Serving For Him and Because of Him

God uses us; however, we must be careful to remember He is the author of all good things. Anytime we are able to help, encourage, or serve, it is not to be for personal accolades. It is for His praise alone.

1Peter 4:11​​ Whoever speaks, is to do so as one who is speaking the utterances of God;​​ whoever serves is to do so as one who is serving by the strength which God supplies; so that in all things God may be glorified through Jesus Christ, to whom belongs the glory and dominion forever and ever. ​​ Amen.

A few weeks ago, we began looking at this verse and concentrated on the Apostle’s admonition to be careful of the content of our words,​​ Whoever speaks, is to do so as one who is speaking the utterances of God.​​  ​​​​ No matter what particular gifts we may use to serve one another, our speech needs to represent the Word correctly. ​​ We are to be mindful of sharing words of encouragement, words of compassion, and words of Truth.

In the next section of verse 11, Peter now expands on serving – how we are to serve, and why we are to serve. ​​ Whoever serves is to do so as one who is serving by the strength which God supplies;

What often happens when we seek to serve in our own strength?

The serving mentioned here is that of attending to another’s needs as a friend, or in ministry in specific roles in the church. ​​ Serving takes time, commitment, and energy; it often affects our personal life, finances, and requires decisions to put aside our wants and schