one; even as You, Father, are in Me and I in You, that they also may be in Us, so that the world may believe that You sent Me.​​ "The glory which You have given Me I have given to them, that they may be one, just as We are one; I in them and You in Me, that they may be perfected in unity, so that the world may know that You sent Me, and loved them, even as You have loved Me.​​ "Father, I desire​​ that they also, whom You have given Me, be with Me where I am, so that they may see My glory which You have given Me, for You loved Me before the foundation of the world.

 

Romans 8:17-18 and if children, heirs also, heirs of God and fellow heirs with Christ, if indeed we suffer with Him so that we may also be glorified with Him.​​ For I consider that the sufferings of this present time are not worthy to be compared with the glory that is to be revealed to us.

 

Our purpose is to be a witness for Christ.

Our promise is Heaven.

 

Psalm 73:24-5 With Your counsel You will guide me, and afterward receive me to glory.​​ Whom have I in heaven but You? And besides You, I desire nothing on earth.

 

Some questions for application –

 

Are you willing to check your priorities? ​​ Specifically, what causes you to neglect reading your Bible and praying? ​​ 

If you are in a Growth Group​​ or Bible study, are​​ you​​ committed​​ to attending and serving in your group or do you make excuses to not attend each week? ​​ 

 

​​ Think – when we are committed to something, we are faithful. ​​ This means if we attend a Growth Group, or Bible study, or go to church on​​ Sunday, then we hold those commitments as a priority, not purposefully making other plans at those times, or only attending when we feel like it or when it fits into our busy schedule. ​​ If​​ our pattern is​​ one of​​ ​​ being too tired or too busy to commit to fellowship and encouragement of others, this​​ should cause us to re-think our priorities.

 

Do you attend church services or go to a GG or Bible Study or church event to be served or to serve?  ​​​​ 

 

We are encouraged when we encourage others. ​​ We can easily take for granted our ability to meet publicly, let’s remember this is an incredible blessing – one which many believers in parts of the world do not have. ​​ Lord, increase our understanding of Your blessings!

Help us to take seriously our witness of Christ; help us to live focused on our hope of Heaven.  ​​​​ 

 

Serving For Him and Because of Him

God uses us; however, we must be careful to remember He is the author of all good things. Anytime we are able to help, encourage, or serve, it is not to be for personal accolades. It is for His praise alone.

1Peter 4:11​​ Whoever speaks, is to do so as one who is speaking the utterances of God;​​ whoever serves is to do so as one who is serving by the strength which God supplies; so that in all things God may be glorified through Jesus Christ, to whom belongs the glory and dominion forever and ever. ​​ Amen.

A few weeks ago, we began looking at this verse and concentrated on the Apostle’s admonition to be careful of the content of our words,​​ Whoever speaks, is to do so as one who is speaking the utterances of God.​​  ​​​​ No matter what particular gifts we may use to serve one another, our speech needs to represent the Word correctly. ​​ We are to be mindful of sharing words of encouragement, words of compassion, and words of Truth.

In the next section of verse 11, Peter now expands on serving – how we are to serve, and why we are to serve. ​​ Whoever serves is to do so as one who is serving by the strength which God supplies;

What often happens when we seek to serve in our own strength?

The serving mentioned here is that of attending to another’s needs as a friend, or in ministry in specific roles in the church. ​​ Serving takes time, commitment, and energy; it often affects our personal life, finances, and requires decisions to put aside our wants and schedules to meet the needs of others. ​​ If you are involved in serving, you recognize that a large part of your life is spent in ministry – preparing, praying, and encouraging others. ​​ My own opinion is if you are bored, you’re not serving enough. ​​ Pull out a piece of paper and write an encouraging note; pick up your phone and share encouraging words. ​​ If you are lonely, you are not looking for opportunities to serve. ​​ If you become discouraged, disappointed, or depressed, serve more – get involved in people’s lives for the sake of encouraging others. ​​ When we are consumed with serving to benefit others, we will not have the time to concentrate on ourselves, our feelings, etc. ​​​​ We do need to take care of everyday responsibilities, so this does not mean we serve in lieu of dealing with the immediate things that need our attention. ​​ It does mean if we are​​ only​​ focused on our own issues, we are in danger of ignoring opportunities to help others.

How do we serve?

By the strength which God supplies.​​ ​​ God blesses each of His children with gifts to be used for Him. ​​ Our talents, abilities, strength,​​ and​​ compassion, are not given to us to make us feel good about ourselves, instead we use these things to encourage others in the faith. ​​ All we are and have, is for God’s glory.

Romans 12:6-8 Since we have gifts that differ according to the grace given to us, each of us is to exercise them accordingly: if prophecy, according to the proportion of his faith; if service, in his serving; or he who teaches, in his teaching; or he who exhorts, in his exhortation; he who gives, with liberality; he who leads, with diligence; he who shows mercy, with cheerfulness.

God uses us;​​ however,​​ we must be careful to remember​​ He​​ is the author of all good things. ​​ Anytime we are able to help, encourage, or serve, it is not to be for personal accolades. ​​ It is for His praise alone.

“[Of the ability which God giveth] Perhaps the ministering here may refer to the care of the poor, and the ability is the quantum of means which God may have placed in their hands; and they are to minister this as coming immediately from God, and lead the minds of the poor to consider Him as their benefactor, that He in all things may be glorified through Christ Jesus. ​​ This is implied in the essence of any charitable act: the actor is not the author, God is the author; and the poor man should be taught to consider Him as his immediate benefactor. ​​ Those who give any thing as from themselves, rob God; for to Him the praise for all good, and the dominion over all men and things, belong for ever and ever. ​​ ​​​​ Adam Clarke’s Commentary

We should serve in humility, knowing it is God’s work through us;

we should serve diligently, knowing it is God’s desire for us.

 

Matthew Poole’s Commentary​​ says,​​ “Let him do it as of the ability which God giveth; i.e. not remissly and coldly, but diligently and strenuously, and with his might, as far as God enables him; this being to do it faithfully, which is especially required in a steward,​​ 1Corinthians 4:2 In this case, moreover, it is required of stewards that one be found trustworthy”.

Consider. ​​ We serve in God’s strength, using the gifts He has given to each of us. ​​ We are to be found trustworthy in being good stewards of the abilities we have. ​​ Therefore, we do not hide our talents in the closet but rather, we need to be sensitive to the areas where we can be helpful. ​​ In this way, the truths of the Gospel are manifest in our lives as a witness to those around us.

Why do you serve? ​​ What is your motivation?

There are some who are not believers, who serve others. ​​ But they get their rewards in full here on earth by men. ​​ The motivation is to do something good,​​ yet invariably they gain something. ​​ A special interest​​ of theirs​​ gets attention, their financial donations offer a tax benefit, or perhaps they get support from a foundation they choose to help. ​​ Something or someone other than God is elevated. ​​ 

Matthew 6:1-2 "Beware of practicing your righteousness before men to be noticed by them; otherwise you have no reward with your Father who is in heaven. ​​ So when you give to the poor, do not sound a trumpet before you, as the hypocrites do in the synagogues and in the streets, so that they may be honored by men. ​​ Truly I say to you, they have their reward in full.

There’s lots of reasons people serve in the church. ​​ We need to be careful even when serving in the church body because our motivation may be for self. ​​ Some give of their time, energy, and resources because it is expected, and others may be watching. ​​ Some serve because it gives them a sense of belonging. ​​ Unfortunately, recognition, titles, popularity, and importance can be motivators in serving in a church body. ​​ But what if no one encouraged you; what if no one recognized your hard work; what if you felt unsupported and were even discouraged by others’ lack of response – would you keep serving? ​​ Do you serve when it means sacrificing your time, or when it gets difficult?

As a side note, we should try to show our appreciation for those who work hard to serve us so this is not a license to ignore those who serve diligently; but appreciation should never be expected. ​​ You should squelch those feelings of hurt when your efforts go unnoticed.

Consider what Christ did for us. ​​ He came to serve – not for His own benefit, but for the glory of His Father. ​​ He was ignored; He was not appreciated. ​​ He never belonged, in fact he had nowhere to even lay His head. ​​ Matthew 8:20 Jesus *said to him, "The foxes have holes and the birds of the air have nests, but the Son of Man has nowhere to lay His head. ​​ "He was of lowly birth​​ (Luke 2:7 And she gave birth to her firstborn son; and she wrapped Him in cloths, and laid Him in a manger, because there was no room for them in the inn). ​​ His ministry was challenged, certainly not supported​​ (Mark 11:27-33); He was threatened, and ridiculed, beaten, and crucified. ​​ Yet, even while dying on the cross, He served – asking forgiveness for those who sinned and proclaiming salvation to one of the criminals crucified with Him.

Are you self-serving or serving God? ​​ Do your thoughts center more on how you feel or what you can do to encourage others? ​​​​ If you are serving self, you are likely to receive earthly benefits; serving for God’s glory will prove your eternal birth right.

Matthew 7:21-23 "Not everyone who says to Me, 'Lord, Lord,' will enter the kingdom of heaven, but he who does the will of My Father who is in heaven will enter. ​​ "Many will say to Me on that day, 'Lord, Lord, did we not prophesy in Your name, and in Your name cast out demons, and in Your name perform many miracles?' "And then I will declare to them, 'I never knew you; DEPART FROM ME, YOU WHO PRACTICE LAWLESSNESS.'

We serve​​ so that in all things God may be glorified through Jesus Christ, to whom belongs the glory and dominion forever and ever. ​​ Amen.

Remember the account written for us in Mark, of James and John asking who would sit on Jesus’ right and left in glory. ​​ They were all about themselves, seeking their own benefit. ​​ Jesus’ reply to them is recorded in​​ Mark 10:42-45.

Calling them to Himself, Jesus *said to them, “You know that those who are recognized as rulers of the Gentiles lord it over them; and their great men exercise authority over them. ​​ “But it is not this way among you, but whoever wishes to become great among you shall be your servant; and whoever wishes to be first among you shall be slave of all. ​​ “For even the Son of Man did not come to be served, but to serve, and to give His life a ransom for many.”

Whatever you do is to be done for God’s glory. ​​ The last part of 1Peter 4:11 reads,​​ Jesus Christ, to whom belongs the glory and dominion forever and ever. ​​ Amen.

Revelation 5:12-13 saying with a loud voice, "Worthy is the Lamb that was slain to receive power and riches and wisdom and might and honor and glory and blessing." And every created thing which is in heaven and on the earth and under the earth and on the sea, and all things in them, I heard saying, "To Him who sits on the throne, and to the Lamb, be blessing and honor and glory and dominion forever and ever."

Ephesians 3:20-21 Now to Him who is able to do far more abundantly beyond all that we ask or think, according to the power that works within us,​​ to Him be the glory in the church and in Christ Jesus to all generations forever and ever. ​​ Amen.

Romans 11:36 For from Him and through Him and to Him are all things. ​​ To Him be the glory forever. ​​ Amen.

Jude 1:25 to the only God our Savior, through Jesus Christ our Lord, be glory, majesty, dominion and authority, before all time and now and forever. Amen.

Hebrews 13:20-21 Now the God of peace, who brought up from the dead the great Shepherd of the sheep through the blood of the eternal covenant, even Jesus our Lord,​​ equip you in every good thing to do His will, working in us that which is pleasing in His sight, through Jesus Christ, to whom be the glory forever and ever. ​​ Amen.

Think of the words associated with Christ – glory and dominion. ​​ There is none other who can rightly claim honor, praise, and worship. ​​ There is none other who has power and strength over all creation.​​ 

Amen. ​​ Literally, this is a trustworthy statement.

 

Speak His Truths,

serve in His strength,

all for His glory.

 

 

Growing in Holiness

What good is great accomplishment or an aesthetically pleasing outside if the heart within is in disarray?

 

 

1Peter​​ 3:1-6 In​​ the same way, you wives, be submissive to your own husbands so that even if any [of them] are disobedient to the word, they may be won without a word by the behavior of their wives,​​ as they observe your chaste and respectful behavior.​​ ​​ And let not your adornment be [merely] external--braiding the hair, and wearing gold jewelry, or putting on dresses;​​ but [let it be] the hidden person of the heart, with the imperishable quality of a gentle and quiet spirit, which is​​ precious​​ in the sight of God.​​ ​​ For in this way in former times the holy women also, who hoped in God, used to adorn themselves, being submissive to their own husbands.​​ ​​ Thus Sarah obeyed Abraham, calling him lord, and you have become her children if you do what is right without being frightened by any fear.

Verse five assigns a​​ general example​​ of​​ wives submitting to their husbands,​​ and verse six gives a​​ specific example. ​​ The Apostle​​ teaches the preference of​​ a​​ beautiful heart over beautiful​​ looks, reminding​​ women what is​​ the most​​ pleasing to God.

Examples of the past​​ are​​ a useful tool. ​​ Consider how important​​ your example might be to those following after you –​​ children, grandchildren, friends,​​ and family. ​​ Will they see a​​ heart​​ desiring to​​ honor Jesus? ​​​​ These women are described​​ as holy, hopeful, and submissive. ​​​​ Holiness​​ must come first – a heart yielded to God​​ – this​​ produces hope​​ in His promises​​ and​​ a desire to humbly obey His truths.

Holy – from​​ hagios,​​ means to be​​ morally blameless. ​​​​ A heart which is righteous or holy,​​ is one that follows Jesus. ​​ It is a heart​​ yielded​​ to Him​​ out of gratitude for​​ grace and mercy shown​​ at the cross.

Only God can make a heart holy. ​​ Yet we have work to do to. ​​ Look at the scriptures​​ below. ​​​​ What​​ habits or qualities are​​ seen​​ in those who seek​​ holiness? ​​ ​​ ​​ 

Colossians​​ 3:12-13​​ And so, as those who have been chosen of God, holy and beloved, put on a heart of compassion, kindness,​​ humility, gentleness and patience;​​ bearing with one another, and forgiving each other, whoever has a complaint against anyone; just as the Lord forgave you, so also should you.

Romans​​ 12:1 I urge you therefore, brethren, by the mercies of God, to present your bodies a living and holy sacrifice, acceptable to God, [which is] your spiritual service of worship.

Take a closer look​​ at​​ some of the words in the above verses.

Compassion​​ – inward affection and tender mercies; a deep awareness of and sympathy for another’s suffering

Kindness​​ ​​ usefulness, gentleness,​​ goodness; warmhearted, considerate, sympathetic

Humility​​ – of mind; a lack of false pride; no need for recognition; looking to others as being more important than oneself

Gentleness​​ – meekness, humility; mild, even-tempered, softness

Patience​​ ​​ longsuffering, fortitude; a good-natured tolerance of delay or incompetence​​ 

Forbearance​​ ​​ endurance; a delay in enforcing rights, claims, or privileges, patience

Forgiveness​​ ​​ graciousness, kindness; compassion that supports a willingness to forgive; the act of excusing a mistake or offense

Sacrifice​​ ​​ surrendering personal ‘rights’, likes, or desires

Service​​ ​​ worship; work​​ which​​ benefits another; help, assistance; to fulfill a purpose, role, or function; to devote one’s life or efforts

These words are not a checklist to complete and then feel good about oneself. ​​​​ Pleasing​​ God begins in your heart​​ devotion to Him. ​​ These qualities or habits​​ are​​ developed​​ as we seek to follow​​ God. ​​​​ 

John 17:17 "Sanctify them in the truth; Thy word is truth.

Sanctify​​ is derived from the same root word as holy. ​​ Holiness comes from the truth;​​ our​​ responsibility​​ is to seek​​ to know and understand God’s word.

1Peter 1:22 Since you have in obedience to the truth purified your souls for a sincere love of the brethren, fervently love one another from the heart,

Proverbs​​ 31:30 Charm is deceitful and beauty is vain, [But] a woman who fears the LORD, she shall be praised.

1Timothy​​ 2:9-10​​ Likewise, [I want] women to adorn themselves with proper clothing, modestly and discreetly, not with braided hair and gold or pearls or costly garments;​​ but rather by means of good works, as befits women making a claim to godliness.

Look again at the text. ​​ “For in this way in former times the holy women also,​​ who​​ hoped in God”. ​​​​ Hope​​ means to​​ expect​​ or trust. ​​ This​​ expectation is more than wishful thinking. ​​​​ It is to consider that something is likely to happen.​​  ​​​​ ​​ Hope in God places trust in Him that He​​ does what He​​ says,​​ He fulfills His promises. ​​​​ Consider God’s testimony to us in His written word. ​​ It is​​ alive with His miraculous power and wonder! ​​ There is no limit to our hope; there is no​​ limit to​​ God’s power. ​​ My favorite definition of miracles comes from a children’s song,​​ “to anticipate the inevitable, supernatural, intervention of God”. ​​​​ Past​​ holy women sought the importance​​ of developing the characteristics​​ spoken of in​​ 1Peter 3:5.​​ They adorned themselves with​​ a gentle and quiet spirit​​ – and​​ this was seen in their​​ humble​​ submission​​ to their own husbands. ​​​​ 

used to adorn themselves, being submissive to their own husbands”.​​ ​​ The world is clamoring for​​ our​​ attention, we are encouraged to be like everyone else, and to embrace​​ all philosophies. ​​ However, our primary concern​​ should be​​ to develop those inner qualities that have​​ lasting value. ​​ Women​​ today​​ are​​ encouraged to follow their own desires and ambitions first, before thinking of others. ​​ Words​​ of self are​​ touted, “This is​​ my​​ time”, and “This is for​​ me”. ​​ What good is​​ great accomplishment​​ or​​ an aesthetically pleasing​​ outside​​ if the heart within​​ is​​ in​​ disarray? ​​​​ And even beyond​​ and more importantly, whose time is it and for​​ what purpose?

Verse 6​​ continues to impress submission out of obedience to the​​ Lord and​​ moves on to the more specific example of Sarah.​​ ​​ It says,​​ Sarah obeyed Abraham, calling him lord”. ​​​​ She​​ willingly chose to listen​​ to him, to take heed to his authority. ​​​​ This does not mean​​ she was inferior in her​​ abilities;​​ it does not mean she could not think for herself, or she did not have important responsibilities​​ and goals;​​ it does mean she​​ loved God​​ and therefore​​ was obedient to God’s will. ​​ She showed​​ her husband​​ respect by​​ calling him lord. ​​ “The word lord has the elementary idea of ruling, and this is the sense here – that she acknowledged that he had a right to direct the affairs of his​​ household, and that it was her duty to be in subjection to him​​ as the head of the family”,​​ Albert Barnes’ NT Commentary. ​​​​ This is not to say that married woman today should be addressing their husbands as lord. ​​ In the time period and place this was written, it was quite common for​​ married woman to address their husbands in this manner. ​​ What we can take from this is​​ having an​​ attitude​​ of respect for one’s husband​​ in his position of leadership.

Do you willingly place yourself under the subjection of your husband if you are married, and others who are in authority? ​​ Do you encourage​​ those​​ you know to do the same?

Verse​​ 6​​ uses Sarah as an example to follow. ​​ She was​​ not​​ perfect,​​ no one is,​​ but she​​ trusted in God’s promises​​ and is mentioned​​ in the text of Hebrews 11 along with the ‘heroes of faith’. ​​​​ 

Hebrews 11:11 By faith even Sarah herself received ability to conceive, even beyond the proper time of life, since she considered Him faithful who had promised;

We can emulate her faith​​ in obedience no matter the​​ circumstances which surround us.​​ 

“…and you have become her children if you do what is right​​ without being frightened by any fear”. ​​ In becoming ‘her children’, this may refer to​​ being the heirs of Abraham​​ in Genesis 21. ​​​​ Think of this as being​​ spiritual daughters rather than daughters according to the flesh.

Genesis​​ 21:12​​ But​​ God said to Abraham, "Do not be distressed because of the lad and your maid; whatever Sarah tells you, listen to her, for​​ through Isaac your descendants shall be named.

Galatians​​ 3:29 And if you belong to Christ, then you are Abraham's offspring,​​ heirs according to promise.

Notice the expected condition​​ ​​ “…if​​ you do what is right without being frightened by any fear”.

We​​ have an example in Sarah of acting upon her fears in​​ Genesis 18:15, Sarah denied [it] however, saying, “I did not laugh”; for she was afraid. ​​ And He said, “No, but you did laugh.” ​​​​ Because she was afraid, she denied the truth. ​​​​ We will also fail​​ simply because we are human, yet the determination needs to be that of​​ full obedience​​ to God. ​​​​ 

“They were to do well; to be faithful to their husbands; to be firm in their principles;​​ to adhere steadfastly to what was true and good, whatever trials they might pass through, however much they might be threatened with persecution, or however any might attempt to deter them from the performance of their duty.​​ ​​ Thus, by a life of Christian fidelity, unawed by fear from any quarter, they would show that they were imbued with the same principles of unbending virtue which characterised the wife of the father of the faithful, and that they were not unworthy to be regarded as her daughters”,​​ Albert Barnes’ NT Commentary.

Compare:

1Peter 3:13-14​​ And who is there to harm you if you prove zealous for what is good? ​​​​ But even if you should suffer for the sake of righteousness, [you are] blessed.​​ ​​ AND DO NOT FEAR THEIR INTIMIDATION, AND DO NOT BE TROUBLED,

Isaiah​​ 8:13 "It is the LORD of hosts whom you should regard as holy.​​ ​​ And He shall be your fear,​​ and He shall be your dread.

1Peter​​ 4:12-13​​ Beloved, do not be surprised at the fiery ordeal among you, which comes upon you for your testing, as though some strange thing were happening to you;​​ but to the degree that you share the sufferings of Christ, keep on rejoicing; so that also at the revelation of His glory, you may rejoice with exultation.

In a yielded and steadfast heart, there is security in obedience to God.​​ ​​ When trouble arises,​​ we can pray​​ instead of panic as we​​ rely upon God’s intervention. ​​​​ Remember Peter’s audience​​ – in general it​​ was​​ to all believers in respect to all​​ authority; specifically it was to wives whose husbands were unbelievers. ​​​​ In​​ situations of submission, we​​ need to uphold​​ our loyalty to God’s truths. ​​ Fear of displeasing men​​ should not guide our​​ actions. ​​​​ Recall​​ the account of​​ steadfast obedience in​​ Shadrach, Meshach, and Abednego​​ in Daniel Chapter 3. ​​​​ Now​​ remember​​ the account of​​ Peter’s​​ fearful denial​​ in Matthew 26:69-75.

Proverbs 3:25-26​​ Do not be afraid of sudden fear, nor of the onslaught of the wicked when it comes;​​ for the LORD will be your confidence, and will keep your foot from being caught.

1Peter​​ 2:15 For such is the will of God that by doing right you may silence the ignorance of foolish men.

Also​​ remember the beginning of this chapter in 1Peter​​ verses 1 and 2​​ which correlated holy behavior as a tool​​ in​​ drawing others to know Jesus.

Do​​ you​​ allow the threat of inconvenience or danger to​​ affect​​ your obedience to Truth? ​​​​ How​​ can​​ you​​ combat this?

Are you considering the ornamentation of​​ your​​ heart to be more important than your outside appearance? ​​​​ What steps are you taking to grow in your understanding and trust of God?

Even in those cases where you may be exposed to​​ ill-treatment, are you willing to trust God’s wisdom and promises?

Let’s pray that God increases our desire to grow in His holiness.​​ 

Follow His Steps

Consider taking a walk at the beach in the wet sand, leaving footprints behind and someone following your exact steps. This is the conveyance of ‘follow Me’.

 

1Peter 2:21 For you have been called for this purpose, since Christ also suffered for you, leaving you an example for you to follow in His steps,

Verse​​ 21 continues to give a reason for the behaviors Peter is assigning to believers. ​​ We are to love one another, we are to fear God, we are to submit to authority even when it is unreasonable, we are to be patient when wronged, because it is acceptable to God that we follow His example.

Christians have a purpose. ​​ We have been called to imitate Christ, to follow in His footsteps.

Matthew 16:24 Then Jesus said to His disciples, "If anyone wishes to come after Me, let him deny himself, and take up his cross, and follow Me.

Read​​ Philippians 2:5-8.

Matthew​​ 10:38 "And he who does not take his cross and follow after Me is not worthy of Me.

1John 2:6 the one who says he abides in Him ought himself to walk in the same manner as He walked.

We are to seek to follow Christ precisely. ​​​​ Consider taking a walk at the beach in the wet sand, leaving footprints behind and someone following your exact steps. ​​ School age children often play ‘follow-the-leader’ in which everyone behind the leader seeks to copy the behavior of the one leading. ​​ This is the conveyance of ‘follow Me’.​​ 

1John 3:16 We know love by this, that He laid down His life for us; and we ought to lay down our lives for the brethren.​​ 

Jesus patiently endured under undeserved suffering. ​​ People speak of having a profession. ​​ They associate with a chosen profession and with that association comes certain expectations and responsibilities to fulfill. ​​ As a​​ professed child of God, you have a pattern to follow, a purpose to fulfill. ​​ Christ not only suffered as an example to follow after, He suffered​​ for us​​ or​​ for the sake of us. ​​​​ Jamieson-Fausset-Brown Commentary​​ says this​​ “imposes an everlasting obligation on us to please Him”.

1Corinthians​​ 6:20 For you have been bought with a price: therefore glorify God in your body.

Do you emulate kindness and forgiveness and a willingness to sacrifice self in order to serve others?

1Peter 3:8-9 To sum up, let all be harmonious, sympathetic, brotherly, kindhearted, and humble in spirit;​​ not returning evil for evil, or insult for insult, but giving a blessing instead; for you were called for the very purpose that you might inherit a blessing.

1 Peter 2:21​​ reads “leaving you an example”. ​​ In the Greek translation this literally means a written copy from masters to their students. ​​ We have the testimony of Jesus’ life written in His word so that we might closely follow Him. ​​ There is an exhortation for us, a requirement –​​ 

Micah 6:8 He has told you, O man, what is good;​​ and what does the LORD require of you​​ but to do justice, to love kindness,​​ and to walk humbly with your God?

“And I would particularly urge this meek and patient temper upon you; ​​ for to this you were called, when you were brought into the profession of the Christian faith; because Christ himself, pure and spotless as he was, suffered not only buffetings and stripes, but deep and mortal wounds, for you, leaving you an example and copy, that you might with certainty trace, and with constancy and diligence follow, his footsteps, and by observing them as his, be charmed to an imitation, even where it was most difficult and painful”,​​ Philip Doddridge.

William Burkitt New Testament​​ notes,​​ “You must bear the cross, before you wear the crown”.

We are encouraged to imitate Christ’s example of holiness in obedience and patience.​​ 

Ephesians​​ 5:2 and walk in love, just as Christ also loved you, and gave Himself up for us, an offering and a sacrifice to God as a fragrant aroma.

1Peter 4:1-2 Therefore, since Christ has suffered in the flesh, arm yourselves also with the same purpose, because he who has suffered in the flesh has ceased from sin, so as to live​​ the rest of the time in the flesh no longer for the lusts of men, but for the will of God.

1Peter 2:22​​ WHO COMMITTED NO SIN, NOR WAS ANY DECEIT FOUND IN HIS MOUTH;

Perfection​​ – this is Christ. ​​ Although He was man, still He was God, perfect in all His ways. ​​ Accused of sin, He was put to death and suffered for sin, all the while with no murmuring of sin in thought, word, or deed. ​​ 

Isaiah​​ 53:3 He was despised and forsaken of men,​​ a​​ man of sorrows, and acquainted with grief;​​ and like one from whom men hide their face, He was despised, and we did not esteem Him.

2Corinthians 5:21 He made Him who knew no sin [to be] sin on our behalf, that we might become the righteousness of God in Him.

Hebrews​​ 4:15 For we do not have a high priest who cannot sympathize with our weaknesses, but One who has been tempted in all things as [we are, yet] without sin.

We suffer​​ because of sin in our lives. ​​ Even though we may be ill-treated for a moment, we still deserve whatever suffering we incur because of sin. ​​ “We should so live, as the Savior did, as not to​​ deserve​​ to be punished, and thus only shall we entirely follow His example. ​​ It is as much our duty to live so as not to​​ deserve​​ the reproaches of others, as it is to bear them with patience when we are called to suffer them”,​​ Albert Barnes’ NT Commentary. ​​ 

1Peter​​ 2:20 For what credit is there if, when you sin and are harshly treated, you endure it with patience?​​ ​​ But if when you do what is right and suffer [for it] you patiently endure it, this [finds] favor with God.

Hebrews​​ 7:25-26 Hence, also, He is able to save forever those who draw near to God through Him, since He always lives to make intercession for them. ​​​​ For it was fitting that we should have such a high priest, holy, innocent, undefiled, separated from sinners and exalted above the heavens;

Jesus​​ is holy. ​​ Not merely blameless in actions but pure in heart, completely and perfectly holy. ​​ No other could have offered​​ to pay the penalty for our sin. ​​ Only through Christ are we forgiven and cleansed from sin. ​​ What is our response to this undeserved gift? ​​ We are to be humble, seeking righteousness in all circumstances. ​​ This is our act of service; this is our example to follow. ​​ Christ was perfect in all things yet suffered willingly and humbly. ​​ Should not we who are sinful be willing to suffer whatever befalls us, whether deserved or undeserved at the moment, with a quiet and grateful spirit? ​​​​ Obviously, we cannot arrive at perfection, however we ought to seek to follow Christ as closely as possible.

As a people group, we have claimed rights to so many things. ​​ In the U.S., we have been given rights through our government in our constitution. ​​ It is an incredible blessing to live with the freedoms we proclaim. ​​ But let us not lose sight of our purpose in seeking to preserve our freedom. ​​ Our purpose in Christ is to proclaim His Gospel, to glorify His name. ​​ Jesus willingly gave up His rights in obedience to His Father, for our redemption. ​​ Are you standing for Christ or for yourself when you proclaim your ‘rights’? ​​ 

 

Jesus did not die for our rights –​​ 

He died so that our righteousness may be found in Him.

He died for our sin so that we might die unto sin.

Isaiah 53:7 He was oppressed and He was afflicted,​​ yet He did not open His mouth; Like a lamb that is led to slaughter,​​ and like a sheep that is silent before its shearers,​​ so He did not open His mouth.

Luke​​ 23:38-41​​ Now there was also an inscription above Him, "THIS IS THE KING OF THE JEWS."​​ And one of the criminals who were hanged [there] was hurling abuse at Him, saying, "Are You not the Christ?​​ ​​ Save Yourself and us!"​​ But the other answered, and rebuking him said, "Do you not even fear God, since you are under the same sentence of condemnation?​​ ​​ "And we indeed justly, for we are receiving what we deserve for our deeds; but this man has done nothing wrong."​​ 

“Christ was most shamefully reviled, having the dirt of a thousand scandals, slanders, reproaches, and blasphemies, cast​​ upon him, yet he reviled not again not giving them one ill word for all. And when he suffered all manner of injuries and indignities at once, being buffeted, spit upon, crowned with thorns, and crucified, though he had power sufficient to look them into nothing, to frown them into hell, yet he threatened them not with the least revenge, but prayed for his murderers, and committed his cause to a just and righteous God: He threatened not, but committed himself to him that judgeth righteously”,​​ William Burkitt New Testament .

 

Aliens

As a professed child of God, you have a pattern to follow, a purpose to fulfill.

 

Aliens are​​ Real!

Picture a room full of people, each given a task to​​ take the pencil and paper in front of them and draw an alien. ​​ There is to be no talking, no collaboration;​​ the assignment is to be taken seriously. ​​ As you look around the room, you see​​ a mixture of expressions, those who are concentrating, and those who look amused. ​​ Are aliens real, or are they imagined? ​​​​ 

The Bible tells us aliens​​ are real. ​​ It also tells us they are not of this world. ​​ They ‘look’ different, and they act different from citizens of earth. ​​ This is the premise for 1Peter Chapter 2. ​​ I encourage you to read 1Peter 2 from the beginning, then continue on with this study of verses 21-23.

1Peter 2:21 For you have been called for this purpose, since Christ also suffered for you, leaving you an example for you to follow in His steps,

Verse 21 continues to give a reason for the​​ ‘out of this world’​​ behaviors Peter is assigning to believers. ​​ We are to love one another, we are to fear God, we are to submit to authority even when it is unreasonable,​​ and​​ we are to be patient when wronged, because it is acceptable to God that we follow His example.

Christians have a purpose. ​​ We have been called to imitate Christ, to follow in His footsteps. ​​​​ We are set apart, not belonging to the world, yet in the world. ​​ Therefore, our actions will be different.

Matthew 16:24 Then Jesus said to His disciples, "If anyone wishes to come after Me, let him deny himself, and take up his cross, and follow Me.

Philippians 2:5-8​​ Have this attitude in yourselves which was also in Christ Jesus,​​ who, although He existed in the form of God, did not regard equality with God a thing to be grasped,​​ but emptied Himself, taking the form of a bond-servant, [and] being made in the likeness of men. ​​​​ And being found in appearance as a man, He humbled Himself by becoming obedient to the point of death, even death on a cross.

Matthew 10:38 "And he who does not take his cross and follow after Me is not worthy of Me.

1John 2:6 the one who says he abides in Him ought himself to walk in the same manner as He walked.

We are to seek to follow Christ precisely. ​​ Picture​​ taking a walk at the beach in the wet sand, leaving footprints behind,​​ with​​ someone following your exact steps. ​​ School age children often play ‘follow-the-leader’ in which everyone behind the leader seeks to copy the behavior of the one leading. ​​ This is the conveyance of ‘follow Me’.​​ 

1John 3:16 We know love by this, that He laid down His life for us; and we ought to lay down our lives for the brethren.​​ 

Jesus patiently endured under undeserved suffering. ​​ People speak of having a profession. ​​ They associate with a chosen profession and with that association comes certain expectations and responsibilities to fulfill. ​​ As a professed child of God, you have a pattern to follow, a purpose to fulfill. ​​ Christ not only suffered as an example to follow after, He suffered​​ for us​​ or​​ for the sake of us. ​​ Jamieson-Fausset-Brown Commentary​​ says this​​ “imposes an everlasting obligation on us to please Him”.

1Corinthians 6:20 For you have been bought with a price: therefore glorify God in your body.

Do you emulate kindness and forgiveness and a willingness to sacrifice self in order to serve others? ​​​​ Warning!!! ​​ This behavior​​ may expose your true identity as an alien!

1Peter 3:8-9 To sum up, let all be harmonious, sympathetic, brotherly, kindhearted, and humble in spirit; not returning evil for evil, or insult for insult, but giving a blessing instead; for you were called for the very purpose that you might inherit a blessing.

1 Peter 2:21 reads “leaving you an example”. ​​ In the Greek translation this literally means a written copy from masters to their students. ​​ We have the testimony of Jesus’ life written in His word so that we might closely follow Him. ​​ There is an exhortation for us, a requirement –​​ 

Micah 6:8 He has told you, O man, what is good; and what does the LORD require of you but to do justice, to love kindness, and to walk humbly with your God?

“And I would particularly urge this meek and patient temper upon you; ​​ for to this you were called, when you were brought into the profession of the Christian faith; because Christ himself, pure and spotless as he was, suffered not only buffetings and stripes, but deep and mortal wounds, for you, leaving you an example and copy, that you might with certainty trace, and with constancy and diligence follow, his footsteps, and by observing them as his, be charmed to an imitation, even where it was most difficult and painful”,​​ Philip Doddridge.

William Burkitt New Testament​​ notes,​​ “You must bear the cross, before you wear the crown”.

We are encouraged to imitate Christ’s example of holiness in obedience and patience.​​ 

Ephesians 5:2 and walk in love, just as Christ also loved you, and gave Himself up for us, an offering and a sacrifice to God as a fragrant aroma.

1Peter 4:1-2 Therefore, since Christ has suffered in the flesh, arm yourselves also with the same purpose, because he who has suffered in the flesh has ceased from sin, so as to live the rest of the time in the flesh no longer for the lusts of men, but for the will of God.

1Peter 2:22​​ WHO COMMITTED NO SIN, NOR WAS ANY DECEIT FOUND IN HIS MOUTH;

Perfection – this is Christ. ​​ Although He was man, still He was God, perfect in all His ways. ​​ Accused of sin, He was put to death and suffered for sin, all the while with no murmuring of sin in thought, word, or deed. ​​ 

Isaiah 53:3 He was despised and forsaken of men, a man of sorrows, and acquainted with grief; and like one from whom men hide their face, He was despised, and we did not esteem Him.

2Corinthians 5:21 He made Him who knew no sin [to be] sin on our behalf, that we might become the righteousness of God in Him.

Hebrews 4:15 For we do not have a high priest who cannot sympathize with our weaknesses, but One who has been tempted in all things as [we are, yet] without sin.

We suffer because of sin in​​ the world and sin in​​ our lives. ​​ Even though we may be ill-treated for a moment, we still deserve whatever suffering we incur because of sin. ​​ “We should so live, as the Savior did,​​ as not to deserve​​ to be punished, and thus only shall we entirely follow His example. ​​ It is as much our duty to live so​​ as not to deserve​​ the reproaches of others, as it is to bear them with patience when we are called to suffer them”,​​ Albert Barnes’ NT Commentary. ​​ 

1Peter 2:20 For what credit is there if, when you sin and are harshly treated, you endure it with patience? ​​ But if when you do what is right and suffer [for it] you patiently endure it, this [finds] favor with God.

Hebrews 7:25-26 Hence, also, He is able to save forever those who draw near to God through Him, since He always lives to make intercession for them. ​​ For it was fitting that we should have such a high priest, holy, innocent, undefiled, separated from sinners and exalted above the heavens;

Jesus is holy. ​​ Not merely blameless in actions but pure in heart, completely and perfectly holy. ​​ No other could have offered to pay the penalty for our sin. ​​ Only through Christ are we forgiven and cleansed from sin. ​​ What is our response to this undeserved gift? ​​ We are to be humble, seeking righteousness in all circumstances. ​​ This is our act of service; this is our example to follow. ​​ Christ was perfect in all things yet suffered willingly and humbly. ​​ Should not we who are sinful be willing to suffer whatever befalls us, whether deserved or undeserved at the moment, with a quiet​​ and grateful spirit? ​​​​ Obviously, we cannot arrive at perfection, however we ought to seek to follow Christ as closely as possible.

As a people group, we have claimed rights to so many things. ​​ In the U.S., we have been given rights through our government in our constitution. ​​ It is an incredible blessing to live with the freedoms we proclaim. ​​ But let us not lose sight of our purpose in seeking to preserve our freedom. ​​ Our purpose in Christ is to proclaim His Gospel, to glorify His name. ​​ Jesus willingly gave up His rights in obedience to His Father, for our redemption. ​​ Are you​​ standing​​ for Christ or for yourself when you proclaim your ‘rights’? ​​ Do aliens have ‘rights’?

 

Jesus did not die for our rights –​​ 

He died so that our righteousness may be found in Him. ​​ 

He died for our sin so that we might die unto sin.

 

Isaiah 53:7 He was oppressed and He was afflicted, yet He did not open His mouth; Like a lamb that is led to slaughter, and like a sheep that is silent before its shearers, so He did not open His mouth.

Luke 23:38-41 Now there was also an inscription above Him, "THIS IS THE KING OF THE JEWS."​​ And one of the criminals who were hanged [there] was hurling abuse at Him, saying, "Are You not the Christ? ​​ Save Yourself and us!"​​ But the other answered, and rebuking him said, "Do you not even fear God, since you are under the same sentence of condemnation?​​ ​​ "And we indeed justly, for we are receiving what we deserve for our deeds; but this man has done nothing wrong."​​ 

“Christ was most shamefully reviled, having the dirt of a thousand scandals, slanders, reproaches, and blasphemies, cast upon him, yet he reviled not again not giving them one ill word for all. ​​ And when he suffered all manner of injuries and indignities at once, being buffeted, spit upon, crowned with thorns, and crucified, though he had power sufficient to look them into nothing, to frown them into hell, yet he threatened them not with the least revenge, but prayed for his murderers, and committed his cause to a just and righteous God: He threatened not, but committed himself to him that judgeth righteously”,​​ William Burkitt New​​ Testament.

1Peter 2:23 and while being reviled, He did not revile in return; while suffering, He uttered no threats, but kept entrusting [Himself] to Him who judges righteously;

Jesus surrendered His cause to God.

Hebrews 12:3 For consider Him who has endured such hostility by sinners against Himself, so that you may not grow weary and lose heart.

“To avoid evil tempers, and the uneasiness and danger of avenging ourselves, it is a great advantage in all such cases to be able to refer our cause to God, and to be assured that the Judge of all the earth will do right”,​​ Adam Clarke’s Commentary.

Considering the obvious application of not returning harsh words for those received, I would think we all have something to work on! ​​ Even if we do not verbalize our remarks, the thoughts we have which are odious towards others make us guilty.

Jesus was accused,​​ although He was innocent,​​ by those in authority, in the face of many present. ​​ Think of the humiliation and shame thrown at Him yet He did not return insults or even answer harshly. ​​ He did not seek revenge but instead prayed for their forgiveness. ​​ He committed all things to God knowing that God would exact justice.

It is impossible for man to attain a position of perfect holiness. ​​ So even in that rare instance of wrong accusation, reproach for something is probably deserved. ​​ Our fight must be to remain as holy as possible, following the example set before us so that any accusation brought before us has no merit. ​​ But still, the only need we have to prove ourselves is in humility before our gracious and forgiving God. ​​​​ Our Leader has called us to follow Him. ​​ Your real home is not on earth.

How should you respond when you meet with false accusations, harsh words, and unfair treatment?​​ 

Keeping some truths before us will help in our response –

We are worthy only because of Christ,

Our value and confidence rest in His claim on us,

Our hope is in God’s righteousness and perfect judgment,

We are to be an example of His holiness in all our behavior.

We are to remember our citizenship is in Heaven. ​​ We are aliens.

It is entirely God’s right to use His children as He wills for His glory. ​​ Our humble submission to His will proves our genuine love for Him.

Psalm 37:5-8 Commit your way to the LORD, trust also in Him, and He will do it. ​​ And He will bring forth your righteousness as the light, And your judgment as the noonday. ​​ Rest in the LORD and wait patiently for Him; do not fret because of him who prospers in his way, because of the man who carries out wicked schemes. ​​ Cease from anger, and forsake wrath; do not fret, [it leads] only to evildoing. ​​ For evildoers will be cut off, but those who wait for the LORD, they will inherit the land.

 

Is It About Me or About My Savior?

In all things we are to glorify God. In all relationships we are to glorify God,
looking to Jesus’ example of humility and righteousness.

 

1Peter 2:18 Servants, be submissive to your masters with all respect, not only to those who are good and gentle, but also to those who are unreasonable.

What do you read in the above verse?

Peter​​ now moves to the duty of servants to their masters. ​​ The words in this verse are straight forward, meaning when you read them, they say what they mean. ​​ You may have heard this often-used phrase, ‘If the plain literal words make good sense, seek no other sense’. ​​ Sometimes a problem arises because we do not like the plain literal sense of the message we are given. ​​ Think how often you have told your child to do something and the answer you get is ‘but what about …’. ​​ Most of us are guilty of this same response to direction. ​​ We think of a way out or a way around or simply a way to change the instruction we do not like.

In our culture today, we would not necessarily describe relationships using the terms servant and master. ​​ The word servant in this verse refers mainly to household servants or domestic servants which lived in the same house. ​​ This was common at that time and the command would apply whether they were hired or whether they were owned as slaves.  ​​​​ In our culture and practices today, we could apply this command to anyone in a paid position or under the service of one in authority.  ​​​​ This could even be a worker you have hired to do a specific job. ​​ For instance, we have in the past had someone who was paid to work on the yard or help with something​​ inside our home. ​​ The expectation was that this person would receive a certain amount of money for a specific amount of work.  ​​​​ Fulfilling our request did not matter if the worker agreed with our plan. ​​ It is quite possible they had a better way of doing something – what mattered was they did what was expected.  ​​​​ Think of this example – when you were a student, specific goals were set for you to accomplish. ​​ It did not matter if you liked or even agreed with the course material; it did not matter if you felt you already knew the information or had a better way of accomplishing the same task, if you wanted to pass the class you adhered to the direction given by your professor.

Under most circumstances, when we find ourselves under the obligation to act in obedience, it will be toward those who are good and gentle, and reasonable and kind. ​​ For instance, I was blessed to develop a friendship with a woman who helped in our home when my mother-in-law lived with us. ​​ Our families became involved with one another,​​ and she eventually accepted Jesus as her Lord and Savior in my kitchen!  ​​​​ 

Yet, what do we do when we are asked to submit to those who are unreasonable? ​​ Well, as long as we are not asked to sin, then it is not important whether we think something is unnecessary or a waste of time, or foolish. ​​ If my employer requests that I draw a red line exactly down the center of each piece of paper that filters across my desk, then however ridiculous I think it might be, I can choose to do it because they are in charge. ​​ I might think their request is unreasonable and they are crazy, however their position requires my respect and submission. ​​ Not only might I get fired if I don’t submit, but I will also loose the opportunity to build relationships with the hope of sharing Christ.

The question that pops in my mind is,​​ “Am I willing to deny myself for my Savior”?​​ ​​ Read the words of Paul in​​ Philippians 2:5-8, Have this attitude in yourselves which was also in Christ Jesus, who, although He existed in the form of God, did not regard equality with God a thing to be grasped, but emptied Himself, taking the form of a bond-servant, [and] being made in the like ness of men, and being found in appearance as a man, He humbled Himself by becoming obedient to the point of death, even​​ death on a cross. ​​ If anyone ever had the right to stand His ground, it was Jesus! ​​ But He chose not to do so in order to please His Father and redeem your soul. ​​ His example is what we are to follow.

It is difficult to choose to give up what we deem our ‘rights’. ​​ We do not like others pressing in upon our space or crowding our ‘freedoms’. ​​ We are quick to draw lines in the sand. ​​ Our feelings​​ get hurt or we concentrate on the ‘unfairness’ of a situation. ​​ Consider what happens when a child comes home from​​ school and is hurt because someone was ‘mean’ to them. ​​ Do they stop going to school, or quit? ​​ Of course not! ​​ Hopefully, they are encouraged to be kind and carry on in spite of those who aren’t nice. ​​ Our thinking can focus on ourselves and an attitude​​ of “you can only go so far until I will become insistent on my views’. ​​ However we need to be certain our views and where we choose to be immovable is according to the truth and example we have in God’s word. ​​ If I choose to take a stand for my own convenience or my opinion or because it fits what I think, without proof for my action from Truth, then I am serving myself under the pretense of serving God. ​​ I cannot form my opinion and then find the scriptures that will support my thinking; rather, I must go​​ to the scriptures and ask God to give me understanding of His word. ​​ Then with that understanding of His truth, I am led what to think. ​​ We need to be careful!  ​​​​ Words can sound compelling, and we are easily led by what sounds righteous rather than what is​​ truth and fact in scripture. ​​ Are the decisions you make based on the word or on feelings.

In any relationship we find ourselves, we must remember we are Christians, ultimately representing God and serving Him. ​​ To those who are our masters (rulers, employers, teachers, and all those in authority over us), we are to submit. ​​ Obedience is a choice we are able to make because Christ has changed our heart and our desire is to please Him and follow His example. ​​ If you find yourself thinking ‘you’ve had enough’ and you ‘can no longer take it’, think back to Christ. ​​ I am personally so thankful He never gave up on the human race.

1Timothy 6:1 Let all who are under the yoke as slaves regard their own masters as worthy of all honor​​ so that the name of God and [our] doctrine may not be spoken against.

Titus 2:9-10 [Urge] bondslaves to be subject to their own masters in everything, to be well-pleasing, not argumentative,​​ not pilfering, but showing all good faith​​ that they may adorn the doctrine of God our Savior in every respect.

Go back for a moment to the reason this letter was written. ​​ The Apostle Peter wrote this to believers who were being persecuted for their faith. ​​ Peter reminded them of God’s protection and their inheritance in heaven. ​​ They were suffering through difficulties, yet these trials were a means for the proof and strengthening of their faith in Jesus. ​​ Peter reminded them to fix their hope on the future and to act in obedience to God’s calling. ​​ They were to follow Jesus’ example of holiness. ​​ They were valuable and were to love one another remembering that their time here on earth was short. ​​ Therefore, they were to seek God’s truths so that they would mature as Christians and regard their difficulties as opportunities to glorify God. ​​ God was their secure foundation, and their purpose was to proclaim Him. ​​ They were to honor Him by keeping their behavior excellent, willingly submitting to those in authority. ​​ They had been freed from the control of sin, and now had the freedom to choose righteousness. ​​ What did this look like? ​​ By all means they were to promote peace, setting their sights on furthering the Gospel. ​​ Their freedom was not to be used to usurp authority but rather to honor God. ​​ Even when it was difficult.

Our text says,​​ Servants, be submissive to your masters​​ with all respect. ​​ Seriously?! ​​ In our selfish and prideful thinking we can easily think that this is asking a bit too much! ​​ We are to not only submit, but we are to submit with all respect. ​​ Respect does not​​ mean we must agree. ​​ It means we understand the position someone holds. ​​ This is difficult. ​​ However, we need to have the right attitude towards those in charge because it is what scripture teaches. ​​ In our own human weakness, this is quite impossible. ​​ Let’s remember, God is the one who has placed people exactly where He wants them for His purpose. ​​ God is the one we are honoring when we willingly yield to His perfect plan just as Christ did when He was crucified.  ​​​​ 

When we bow ourselves before God and are reminded of the sacrifice of His only Son, willingly assuming the pain of suffering and separation as our sin was atoned, we are equipped by grace to act in humility and righteousness towards others.

This gets even more difficult when we read the rest of​​ 1 Peter 2:18.  ​​​​ We are to be submissive to those in authority with all respect​​ regardless if they are good and gentle or unreasonable. ​​​​ The overriding imperative to everyone is to act with good conduct (1Peter 2:11, 12, 13, and 16); a direct application is servants to masters. ​​ Submit with respect, if at all possible, under all circumstances. ​​ Respect is translated ‘fear’. ​​ Not necessarily because of a fear of the person themselves although in many cases they would have the authority to exercise disciplinary action, but​​ ultimately because we fear God, ​​​​ (1 Peter 2:13).

Colossians 3:22 Slaves, in all things obey those who are your masters on earth, not with external service, as those who [merely] please men,​​ but with sincerity of heart, fearing the Lord.

Ephesians 6:5-8 Slaves, be obedient to those who are your masters according to the flesh, with fear and trembling,​​ in the sincerity of your heart, as to Christ; not by way of eyeservice, as men-pleasers, but as slaves of Christ, doing the will of God from the​​ heart. ​​ With good will render service, as to the Lord, and not to men,​​ knowing that whatever good thing each one does, this he will receive back from the Lord, whether slave or free.

Jesus was fully God and fully man while on this earth. ​​ Yet, He placed Himself in subjection to His earthly parents. ​​ Luke 2:48-51

1 Peter 3:1​​ says wives are to be subject to their husbands.

According to one commentary, the Jews were unwilling “to submit to any Gentile masters; and those of them who believed in Christ were by their Judaizing teachers persuaded to think that they owed no obedience to unbelieving masters”,​​ Thomas Haweis. ​​ From the same commentary we are reminded of Jesus’ example –​​ “leaving us an example of patience and long-suffering under all the most cruel and​​ unjust treatment which he met with, that ye should follow his steps, and be conformed to his blessed pattern; who, grievously as he suffered, yet did no sin, neither was guile found in his mouth; his bitterest enemies could not so much as fix upon him the​​ shadow of a crime: who, when he was reviled, reviled not again; but observed an admirable silence, as the sheep before her shearers is dumb: when he suffered, he threatened not, nor discovered the least anger at his tormentors; but committed himself and his cause to him that judgeth righteously, and to whom vengeance belongeth”.

Note these questions and applications –

  • We look to Christ for pardon and righteousness, should we not also follow His example of patience and meekness? ​​ 

  • Are we desiring to receive​​ His forgiveness and gift of eternal life but not willing to accept that in receiving His grace we must act in accordance with His commands?

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Since we have been saved to righteousness, we are deceived if we choose to live in sin and flatter ourselves with​​ the certain hope of eternal life in Christ. ​​ We should be encouraged to willingly accept every burden which He places in our lives.

 

  • Our sufferings or mistreatment are not an excuse for impatience or anger, however unreasonable our authorities may be.

  • Christ’s example not only teaches us to not lash out for ill treatment or demand the rights we wrongly claim title to – His example also teaches us to pray for the very ones who are unreasonable – He prayed for those who crucified Him. ​​ 

  • We gain nothing from​​ strife; contentment is found in godliness. ​​ We ​​ should not choose to give up when we feel we are treated poorly, or someone is ‘mean’ or unfair. ​​ We continue to serve – following Christ’s example.

 

I fear, as a people, we have claimed ‘rights’ to​​ things which were never given to us by God. ​​ Think! ​​ What did you bring into this world?​​ Of course the answer is nothing. ​​ The reality is we own nothing – not even our own selves. ​​ Jesus purchased our souls. ​​ God created our being.

In all things we are to​​ glorify God. ​​ In all relationships we are to glorify God,​​ 

looking to Jesus’ example of humility and righteousness.

 

 1 Peter 2:20-24 For what credit is there if, when you sin and are harshly treated, you endure it with patience? ​​ But if when you do what is right and suffer [for it] you patiently endure it, this [finds] favor with God. ​​​​ For you have been called for this purpose, since Christ also suffered for you, leaving you an example for you to follow in His steps,​​ WHO COMMITTED NO SIN, NOR WAS ANY DECEIT FOUND IN HIS MOUTH; and while being reviled, He did not revile in return; while suffering, He uttered no threats, but kept entrusting [Himself] to Him who judges righteously; and He Himself bore our sins in His body on the cross, that we might die to sin​​ and live to righteousness; for by His wounds you were healed.

 Christ chose to endure ill-treatment, harshness, false accusations, physical pain, and ultimately spiritual separation from His Father as the sin of man was atoned. ​​ Are we more concerned about how others treat us than how we are to serve God in righteousness?

Honor – Love – Fear

The freedom we have in Christ is to be used for His service. We are no longer slaves to sin but slaves to righteousness.

Honor, love, and fear are words quite familiar to us. ​​ We use these words liberally in our​​ conversation; we read them, and we hear them. ​​ Fictional stories are often based upon the concepts of honor, love, and fear. ​​ To show honor is acceptable, to love others is expected, even to fear God is generally accepted in our culture. ​​ Honor is given to​​ our heads of government; this is seen in their housing, mode of transportation, and the hundreds of thousands of people who gather to see or hear them. ​​ Honor is given to those who have accomplished great feats; the​​ Guinness Book of World Records,​​ first published in 1955, notes the names of those who have​​ excelled​​ in a variety of subjects and activities. ​​ People in general would say they love others by giving to the needy and supporting different humanitarian efforts. ​​ Some individuals may adhere to the idea of a ‘higher being’ who is able to rain hail and brimstone from the heavens.

1 Peter 2:17 Honor all men; love the brotherhood, fear God, honor the king.

As we dig into this verse, keep these questions in mind –  ​​​​ 

What does it mean​​ to truly honor someone according to God’s word? ​​ 

Why​​ would​​ we honor all men? ​​ 

How do we love others beyond words or writing a check? ​​ What is ‘the brotherhood’?

What actions result from fearing God?  ​​​​ Why​​ would​​ we fear Him?​​ 

Can we honor those in authority when we do not agree with them? ​​ Why should we honor​​ those in authority?​​ 

Honor all men. ​​​​ 

Honor,​​ timao, means to prize, to fix a valuation​​ upon,​​ by implication, to revere. ​​ (Strong’s Greek Dictionary)

Honor: ​​ bestow honor upon, show respect​​ towards, a symbol of distinction. ​​ (WordWeb)

Think of the ways you might show honor to someone. ​​ You would speak highly of them and often, you would encourage others to get to know them, you would be excited to introduce them to your friends and family. ​​ When they spoke you would give​​ your undivided attention to their words. ​​ You would value your time with them, even protect it.

We can honor plans and events. ​​ These are the things you write on your calendar in pen instead of pencil. ​​ You have heard the phrase, ‘I’ll pencil it in’. ​​ This means that if it is convenient, the plan that is suggested will hold; however, if something else comes up, the suggested plan will be cancelled. ​​ This does not mean something is unimportant, but it does mean that it may not be as important as other things.

The opposite of honor is dishonor. ​​ This is a state of shame or disgrace. ​​ Someone who is not honorable lacks integrity.

How can we honor all men when ‘all’ men are not honorable? ​​​​ In general, we highly esteem men because they are God’s creation. ​​ God created all men therefore each of us should treat one another with kindness, hindering no one. ​​ All men are made in the image of God. ​​ 

Genesis 1:27 And God created man in His own image, in the image of God He created him;​​ male and female He created them.

You may have heard the saying, ‘treat others as you would like them to treat you’. ​​ 

Matthew 7:12 “Therefore, however you want people to treat you, so treat them, for this is the Law and the Prophets”.

Jesus died for all men therefore, those standing next to you or before you may be fellow heirs of eternity. ​​ Because of this,​​ each individual has personal worth. ​​​​ Specifically related to this verse is what is said before. ​​ In our study on 1 Peter 2:13-16, we looked at obedience and submission to those God has placed in authority over us. ​​ Positionally, those in authority deserve our honor – not because we agree – but because God has allowed them to be in that place at this time.

Philippians 2:3 Do nothing from selfishness or empty conceit, but with humility of mind let each of you regard one another as more important than himself;

“Christ has dignified our humanity by assuming it; therefore we should not dishonor, but be considerate to and​​ honor our common humanity, even in​​ the very humblest”,​​ Jamieson-Fausset-Brown Commentary.

The idea of honoring all men is difficult because we readily tend to place judgment upon each other. ​​ The challenge is to show honor to​​ all​​ – the lowest and even, in our minds, the undeserving. ​​ Regardless of wealth, position, looks, accomplishments and so forth, we are to honor man because he is created by God. ​​ When you consider what Christ has done for you and the fact that God has chosen you to personally know Him, gratefulness born out of humility​​ is the response. ​​ 

If God can save you even in your wretched state, will He not save others? ​​​​ Each created individual has​​ value.

How do we apply the command to ‘honor all men’? ​​ We willingly submit ourselves to those placed in authority. ​​ We cultivate humility in our hearts and attitudes, placing others before ourselves. ​​ Practically speaking, one of the best ways to honor others is to share the truth of the Gospel in the hopes that God would bring them to a saving knowledge of His forgiveness and grace.

How will you apply the command to honor all men? ​​ 

Do you need to take a closer look at how you are treating others? ​​ 

Do you choose to honor some yet not​​ all? ​​ 

When I consider personally responding to each individual as God’s creation, I am quickly reminded of their value, and this affects my response and actions – even towards those who I think make my life miserable, even towards those who I think are wrong, even towards those who I think should know better, etc., etc. ​​ It is good for us to consider the purpose for our actions, thoughts, and words before we engage them. ​​ Am I encouraging, am I seeking the welfare of others?  ​​​​ Ask yourself this question –​​ Who am I? ​​ The answer – nothing without Christ.

Love the brotherhood.

Your brothers and sisters in Christ, those who are​​ likeminded, those who recognize Jesus alone as Savior, those who​​ realize they​​ are dependent on God’s saving grace, those​​ who are persevering toward the same goal of God’s glory and making disciples.​​ 

Romans 12:10 Be devoted to one another in brotherly love; give preference to one another in honor;

1Peter 1:22 Since you have in obedience to the truth purified your souls for a sincere love of the brethren, fervently love one another from the heart,

1Peter 3:8-9 To sum up, let all be harmonious, sympathetic, brotherly, kindhearted, and humble in spirit;​​ not returning evil for evil, or insult for insult, but giving a blessing instead; for you were called for the very purpose that you might inherit a blessing.

Let’s look closer at the above scripture to get a clearer picture of loving others.

Are you harmonious or like-minded, seeking to exist in an agreeable state or do you create conflict?

Are you sympathetic, showing compassion to others, or do you easily brush people off​​ when their struggle doesn’t seem like a big deal​​ in your thinking?

Are you kindhearted – sympathetic,​​ considerate, and helpful, or are you judgmental?

Are you humble, looking upon others as worthy, holding others’ above yourself or do you run on the thought that you have it all together?

We​​ should​​ have a general love for all men because they are created in the image of God; we​​ should​​ have a specific love for those who have been adopted into the family of God. ​​ You can probably testify to a special connection with your brothers and sisters in Christ.

Love,​​ agapaō, is the present active imperative, meaning – do it now and​​ keep on doing it! ​​ This is not a​​ onetime​​ ‘I showed love to so and so today’, it is a continuous, frequent showing of care towards one another. ​​ It is not based upon feelings or circumstances but rather based on obedience in following God’s commands.

John​​ 13:34-35 "A new commandment I give to you, that you love one another, even as I have loved you, that you also love one another. ​​ "By this all men will know that you are My disciples, if you have love for one another."

John 15:12 "This is My commandment, that you love one another, just as I have loved you.

“Love the brotherhood; as there is general respect due to all men, so there is a special love due to the brethren, to all the saints, of what nation and country soever, of what estate and condition soever, high and low, rich and poor, of what judgment and opinion soever; therefore the apostle calls upon us to love the brotherhood, the whole fraternity and society of Christians, by what unhappy means and characters of reproach soever distinguished: there is​​ no better evidence of the life of grace in ourselves, than the love of grace in another”,​​ William Burkitt New Testament.

Galatians 6:10 So then, while we have opportunity, let us do good to all men, and especially to those who are of the household of the​​ faith.

How do we love the brotherhood? ​​​​ Follow Christ’s example of loving us. ​​ Christ loved with a sacrificial love, looking to the benefit of others rather than Himself. ​​ The verses in John chapters 13 and 15 above repeat the phrase, ‘love one another’ ‘as I have loved you’.

Philippians 2:5-8 Have this attitude in yourselves which was also in Christ Jesus, who, although He existed in the form of God, did not regard equality with God a thing to be grasped, but emptied Himself, taking the form of a bond-servant, [and] being made in the likeness of men. ​​ And being found in appearance as a man, He humbled Himself by becoming obedient to the point of death, even death on a cross.

Fear God.

Be in awe of Him, give Him reverence. ​​ God is love yet He is also a righteous judge, and He will punish sin.

2Corinthians 7:1 Therefore, having these promises, beloved, let us cleanse ourselves from all defilement of flesh and spirit, perfecting holiness in the fear of God.

Exodus 34:6-7 Then the​​ LORD​​ passed by in front of​​ him and proclaimed, "The​​ LORD, the​​ LORD​​ God, compassionate and gracious, slow to anger, and abounding in lovingkindness and truth;​​ who keeps lovingkindness for thousands, who forgives iniquity, transgression and sin; yet He will by no means leave [the guilty] unpunished, visiting the iniquity of fathers on the children and on the grandchildren to the third and fourth generations."

Leviticus 25:17 'So you shall not wrong one another, but you shall fear your God; for I am the​​ LORD​​ your God.

Proverbs 1:7 The fear of the​​ LORD​​ is the beginning of knowledge; fools despise wisdom and instruction.

Fear of God will lead us to obedience. ​​ He is above all things and knows all things. ​​ Notice, the king is to be honored but in no way equal to God – God alone is to be feared.

“Fear God; with a filial fear or reverence. ​​ This command is interposed, either to show what is the true spring and fountain from which all the duties we perform to men are to proceed,​​ viz.​​ the fear of God, because where that doth not prevail no duty​​ to men can be rightly performed; (they love the brotherhood best, and honour the king most, that truly fear God); or to show the due bounds of all the offices we perform to men, that nothing is to be done for them which is inconsistent with the fear of God”,​​ Matthew Poole’s Commentary.

“Reverence God at all times with the sincerest and profoundest humility; and let a sense of the honour and favour he has conferred upon you increase, rather than diminish, that reverence”,​​ Philip Doddridge N.T.

The command to​​ fear God is​​ also​​ written in the present tense imperative. ​​ We are to keep on fearing God, just as we are to keep on honoring men and loving the brotherhood.​​ ​​ In all things we are to show God reverence. ​​ This means we have a profound respect for Him; we are in awe of who He is, what He has done, what He says, and what He can and will do. ​​ God is immutable. ​​ His value will never diminish, and His promises will be fulfilled.

Look again at the passage in Exodus 34:6-7. ​​ 

God is compassionate and gracious,

God is slow to anger, abounding is lovingkindness and truth, and

God forgives sin.

Yet God is righteous and will punish those who reject Him. ​​ He will punish those who willfully choose to live against His commands. ​​ Our fear of God is not based upon ignorance. ​​​​ Fear based on ignorance is a worldly kind of fear which holds someone in suspense – not knowing what is going to happen next. ​​ Instead, fear of God is based upon knowledge of who He is. ​​ As a result, and as our understanding of God increases, our reverence of Him increases and our commitment to His commands is strengthened – because we understand His majesty and power and dominion over us. ​​ Then​​ we develop grateful hearts for His perfect care and instruction leading to a genuine desire to please Him in all our ways. ​​ This is the fear of God. ​​ With Him we are blessed; without Him we are doomed.

William Burkitt’s New Testament​​ notes, “live in a religious dread of His name, as a glorious God, and a gracious Father; have a reverential awe and fear of His majesty immovably fixed and implanted in your souls”.

How are your​​ thoughts and actions affected by a proper fear of God?​​ 

What must be the first step in fearing God?

Honor the king.

This statement refers back to our study a few weeks ago, 1 Peter 2:13-16. ​​ Honor is translated from​​ timao, it is the same word used at the​​ beginning of this scripture, meaning to prize, to fix a valuation upon, to revere. ​​ This is different than the honor we show God. ​​ We honor God because of who He is; we give honor to those in authority because of the position they hold.​​ ​​ It is our duty​​ to value the position of our elected officials, bosses, parents, and so on, as those who have been placed in authority for our benefit. ​​ This honor is not based on agreement or personal feelings, it is simply based on the subjection we have to our superiors.

Here is some food for thought, “Pay that respect to the emperor which his high authority requires, knowing that civil power is of God; that the authority with which he, in the course of​​ his providence, has invested him, must be respected in order to its​​ being obeyed; and​​ that if the man be even bad, and as a man be worthy of no reverence, yet he should be respected on account of his office.​​ If respect be banished, subordination will flee with it, and anarchy and ruin will rise up in their place. ​​ Truly religious persons are never found in seditions”,​​ Adam Clarke’s Commentary.

This command in 1 Peter 2, to honor the king, was written specifically to those under the Roman sovereign Nero, who was a murderer and persecutor of Christians. ​​ It was necessary for​​ Peter to remind the Christians of their duty to the king. ​​ It was difficult to understand why they should honor him when he was against what they believed and even tried to usurp their faith. ​​ Even so, these Christians were reminded that they should give​​ honor to the one in position of authority. ​​ This command is generally applied to all men and governments today. ​​ Remember, the duty to honor governing authority is not based on like or agreement, it is based on the fear of God and obedience in following His instructions. ​​ It is the position which is held in high esteem, not the person. ​​​​ Consider if you were to willfully go against the laws of government. ​​ What would this say about your reverence to God when He is the One who set up authority? ​​ What message​​ would you send to those who are not believers, regarding your respect of duty to man? ​​​​ God has set up the governing laws of man and we are to regard those laws as authority,​​ unless we are specifically told to deny Christ and sin against His commands.

“Honour the king whom God hath set over you, and all the subordinate governors who derive their authority from him; paying obedience to all their just commands, and taking heed that there be nothing rebellious or factious in your behaviour, which would turn to​​ the hurt of society, and bring a reflection upon your holy profession”,​​ Philip Doddridge N.T.​​ 

​​ “Honour the King; this duty consists in reverencing their persons, in obeying their lawful commands, in a cheerful payment of their dues, in praying affectionately for them, and in praising God for the blessing of their government. ​​ Nero, the worst of kings, and the persecutor of Christians was now on the throne, yet the command is express to honour him.​​ 

​​ “And if we consider the words in their connexion and conjunction one with another, fear God, and honour the king, we learn, that religion and the fear of God do best qualify persons to be good subjects, this is the true and steady principle of loyalty; that obedience to governors that is lasting, is for conscience-sake to the command of God: where there is no fear of God in the heart, there will be no regard to the command of God in the life.​​ 

​​ “Lastly, these words may be considered, as in their conjunction, so in their order in which they stand; first, fear God,​​ and then honour the king; intimating that the fear of God must be the rule and guide of our subjection unto governors”,​​ William Burkitt New Testament.

The freedom we have in Christ is to be used for His service. ​​ We are no longer slaves to sin but slaves​​ to righteousness. ​​ Therefore, we are able to choose to act in obedience to the One who purchased our freedom. ​​ The preceding verse to our studied text reads, “[Act] as free men, and do not use your freedom as a covering for evil, but [use it] as bondslaves​​ of God”,​​ (1 Peter 2:16).

The commands to honor all men, love the brotherhood, fear God, and honor the king, are all continuous, with the fear of God being above all else. ​​ So we honor all men as God’s created beings​​ unless evil is promoted; we honor our​​ family in Christ​​ unless sin is supported; we honor the head of government​​ unless we are asked to sin against God. ​​ We are to keep on keeping on in obedience and reverence to God.

 

God’s Abounding Love

God desires to bless each of His children according to His plan.

 

Ruth continues to relay the words of Boaz to Naomi in the next verse. ​​ Ruth 2:21 Then Ruth the Moabitess said, "Furthermore, he said to me, 'You should stay close to my servants until they have finished all my harvest.'" ​​​​ The blessings continue to multiply! ​​ This is like listening to a story that just keeps getting better and better – and we have not neared the end!

It is interesting that verse 21 begins with the words ‘Ruth he Moabitess’. ​​ This particular description of Ruth is a reminder of her background and renders these events even more amazing. ​​ Remember, the land of Moab was known for its worship of idols. ​​ The fact that Ruth is now part of the family name of Elimelech through marriage, and living among the Jewish peoples, having adopted their customs and their God, is only a scene that could have been written by God’s own hand. ​​ 

NASB uses the word ‘furthermore’, other translations say ‘yea, he said unto me’, ‘besides, he said unto me, and ‘he also said to me’ (ASV, RSV and NKJV). ​​ Imagine the conversation between Ruth and Naomi. ​​ Ruth can hardly believe what has transpired that day. ​​ She expected little, just the possibility of gathering a small amount of grain for food, yet she was granted kindness, security, refreshment, and hope. ​​ Through the course of her interaction with Boaz, Ruth remembered her position; her humility continues to shine in her actions and words.

Think of your position in Christ. You were called to Him, and although you had nothing to offer, He stretched out his arms for you to offer riches untold. ​​ Unworthy, unlikely and once His enemy, you have been embraced by God’s mercy and blessed abundantly. ​​ We have an example of Ruth, excited to tell the whole incredible story to Naomi of her unexpected blessings. ​​ 

  • Are you excited to talk about the gift you have received in Christ and the blessings that are yours as His child?​​ 

Ruth reveals that Boaz told her to stay close to His servants until they finished the harvest. ​​ Several commentaries report that there were two harvest periods. ​​ The first being barley which was currently being harvested, and the latter being wheat which would follow. ​​ Ruth had been invited to join Boaz’s servants until all the harvest was complete.

It is noteworthy to look at what Ruth​​ did not​​ share with Naomi. ​​ Boaz was full of praise towards Ruth in verses 11-12. ​​ One commentary makes this observation of Ruth’s conversation with Naomi, “She tells what kindness Boaz had shewed her; but not, how he had commended her. ​​ Humility teaches not only not to praise ourselves, but not to be forward in repeating the praise which others have given us”.​​ John Wesley’s Notes on the Old and New Testaments

Ruth 2:11-12 And Boaz answered and said to her, "All that you have done for your mother-in-law after the death of your husband has been fully reported to me, and how you left your father and your mother and the land of your birth, and came to a people that you did not previously know.​​ "May the LORD reward your work, and your wages be full from the LORD, the God of Israel, under whose wings you have come to seek refuge."

Consider God’s answered prayer and direction in your own life. ​​ There are things you had probably hoped for or thought would be a good direction that God, in His mercy,​​ kept from you. ​​ Instead, you see His answers, in His timing, and as you look back, realize His perfect blessings.​​ 

The hardships that Naomi and Ruth have experienced were allowed by God to prepare them to receive His blessings. ​​ God’s plan for His children makes no compromise,​​ has no holes, and is not left to chance. ​​ Blessings are not acquired by our merit but by His abounding love. ​​ God chose to bless Naomi and Ruth, placing them in His perfect timing for His perfect blessings. ​​ God desires to bless each​​ of His children according to His plan. ​​ Adversity prepares us for what lies ahead, teaches us to trust in God and proves our sincere faith.​​ 

Psalm 119:71 It is good for me that I was afflicted, that I may learn Thy statutes.​​ 

Psalm 66:10 For Thou​​ hast tried us, O God; Thou hast refined us as silver is refined.

Psalm 34:8 O taste and see that the LORD is good; how blessed is the man who takes refuge in Him!

Jeremiah 17:7 "Blessed is the man who trusts in the LORD and whose trust is the LORD.

 1Peter 1:6-7 In this you greatly rejoice, even though now for a little while, if necessary, you have been distressed by various trials,​​ that the proof of your faith, [being] more precious than gold which is perishable, even though tested by fire, may be found​​ to result in praise and glory and honor at the revelation of Jesus Christ;

Humility and a Call to Generosity

The example to emulate is generosity stemming from a heart that loves God. No expectation of repayment but instead an opportunity to reach out to those in need. Do we treat all that God has blessed us with as an opportunity to bless others?

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Ruth 2:13-16

 

We are continuing to look at the dialogue between Boaz and Ruth. ​​ Boaz, in verse twelve had encouraged Ruth by recognizing her trust in God. ​​ Now, in verse thirteen, we read Ruth’s response to his kindness.

Ruth 2:13 Then she said, "I have found favor in your sight, my lord, for you have comforted me and indeed have spoken kindly to your maidservant, though I am not like one of your maidservants."

Several translations​​ of​​ this verse​​ read,​​ “Let me find favor in your sight”. ​​ In her response,​​ Ruth still exemplifies a heart of humility in accepting the kindness Boaz has offered. ​​ She does not demand rights neither does she expect them. ​​ She places herself last among the servants working for Boaz. ​​ Ruth is still acutely aware that she is a foreigner and no act of favor is taken for granted. ​​​​ Fast forward to the end of this book and recall how God takes the lowly and lifts them to a place of honor. ​​ Ruth’s lesson of continued humility is important for each of us to grasp. ​​ What might having a heart of humility look like in your​​ present​​ circumstances? ​​​​ How is your response affected when your attitude is humble?

Proverbs 15:33 The fear of the LORD is the instruction for wisdom, and before honor [comes] humility.

Philippians 2:3 ​​ Do nothing from selfishness or empty conceit, but with humility of mind let each of you regard one another as more important than himself;

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Boaz​​ sets an example of showing comfort and kindness even though it is not necessarily required. ​​ This means in a favorable sense to show​​ pity​​ –​​ compassion​​ for the misfortunes of others. ​​ Boaz regards Ruth’s position with understanding. ​​ I wonder how often we neglect to reach out to others – especially those ‘different’ from ourselves – with a heart of understanding. ​​ When difficult circumstances encroach upon someone’s life, do we take the time to show compassion? ​​​​ 

Ruth 2:14 And at mealtime Boaz said to her, "Come here, that you may eat of the bread and dip your piece of bread in the vinegar." So she sat beside the reapers; and he served her roasted grain, and she ate and was satisfied and had some left.

Boaz was introduced to us in the first verse of this chapter. ​​ He was a man of valor and strength, a man of wealth and part of the family of Elimelech. ​​ He was kind to his servants, desiring that the Lord blessed them. ​​ He was cognoscente of those working for him and​​ he​​ paid particular attention to Ruth. ​​ He asked questions of those around him in order to get understanding and he honored the faithfulness of Ruth as he heard of her care for her mother-in-law Naomi. ​​ In verse fourteen of this chapter, we continue to hear of his special kindness towards this young foreigner.

Ruth was told to sit with the hired workers and take part in the meal prepared for them. ​​ Here is an example of Boaz reaching out to the needy. ​​ And he did so with great generosity. ​​ Notice that Ruth did as she was directed but still remained a bit distanced from the group – the word beside is translated ‘off to the side’ – continuing to show her humility. ​​ Boaz either ate with them or at least was present as his reapers had their meal. ​​ Ruth was handed the parched corn​​ or grain​​ and apparently​​ the​​ quantity​​ was​​ so large that she had some left. ​​​​ Consider the generosity of Boaz​​ and​​ read these additional​​ sections of scripture​​ that describe​​ showing care to others.

Job 31:16-22 “If I have kept​​ the poor from [their] desire, or have caused​​ the eyes of the widow to fail, or have eaten my morsel alone, and the orphan has not shared it (But from my youth he grew up with me as with a father, and from infancy I guided her),​​ If I have seen anyone perish​​ for lack of clothing, or that the needy had no covering,​​ if​​ his loins have not thanked me, and if he has not been warmed with the fleece of my sheep,​​ If I have lifted​​ up my hand against the orphan, because I saw I had support in the gate,​​ let my shoulder​​ fall from the socket, and my arm be broken off at the elbow”.

Luke 14:12-14 And He also went on to say to the one who had invited Him, "When you give a luncheon or a dinner, do not invite your friends or your brothers or your relatives or rich neighbors, lest they also invite you in return, and repayment come to you.​​ "But when you give a reception, invite [the] poor, [the] crippled, [the] lame, [the] blind,​​ and you will be blessed, since they do not have [the means] to repay you; for you will be repaid at the resurrection of the righteous."

Matthew 20:25-28 But Jesus called them to Himself, and said, "You know that the rulers of the Gentiles lord it over them, and [their] great men exercise authority over them.​​ "It is not so among you, but whoever wishes to become great among you shall be your servant,​​ and whoever wishes to be first among you shall be your slave;​​ just as the Son of Man did not come to be served, but to serve, and to give His life a ransom for many."

 The example to emulate is​​ generosity stemming from a heart that loves God. ​​ No expectation of repayment but instead an opportunity to reach out to those in need.​​ ​​ Do we treat all that God has blessed us with as an opportunity to bless others? ​​ Do we hold tightly to what we consider ‘ours’? ​​​​ Do we use power or position to oppress those who are weak?​​ When we recognize all things come from God then we are more likely to use our resources for His glory.​​ In what ways are you able to share with others? ​​ Do you quickly respond to need with an open heart and hand? ​​ How might this be a struggle?

Before we move​​ on to the next verse,​​ consider this​​ question.​​ How would you​​ define​​ someone’s​​ character?​​ How is someone’s character​​ proven? ​​ Think of what defines a person, the attributes that would determine this description and how those qualities are demonstrated. ​​​​ If someone were to ask you for a character reference, think what you might write. ​​ 

 Ruth 2:15 When she rose to glean, Boaz commanded his servants, saying, "Let her glean even among the sheaves, and do not insult her. ​​​​ Boaz thinks ahead and,​​ true to his character, continues to watch out for Ruth. ​​ He commands his employees to let Ruth gather along with them​​ rather than follow behind and pick up what has been left. ​​ This would allow Ruth to collect the best of the harvest. Boaz’s workers are advised to​​ treat​​ Ruth​​ with​​ kindness so that she will not feel ashamed for her need or position. ​​ At this point Ruth must feel as if angels are watching over her, certainly she recognizes the preference given her. ​​ God always blesses a heart of humility which desires to follow Him. ​​ 

Isaiah 66:2 "For My hand made all these things, thus all these things came into being," declares the LORD. "But to this one I will look, to him who is humble and contrite of spirit, and who trembles at My word.

Psalm 51:17 The sacrifices of God are a broken spirit; A broken and a contrite heart, O God, Thou wilt not despise.

Matthew​​ 5:3 "Blessed are the poor in spirit, for theirs is the kingdom of heaven.

James 4:10 Humble yourselves in the presence of the Lord, and He will exalt you.

Remember​​ that gleaning was set up by Jewish Law to provide for the poor and needy which in that time and culture included widows. ​​ Notice that Boaz instructed his reapers to allow Ruth to glean among the sheaves. ​​ Adam Clarke’s Commentary says, “This was a privilege; for no person should​​ glean till the sheaves were all bound, and the shocks set up”. ​​ In other words Ruth was​​ being allowed to gather the best of the harvest. ​​ If the workers had not been forewarned by Boaz it is possible they would have reprimanded her for jumping in to help herself before they were done harvesting.

Read the commentary from Family Bible Notes regarding Boaz, “A generous mind will avoid reproaches and every thing calculated to wound the feelings of the poor, and will delight to aid them in their efforts, by industry and economy, to provide for themselves and those dependent upon them”. ​​ This is an incredible view of​​ the compassion of Boaz towards Ruth. ​​​​ He made it possible for her to provide for herself and Naomi in a way which was honorable and successful. ​​ He did not just hand the grain to Ruth but he allowed her to work for it which fulfills the necessity we all have to care for ourselves and those​​ we are responsible for.

If we are​​ in need, do we expect a handout or are we willing to do whatever is necessary to help ourselves? ​​​​ If we have resources to share, are we generous but also mindful of how we supply help? ​​ What might this look like in current situations today? ​​​​ The Bible says we ought to work to provide for ourselves.​​ 

2Thessalonians 3:10 For even when we were with you, we used to give you this order: if anyone will not work, neither let him eat.

How do we show compassion yet not enable idleness?

Ruth 2:16​​ continues with instruction for Boaz’s workers. ​​ “And also you shall purposely pull out for her [some grain] from the bundles and leave [it] that she may glean, and do not rebuke her”. ​​ This couldn’t be clearer. ​​ They were​​ to purposefully drop some of the stalks of grain for Ruth to pick up. ​​ There was no possible way Ruth could have failed at gathering enough grain! ​​ And again there is a warning to the workers to keep their​​ snide​​ remarks to themselves. ​​ As you read this, what are you thinking in terms of application for yourself? ​​​​ Boaz’s warning to his workers​​ to be mindful of their reactions towards Ruth causes me to think of how quickly I might judge someone’s behavior without having true knowledge. ​​ Also, take note of the generosity extended towards Ruth.

Are we careful to help others succeed? ​​ Do we think ahead of how we might encourage and help them in their endeavors? ​​ When someone gets ‘lucky’ do we resent their blessing and think contemptuous thoughts? ​​ When we do help​​ others, do we attach expectations to our gift of time and resources? ​​ Consider the following scriptures.

Matthew​​ 25:40 "And the King will answer and say to them, 'Truly I say to you, to the extent that you did it to one of these brothers of Mine, [even] the least [of them,] you did it to Me.'

1John 3:17-18 But whoever has the world's goods, and beholds his brother in need and closes his heart against him, how does the love of God abide in him?​​ Little children, let us not love with word or with tongue, but in​​ deed and truth.

Romans 12:9 Let love be without hypocrisy. Abhor what is evil; cling to what is good.

1Timothy 1:5 But the goal of our instruction is love from a pure heart and a good conscience and a sincere faith.

1John 4:20 If someone says, "I love God," and hates his brother, he is a liar; for the one who does not love his brother whom he has seen, cannot love God whom he has not seen.

Review​​ some​​ applications​​ of Ruth 2:13-16.

  • A heart of humility accepts kindness, learning to say thank you.

  • A heart of humility does not expect or demand help.

  • True generosity comes from a heart that recognizes all is a blessing from God. ​​ Sincere giving has no expectation of return.

  • Think of how your character might be described. ​​ Is God honored?

  • Consider what it means to have compassion on those in need and how you might help them succeed.

 What additional application are you able to make toward your own circumstances?

2/10/2020

Humility and Kindness

It is not our hard work that accomplishes anything but the ability to work hard that comes from God. It is not our intelligence that garners our understanding but the intelligence that God gives.

Ruth responds in humility to the kindness of Boaz, she did not expect or think she deserved his favor. ​​ After Boaz assured her of her safety and welcome in his fields, verse 10​​ describes her reaction.

Ruth 2:10 Then she fell on her face, bowing to the ground and said to him, "Why have I found favor in your sight that you should take notice of me, since I am a foreigner?"

 Ruth cast her eyes down being overwhelmed and prostrated​​ herself before Boaz. ​​ She placed herself in a position of inferiority. ​​ The culture of that day would signify her behavior as one of reverence and gratitude towards Boaz. We see this same posture when Joseph was governor and his brothers came needing food​​ (Genesis 42:6). ​​ Also, in​​ Matthew 2:11​​ when the Magi presented gifts to Jesus. ​​ There are many accounts of showing humility and reverence in the Bible.​​ 

Consider much of what we see today in the attitude of individuals. ​​ There is a permeating attitude of​​ deservedness in our culture. ​​ We get caught up in wondering why someone did not treat us better, or the idea that something is not fair. ​​ We want accolades for who we are and what we have accomplished. ​​ We feel slighted when we are not recognized by individuals who are placed above us. ​​ Basically, we often think higher of ourselves than we ought. ​​ In fact, a humble attitude is easily overlooked in the world, even considered weak. ​​ Yet, the example we are shown throughout God’s word is to have a heart of humility, the opposite of pride and arrogance and deservedness.

 Ruth questioned Boaz about his kindness to her especially because she was not from Bethlehem. Perhaps she thought Jewish law may not apply to her in gleaning the fields. ​​ Remember, the Jewish nation disdained the Moabites who were known as enemies of God. ​​ Boaz however shows kindness where kindness needs to be shown. ​​ Are we able to say this of ourselves? ​​ Or are we selective, or too busy, or consider it to be someone else’s job? ​​ Do we show mercy only to the extent we consider necessary? ​​ Are we willing to help others where they need help?

 Read Jesus’ words in​​ Matthew 25:35-36, “For I was hungry, and you gave Me [something] to eat; I was thirsty, and you gave Me drink; I was a stranger, and you​​ invited Me in; naked, and you clothed Me; I was sick, and you visited Me; I was in prison, and you came to Me”.

 James 2:15​​ says, ​​ “If a brother or sister is without clothing and in need of daily food,​​ and one of you says to them, "Go in peace, be warmed and be filled," and yet you do not give them what is necessary for [their] body, what use is that”?

1John 3:16-18​​ tells us, “We know love by this, that He laid down His life for us; and we ought to lay down our lives for the brethren.​​ But whoever has the world's goods, and beholds his brother in need and closes his heart​​ against him, how does the love of God abide in him? Little children, let us not love with word or with tongue, but in deed and truth”.

We are to have hearts of humility and thankfulness when kindness is shown towards us, understanding we are undeserving of such mercy. ​​ We are reminded to show kindness and grace towards others when we see a brother or sister in need. ​​ Learning to say thank you and learning to have eyes and actions that reach​​ out to others is opposite of the world’s picture of service towards one another. ​​ Where do we stand – in the world or in the Word?

Moving on to verse 11 in Chapter Two of Ruth, think carefully for a moment and ask yourself these questions -​​ What is your reputation? ​​ What characteristics would be used by others to describe you?

Ruth 2:11 And Boaz answered and said to her, "All that you have done for your mother-in-law after the death of your husband has been fully reported to me, and how you left your father​​ and your mother and the land of your birth, and came to a people that you did not previously know.

When Ruth questioned his kindness to her, Boaz proceeded to recall what had been relayed to him about her actions. ​​ The words ‘fully reported’ mean what he​​ had heard stood out to him as her circumstances were explained. ​​ Rewind a bit and recall that Ruth had also lost her husband just as Naomi did. ​​ What hasn’t been recorded for us is her lamenting over her own situation. ​​ She must have experienced grief yet​​ it doesn’t seem to be her focus. ​​ Instead, her example was to care for her mother-in-law who had lost her husband and both her sons. ​​ Ruth relinquished any possible support or acceptance she may have received from staying in her home town, and she followed​​ Naomi into a foreign land and culture and professed faith in the God of the Jewish nation. ​​ Ruth heard God’s call and responded by leaving all behind. ​​ 

Luke 14:27, 33 "Whoever does not carry his own cross and come after Me cannot be My disciple.​​ ​​ "So therefore, no one of you can be My disciple who does not give up all his own possessions.

Matthew 16:24 ​​ Then Jesus said to His disciples, "If anyone wishes to come after Me, let him deny himself, and take up his cross, and follow Me.

Luke 9:23 And He was​​ saying to [them] all, "If anyone wishes to come after Me, let him deny himself, and take up his cross daily, and follow Me.

God had allowed Ruth to understand the necessity of trusting in Him alone for all things. ​​ This shouldn’t prompt you to walk away from your home, job, family and all that is part of your immediate life.​​ However, consider what comes first in your life? ​​ If you were to lose any of the persons or things familiar to you, would you be able to continue with a heart of trust and praise for God? ​​ Unfortunately, people often place their purpose in everything​​ except the one constant we have – Jesus. ​​ Then, when loss knocks at the door, meaning and security and happiness dissipate and life’s focus is lost also. ​​ God knows us well and commands us to place Him at the forefront of our existence. ​​ Because of Jesus, we live. ​​ All lasting joy is found in Him alone. ​​ We praise God for the moments of laughter, and sweet memories and relationships and numerous blessings poured on our lives yet we must be prepared and willing to hold all things loosely. ​​ Only then can we fully grasp what is truly important. ​​ And only then will we learn to truly enjoy God’s blessings. ​​ Consider this – if we are always busy trying to hang on to something or control a situation,​​ or we are in fear of losing a person or memory, how much are we able to relax and simply delight in the moments?

John 12:26​​ reads, “If anyone serves Me, let him follow Me; and where I am, there shall My servant also be; if anyone serves Me, the Father will honor him”.

Ruth’s actions preceded her reputation. In​​ Ruth 1:16​​ we read of Ruth’s commitment and intentions,​​ “But Ruth said, "Do not urge me to leave you [or] turn back from following you; for where you go, I will go, and where you lodge, I will lodge.​​ Your people [shall be] my people, and your God, my God”.

So Boaz had been previously informed of Ruth’s pious behavior and desire to follow the God of Israel. ​​ He was impressed by what he had heard and this showed in his special kindness to her. ​​ This confirms the righteous character of Boaz also – that he was a man of God, esteeming those who follow God. ​​ Doing what God desires will always lead to blessing, perhaps not tangible in this life, but always to the reward of an eternal future in heaven. ​​ In following the God of the Jewish nation, Ruth had denounced the idols of Moab, the land of her birth and family. ​​ Any comfort or security she may have found in Moab was left behind. ​​ Her sincere choice to follow the one true God was evident in her actions. ​​ Her​​ sole dependence was placed upon God for His provision and protection. ​​ Ruth’s actions caused Boaz to form a favorable impression of her faith and virtue. ​​ 

Psalm 37:5​​ says, “Commit your way to the Lord, trust also in Him, and He will do it”. ​​ Also read​​ Psalm 55:22​​ which says, “Cast your burden upon the Lord, and He will sustain you; He will never allow the righteous to be shaken”. ​​ Read the words of Jesus to Peter in​​ Luke 18:28-30,​​ “And Peter said, “Behold, we have left our own [homes,] and followed You.”​​ ​​ And He said to them, “Truly I say to you, there is no one who has left house or wife or brothers or parents or children, for the sake of the kingdom of God, who shall not receive many times as much at this time and in the age to come, eternal life”.

Think​​ back again to what Ruth left behind.  ​​​​ In leaving Moab, it is possible she also left the possibility of being remarried. ​​ She was an outsider in Bethlehem and worse, she was from a land that was looked down upon​​ because of its heathen gods.  ​​​​ Leaving the​​ town of her birth very well may have been like putting a seal on her fate as a single woman living in poverty forever. The essence here is Ruth did not just leave one possibility for another, she left all chances for a bright future for a plethora of unknowns. ​​ Each of us needs to come to Jesus willing to forsake all things that will vie for our attention. ​​ There is a daily, and even moment by moment, pushing away of the world from grabbing hold of us. ​​ Read Jesus’ words in​​ Luke 14:33,​​ “So therefore, no one​​ of you can be My disciple who does not give up all his own possessions”. ​​ 

We live fairly easy lives in comparison to the cultures of Biblical times. ​​​​ There is little true religious persecution in America. ​​ Most of us are not forced to choose between family and faith. ​​ And even in the small percentage of those who have had to make this choice, who would you rather please? ​​ Who do you fear most? ​​ Man or God?​​ There are many verses that tell us to fear God above all else. ​​ Here is just one of them,​​ "And to man He said, 'Behold, the fear of the Lord, that is wisdom; and to depart from evil is understanding”, Job 28:28. ​​​​ So then, what holds us back? ​​ What are you afraid to let go of in order to follow Jesus with your whole heart? ​​ We cannot slice salvation like​​ a pie – a small piece for now, another later – it’s all or nothing.

In​​ Ruth 2:12, Boaz gives Ruth a blessing. ​​ “May the Lord reward your work, and your wages be full from the Lord, the God of Israel, under whose wings you have come to seek refuge.”

What stood out the most as I first read this verse was the repetition of God’s name – the Lord …, the Lord, the God of Israel. ​​ Perhaps Boaz is reiterating to Ruth the true source of her blessings. The Lord rewards us; the Lord blesses us. ​​ It is not our hard work that accomplishes anything but the ability to work hard which comes from God. It is not our intelligence that garners our understanding but the intelligence that God gives us. ​​ We each need to be reminded where glory and honor is due, not at the hands of​​ men but in God’s care for us. ​​ Boaz certainly knew Ruth’s background of idol worship and that she was a newer convert to the Jewish faith so maybe he was making the most of an opportunity to encourage Ruth to continue to trust in God, the one true God of​​ Israel.

When people are thankful towards you for serving them, how do you respond? ​​ This is a great chance to speak of God’s blessings and care for His children. ​​ Do we turn praise towards God or accept it for ourselves? ​​ What is your motivation in​​ serving? ​​ Remember the warning given in​​ Mathew 6:1, “Beware of practicing your righteousness before men to be noticed by them; otherwise you have no reward with your Father who is in heaven”.​​ ​​ Boaz refers to God as the Lord Jehovah and the God of Israel –​​ the eternal Lord, and judge and ruler of the Jewish people. ​​ There was no mistake who Boaz worshiped and served. ​​ 

Consider how exciting it is to watch someone learn to trust God. ​​ Imagine the blessing of knowing Ruth’s background and seeing her confidently move forward in her faith. ​​ God has purposed each step Ruth has taken and will continue to do so as she takes refuge in Him. ​​ Boaz knows this and Ruth must be marveling at God’s provision towards her and Naomi. ​​ As you take a moment to rewind circumstances in your own life, are you able to see the protection of the God who loves you? ​​ Do you find peace and security in His hands? ​​ Ruth 2:12​​ says,​​ “the God of Israel, under whose wings you have come to seek refuge”.​​ ​​ These words remind us that God is our refuge. ​​ He is the one we should flee to for protection. ​​ He is the one who offers true hope. ​​ Is your trust in Him alone? ​​ Where do you go for protection?

Psalm 17:8 Keep me as the apple of the eye; Hide me in the shadow of Thy wings,

Psalm 36:7 How precious​​ is Thy lovingkindness, O God! And the children of men take refuge in the shadow of Thy wings.

Ps 57:1 (For the choir director; [set to] Al-tashheth. A Mikhtam of David, when he fled) (from Saul, in the cave.) Be gracious to me, O God, be gracious to me, for my soul takes refuge in Thee; And in the shadow of Thy wings I will take refuge, until destruction passes by.

Ps 63:7 For Thou hast been my help, And in the shadow of Thy wings I sing for joy.

God will fully supply our needs as we rely upon Him. ​​ Boaz’​​ response to Ruth gives us further evidence of her true conversion to Naomi’s God because her faith is seen in her actions. ​​ Hebrews 11:6​​ says,​​ “And without faith it is impossible to please [Him], for he who comes to God must believe that He is, and [that]​​ He is a rewarder of those who seek Him”.​​ 

 

Ruth 2:4-9

Humility of mind causes us to be thankful for all things, realizing we deserve nothing.

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  ​​ ​​ ​​ ​​ ​​ ​​ ​​ ​​​​ We continue with the account of God’s providence in the life of Ruth – and Boaz. ​​ In verse three, Ruth happened upon a field belonging to Boaz. ​​ Now, in verse four, we read that Boaz appears in the​​ field​​ to encourage​​ his workers. ​​ 

Ruth 2:4​​ Now behold, Boaz came from Bethlehem and said to the reapers, "May the LORD be with you."​​ ​​ And they said to him, "May the LORD bless you."

Certainly,​​ it is noteworthy that Boaz would be in the same field at the same time as Ruth. ​​ Remember, Boaz was a man of wealth and it is​​ possible that​​ he owned many​​ fields for harvesting grain. ​​ Before we get to the introduction of Boaz to Ruth, we are given a bit more information about Boaz. ​​​​ 

First, the fact that Boaz was among his servants and payed particular attention to them shows he was a kind master​​ to​​ those working for him. ​​ His salutation of​​ them shows his love of God. ​​ Adam Clarke’s Commentary​​ suggests the words​​ ‘May the Lord bless you’,​​ might be paraphrased, “May God be with you, to preserve you from accidents, and strengthen you to accomplish your work!” ​​ This expression is more than just an acknowledgment of ‘Hi, how are you’ while passing through. ​​ It is a sincere and genuine blessing to those who are working for him. ​​ 

What can we learn from the words and action of Boaz?​​ ​​ There is value in a​​ kind greeting​​ given​​ with sincere motivation​​ to encourage another. ​​ Taking the time to stop and acknowledge the hard work of others is an​​ example​​ of genuine care. ​​ Do we seek to show true kindness to​​ all those we are associated with? ​​ Are we too​​ busy, self-centered,​​ or important in our own eyes to acknowledge others?

The reply to Boaz from his workers is just as significant. ​​ There was an exchange of blessing. ​​ Instead of recording for us the words of disgruntled servants, the​​ response we have​​ comes​​ from thankful workers. ​​ Perhaps the work we have been given or need to perform is not necessarily what we might choose,​​ or is physically harder than we would like. ​​ Maybe we see our job as boring and without meaning. ​​ Regardless of how we feel,​​ we should recognize that work​​ is a blessing from God. ​​ This turns our heart towards thankfulness for the work He provides no matter what it is.

You may be thinking that the exchange of greetings between Boaz and his workers is simply the cultural thing to do, yet as we read on to the actions of this master, it is easy to see that his expressions are not just formal politeness but genuine care. ​​ Moreover, this care is reciprocated. ​​ 

The second thing we learn about Boaz​​ in this exchange of words is the reminder that,​​ although​​ he​​ is​​ well known​​ and holds a place of distinction in the city, he does​​ not regard himself above others in his actions. ​​​​ True children of God recognize they are all in need of God’s care and intervention. ​​ There is no definition between wealth, poverty or position.​​ ​​ No matter our​​ calling,​​ we are reminded to be kind in our overseeing of others and to be faithful in our work.

 It does seem that there must have been a remnant culture​​ at this time​​ in Palestine that​​ was receptive to God. ​​ There was no hesitation to mention His hands of blessing both in Boaz’s words and those of his servants. ​​ We might read this and think our salutations of one another are​​ quite different today. ​​​​ There​​ does not​​ seem to​​ be the same openness or recognition of God. ​​ In​​ fact,​​ the mention of God’s name may not be received​​ as​​ favorable.​​ ​​ Yet, does that mean we cannot or should not extend​​ God’s blessing towards others? ​​​​ Perhaps​​ a​​ response would not be positive but often, at least in my personal​​ observation, the response of God’s blessing on another is welcomed. ​​ The challenge or question is​​ do​​ we show our love for God by speaking of Him freely, in all circumstances. ​​ Do I show my genuine care for others by sharing what is most important? ​​ 

Some time ago, I was convicted of the necessity in my own life to become bolder about God’s priority in my own life. ​​ As I have purposed to mention His name in almost every situation – grocery store, walking, restaurant, etc. – not once have I been met with hostility. ​​ Sure, sometimes silence can be deafening or conversations end abruptly but every now and then, my greeting is returned with a similar blessing,​​ and smile and conversations have resulted in encouragement. ​​​​ John Wesley’s Notes​​ says this, “They expressed their piety, even in their civil conversation, and worldly transactions; which now so many are ashamed of.

2Thessalonians 3:16​​ says,​​ “Now may the Lord of peace Himself continually grant you peace in every circumstance.​​ ​​ The Lord be with you all!” ​​ Consider what might happen if you were to give a similar greeting to those around you.

 

We have​​ an example of the encouragement of a genuine, sincere expression of God’s blessing upon those we are in contact with. ​​ This is more than courtesy. ​​ It is kindness allotted to one another and acknowledgement that all blessings come from God.

What is your behavior towards others as a master or leader, or the one in charge? ​​ What is your behavior towards others as a worker, or the one taking direction?​​ ​​ Is mutual​​ good will​​ shared in your relationships? ​​​​ Would others know, by​​ your​​ words and actions, it is God​​ you​​ serve?

Joshua 24:15 "And if it is disagreeable in your sight to serve the LORD, choose for yourselves today whom you will serve: whether the gods which your fathers served which were beyond the River, or the gods of the Amorites in whose land you are living; but as for me and my house, we will serve the LORD."

 

Moving forward,​​ Boaz enquires about Ruth,​​ 

Ruth 2:5-6​​ “Then Boaz said to his servant who was in charge of the reapers, "Whose young woman is this?"​​ And the servant in charge of the reapers answered and said, "She is the young Moabite woman who returned with Naomi from the land of Moab.

There were servants appointed to look after a group of workers to see that the work was done well. ​​ Apparently, there were persons gleaning in the field at the same time, one of them, Ruth. ​​ Perhaps in a smaller town, you would begin to recognize faces and get to know who was among the poor gleaning the fields during the harvest. ​​ Boaz did not recognize this young woman he saw and inquired his servant about her.​​ 

Remember Ruth’s faithfulness to Naomi in choosing to leave Moab and follow her to Bethlehem. ​​ In Ruth 1:16, Ruth had dedicated herself to Naomi’s people and to her God. ​​ We continue to see God’s care of His children as His plan develops. ​​ Did Ruth know what was going to happen or who she was to meet? ​​​​ There is no indication of this. ​​ We are blessed to have the entire narrative to read in God’s word so we are able to follow the intent of circumstances that lead to blessing. ​​ Ruth stepped forward always trusting, doing what was suggested by Naomi. ​​ So now we find​​ Ruth gleaning​​ in a field, belonging​​ to Boaz,​​ and he has questioned who she is. ​​ Boaz’s servant goes on to explain how Ruth has happened to be in the field. ​​ He recounts for Boaz the request Ruth made of him earlier in the morning.

Ruth 2:7 "And she said, 'Please let me glean and gather after the reapers among the sheaves.' Thus she came and has remained from the morning until now; she has been sitting in the house for a little while."

There is so much packed into verse seven. ​​ First, although Ruth had knowledge that gleaning was for the poor and widowed, she did not assume she would be given the same consideration as those who were from Bethlehem. ​​ When she encountered the servant in charge, she asked permission to glean in the field. ​​ The​​ NAS​​ Bible​​ translates Ruth’s words as saying ‘please’;​​ The​​ KJV translates the same words as ‘I pray’. ​​ 

In each translation, what we see is a modest thought of oneself.​​ ​​ Clearly,​​ Ruth​​ is humble;​​ not expecting something is owed her. ​​​​ Proverbs 15:33 says, “The fear of the Lord is the instruction for wisdom, and before honor [comes] humility”. ​​ Read also,​​ Matthew 5:3 “Blessed are the poor in spirit, for theirs is the kingdom of heaven”. ​​ None of us is above another, no matter the circumstances. ​​ Ephesians 5:21​​ reminds us of the need to have a lowly thought of oneself, “and be subject to one another in the fear of Christ”. ​​ 1 Peter 5:5-6​​ commands us to clothe ourselves with humility saying,​​ “God is opposed to the proud, but gives grace to the humble”.

 I wonder how often our expectations become something we feel we deserve. ​​ We could address so many specific areas. ​​ We will look at the idea of deservedness in general. ​​ Any blessing God chooses to bestow upon us is​​ because of His love. ​​ We do not even deserve to have breath in our bodies. ​​ It is easy for us to look at what others should be doing for us or how we should have this or that or how we should be treated. ​​ We can often focus on what we do not have and become bitter over our supposed lack. ​​ Do you recognize your blessings? ​​ Do you act like a victim – always having something bad happen to you at the hands of another? ​​ Is someone else always to blame for your lack?​​ ​​ This attitude does not recognize the hand of God in an undeserving​​ soul. ​​ Humility of mind causes us to be thankful for all things, realizing we deserve nothing.

An attitude of anger and bitterness​​ and deservedness,​​ comes​​ from a prideful heart; an attitude of joy and thankfulness are born of humility.

Think of how Ruth’s attitude could have been different. ​​ She may have insisted that she be treated the same as those who were long-time residents of Bethlehem. ​​ After all, she gave up her own country to aid her mother-in-law. ​​ She could have been disgruntled to find herself among the poor, gathering​​ leftovers​​ in order to provide food for herself and Naomi. ​​ Bitterness over the loss of her husband could have filled her heart. ​​ Trying to navigate in a completely new culture, with its laws and putting herself in an uncertain position may have caused her to have a sour attitude. ​​ Yet this is not what we see. ​​ When Boaz required of his servant in charge about Ruth, the servant recounted how​​ she​​ had asked permission to collect the sheaves left on the ground. ​​ He then​​ added that she had worked hard all day with only a small break.

 This brings us to our second point – Ruth was grateful for the opportunity to work at providing and this showed in her willingness to put forth effort. ​​ She did not just expect something to be handed her, regardless of her situation.​​ ​​ She was diligent in her labor. ​​​​ Romans 12:11​​ gives us​​ this command of how to conduct ourselves, “not lagging behind in diligence, fervent in spirit, serving the Lord”. ​​​​ ​​ 

Ruth 2:7 places Ruth sitting in a shelter. ​​ The picture painted for us is Ruth perhaps taking cover from the sun in a​​ covered​​ area,​​ after a long days’ toil,​​ catching her breath,​​ and Boaz walking around with his overseer, making sure all is​​ well. ​​ His eye catches the face of someone unknown to him and he asks his servant about her. ​​ Boaz’s servant tells​​ him​​ of her asking permission to gather after the reapers and​​ of her perseverance to work all day. ​​ 

 Boaz now directly addresses Ruth. ​​ Ruth 2:8-9 Then Boaz said to Ruth, "Listen carefully, my daughter. Do not go to glean in another field; furthermore, do not go on from this one, but stay here with my maids. "​​ Let your eyes be on the field which they reap, and go after them. Indeed, I have commanded the servants not to touch you.​​ ​​ When you are thirsty, go to the water jars and drink from what the servants draw."

Here​​ is​​ Boaz stretching out his hand in kindness to Ruth. ​​ He not only allowed her to gather grain as the Jewish law intended, but encouraged her to stay in his field alongside his workers. ​​ He also assured her of safety as she worked in the fields and looked out for her comfort in encouraging her to use the same resource of water available to his servants. ​​ Earlier, we were introduced to Boaz​​ as being a righteous man seen​​ by​​ his words to those working for him, now in his actions toward Ruth, we see the same character.​​ 

Do we do what we can to make others feel comfortable in an unfamiliar situation? ​​ Often​​ we can become​​ focused on what we want or need to do that we neglect reaching out to others. ​​ Genuine words and acts of kindness and thoughtfulness are an important avenue for encouraging others. ​​ The word genuine is not to be missed here. ​​ Words mean nothing without action. ​​ Notice how Boaz felt for Ruth’s protection and did something about it by speaking with the young men in his employ. ​​ This is more than a statement of, ‘I hope you​​ stay​​ safe’, it is an action of​​ let me​​ do what I can​​ to​​ provide safety for you.

 When we desire to encourage another, let us take the extra step and be willing to​​ put our words to action. ​​ What practical examples can you think of that would show kindness? ​​ For instance, instead of saying you will pray for someone, how about praying with them at that time or following up with a text or note that reminds them you are covering them in prayer.

Boaz instructed Ruth to follow the reapers and collect what was left. ​​ Since she was a stranger, Boaz had also taken care to protect her from​​ possible uncivil or rude acts from his workers. ​​ It​​ is​​ obvious Boaz has a​​ genuine concern for her well-being. ​​ In our next study in Ruth, we will see that she noticed his kindness and responds in humility.

 

1/3/2020

With All Humility …

Humility is thinking rightly of ourselves and highly of Jesus; it’s recognizing who we are in light of who God is and what He has done.

Eph 4:2

Eph 4:1 I, therefore, the prisoner of the Lord, entreat you to walk in a manner worthy of the calling with which you have been called,​​ Eph 4:2​​ with all humility and gentleness, with patience, showing forbearance to one another in love,

In our study on Ephesians 4:1, we took a closer look at what it means to be called a prisoner of the Lord. ​​ As someone under the control of Christ, the apostle Paul records words for us that beg a characteristic of children of God – that we walk in such a way to honor God. ​​ We are to represent the One we have bowed to. ​​ The privilege we have in being able to call God our heavenly Father is not without responsibility. ​​ Now, we move to the second verse of this chapter. ​​ I’m excited to dive in with you!

The word ‘with’ in the NAS begins the 2nd​​ verse of Ephesians 4:2. ​​ ‘With’ denotes that there is something to accompany the thought beforehand. ​​ Therefore, Ephesians 4:2 answers a question for us,​​ what does it look like to walk in a manner worthy of being God’s child? ​​ 

With all humility. ​​​​ When I see this word, I immediately am reminded of who I am and who God is. ​​ We have every reason to be filled with a heart of humility. ​​ There is nothing to support a feeling of personal pride in the Gospel. ​​ Just consider the gospel message. ​​ God creates man – man sins against God – God provides the only solution in His Son Jesus Christ who is crucified for all men’s sin (and don’t forget, man was at the center of this most heinous act) – Jesus arose from the dead in victory over man’s sin – God’s relationship with man is restored. ​​ It’s all about God saving His children, redeeming us from our sin. We are nothing without God, we have nothing without God, there is no future without Him, there is no joy, no hope, no strength for the weary, and no light in the darkness. ​​ We are the ones in need!

Consider. ​​​​ What are you able to take credit for in your own life right now? ​​ Are you intelligent? ​​ Praise God! ​​​​ Are you a parent? ​​ Praise God! ​​ Have you been successful in your job? ​​ Praise God! ​​ Are you physically strong? ​​ Praise God! ​​ And even if you may be thinking that many of these things have come your way because of your hard work, consider who gave you the ability to work hard. ​​​​ Who put things into place so that you would be able to study and become intelligent? ​​ Who made it possible to conceive a child? ​​ Who designed your body to be capable?

I am blessed to know several people who are incredibly talented. ​​ I’m not just talking about an ability that is above most of us, but truly, above the top talented. ​​ One individual I know was destined for great fame, the timing was right, she even met someone who could launch her career into the world of voices such as Barbara Streisand and the like. ​​ Everything was in place, except … it was not God’s plan. ​​ She sometimes thinks of what might have been, yet totally accepts the blessings of God’s divine and perfect direction for her life. ​​ This takes a humble heart, and an absolute trust in God.

Having a heart of humility is not thinking poorly of ourselves, in fact, it glorifies God to recognize our special abilities and talent, rather it’s understanding who gifted us with our strengths. ​​ Humility is understanding our sin, our inability to rectify the stain of sin on our soul, and the need for our Savior. ​​ Humility is thinking rightly of ourselves and highly of Jesus; it's recognizing who we are in light of who God is and what He has done. ​​ It’s​​ lowliness of mind. ​​ It’s knowing that anything you could or do accomplish anything it is only because God has specifically blessed you to do so. ​​ It’s having a modest and right view of who we are, a humble opinion of ourselves. ​​ Our only boast is in God. ​​​​ We are to esteem ourselves​​ SMALL​​ in light of our​​ GREAT GOD.

Ps 34:2 My soul shall make its boast in the LORD; the humble shall hear it and rejoice.

Ps 44:6-8 For I will not trust in my bow, nor will my sword save me.​​ 7​​ But Thou hast saved us from our adversaries, And Thou hast put to shame those who hate us.​​ 8​​ In God we have boasted all day long, and we will give thanks to Thy name forever. Selah.

Jer 9:23 Thus says the LORD, "Let not a wise man boast of his wisdom, and let not the mighty man boast of his might, let not a rich man boast of his riches;​​ Jer 9:24 but let him who boasts boast of this, that he understands and knows Me, that I am the LORD who exercises lovingkindness, justice, and righteousness on earth; for I delight in these things, "declares the LORD.

Humility of mind allows us to serve with a heart fully desiring to honor God and help others. ​​ Humility of mind has no expectation for self-gain or recognition. ​​ It doesn’t keep track of what others say. ​​ It doesn’t concentrate on telling others where they have erred. There is no need to point a finger at someone else when we are busy fighting sin in our own life. ​​ Consider. ​​​​ When you feel the need to share with someone else about a difficult conversation you’ve had, or how hard you’re working to make things right with others, who are you elevating? ​​​​ Humility of mind esteems others more than self. ​​ It doesn’t look for recognition.  ​​​​ Humility of mind puts God on the throne. ​​ It accepts God’s plan, and His dealing with us, without dispute. ​​ Humbleness befits our calling as God’s children. ​​ Have you received forgiveness for your sin? ​​ Doddridge​​ says, “let the remembrance of it engage you to behave with all humility and lowliness of heart, under a sense of your former guilt and misery, and your unworthiness of that mercy which God hath magnified towards you; and thus to carry it with meekness towards those who may have troubled you by their forwardness, tenderly passing over their infirmities and indiscretions, as sensible what great offences have been forgive to yourselves.”

Php 2:3 Do nothing from selfishness or empty conceit, but with humility of mind let each of you regard one another as more important than himself;

And​​ gentleness. ​​​​ This is translated from a different Hebrew word than humility but seems closely associated. ​​ The word meekness and also the phrase ‘quiet behavior’ are presented in several bible translations. ​​ As humility or lowliness of mind is directed at how we are to think of ourselves, gentleness or meekness refers more to our attitude towards others. ​​ When we have a right view of self, the temperament we have towards others is affected. We cannot be gentle or meek without first being humble. ​​​​ When a humble heart is present, then gentleness can be sown.  ​​​​ We are then not so easily offended or angered. ​​​​ Have you been around someone who is irritable? ​​​​ This is the opposite of gentleness. ​​ Consider. ​​​​ The tone of your voice, your attitude, your demeanor and body language towards others. ​​ Are you exhibiting a spirit of gentleness? ​​​​ Do you accept injuries without the need to seek revenge? ​​ Do you accept the weaknesses of others or must you point out what they have done wrong? ​​ 

Ga 6:1 Brethren, even if a man is caught in any trespass, you who are spiritual, restore such a one in a spirit of gentleness; [each one] looking to yourself, lest you too be tempted.

Many, many years ago, I was faced with an unfaithful husband. ​​ He was the one who left our marriage, he was the one who practiced infidelity, yet because of God’s grace in my life, I was able to forgive quickly. ​​ Why? ​​​​ Because I knew it was only because of God’s grace that I was not the one making unwise decisions. ​​ I could just as easily been the one who was caught in sin’s grasp. ​​ When we realize and accept our own sin problem, we become increasingly aware of our need for a Savior. ​​ Remembering the gentleness and forgiveness He has bestowed upon us, helps us to reciprocate a gentle spirit towards others.

Tit 3:1-2 Remind them to be subject to rulers, to authorities, to be obedient, to be ready for every good deed,​​ 2​​ to malign no one, to be uncontentious, gentle, showing every consideration​​ (humility, meekness, gentleness)​​ for all men.

With patience. ​​​​ Patience or long-suffering is also bred from humility. ​​ What does it mean to have patience? ​​ This is a word most of us can work on in several areas of our life. ​​ It means to have fortitude, in this case to keep on keeping on in spite of difficult circumstances, to endure without complaining. The need for developing patience begins early on. The object of our patience changes as we move through life. ​​ We may need to learn patience as God clearly shows us the path we are to take in education. ​​ Patience may need to be practiced as we wait upon His direction for our future with a spouse or career or move. ​​ Of course, anyone with children has been educated in their own need to grow in patience as they guide their kids. ​​ There are many more examples that could be listed, but the importance of developing patience is something each of us has experienced and this will probably continue till we are called to our heavenly home. ​​ I love the way one commentary explains long-suffering, “Long-mindedness – never permitting a trial or provocation to get to the​​ end​​ of your patience”.  ​​​​ Albert Barnes NT Commentary​​ describes longsuffering this way: “Bearing patiently with the foibles, faults, and infirmities of others.” ​​ He goes on to suggest that patience should be seen in our manner of receiving the provocations which we meet with from others. ​​ How do you respond to the mistakes or short-comings of others?  ​​​​ It may well be helpful to remember that God has made each of us to be different, unique. ​​ We may react differently to situations. ​​ For example, while some may become quiet, others may be more boisterous. ​​ Each of us has a different disposition and way of doing things, neither is right or wrong in most situations, just different. ​​ Our way of speaking, thinking, and reacting differ. Things that are of no importance to us and have little affect may be incredibly important to another and affect greatly. ​​ That’s okay!

Col 3:12 And so, as those who have been chosen of God, holy and beloved, put on a heart of compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness and patience;

Showing forbearance to one another. ​​​​ Take the idea of patience or long-suffering and add forbearance! ​​ We are to sustain one another, support each other even through the difficulties of life. ​​ We are to endure. ​​ This means, not once do we show humility, gentleness and patience but we continue to literally “hold oneself up against or put up with” weaknesses of others – just as Christ does with us. ​​ Included in the definition of forbearance is the word suffer. ​​ Consider. ​​​​ When you think of the real suffering Jesus​​ endured for us on the cross, is it too much to ask that we ‘put up’ with others; can this even be categorized as true suffering?

Ro 15:1 Now we who are strong ought to bear the weaknesses of those without strength and not [just] please ourselves.

Ga 6:2 Bear one another's burdens, and thus fulfill the law of Christ.

Our practice of patience and long-suffering towards others directly affects how we are to relate to one another in unity, as we will explore further in​​ Ephesians 4:4. “There is one body, and one Spirit, even as ye are called in one hope of your calling”.

1Co 13:4-7 Love is patient, love is kind, [and] is not jealous; love does not brag [and] is not arrogant,​​ 5​​ does not act unbecomingly; it does not seek its own, is not provoked, does not take into account a wrong [suffered,]​​ 6​​ does not rejoice in unrighteousness, but rejoices with the truth;​​ 7​​ bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things.

In love. ​​ Agape: affection or benevolence; specially a love-feast: -- (feast of) charity (-ably), dear, love. ​​ Agapao, to love in a social or moral sense.

1Co 13:1-7 If I speak with the tongues of men and of angels, but do not have love, I have become a noisy gong or a clanging cymbal.​​ 2​​ And if I have [the gift of] prophecy, and know all mysteries and all knowledge; and if I have all faith, so as to remove mountains, but do not have love, I am nothing.​​ 3​​ And if I give all my possessions to feed [the poor,] and if I deliver my body to be burned, but do not have love, it profits me nothing.​​ 4​​ Love is patient, love is kind, [and] is not jealous; love does not brag [and] is not arrogant,​​ 5​​ does not act unbecomingly; it does not seek its own, is not provoked, does not take into account a wrong [suffered,]​​ 6​​ does not rejoice in unrighteousness, but rejoices with the truth;​​ 7​​ bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things.

Gentleness, patience and forbearance are born in humility. ​​ Then a humble heart is demonstrated by our love for one another. ​​ Without love for one another, it is impossible to be unified in our pursuit of holiness and honoring God.

“With the greatest humility, and meekness, and with long-suffering, support one another under the miseries of life, by doing every good office in your power to each other, from a principle of unfeigned love”. ​​ Macknight on the Epistles

“The word signifies a diligent, industrious, and united endeavor, to preserve and keep, to support and maintain, to unity of the Spirit; that is, a union of heart and spirit, a unity of faith and doctrine, and unity of judgment and affection, amongst all the professors of Christianity”. ​​ William Burkitt New Testament

 

Walk worthy with humility and gentleness, patiently enduring each other because of love.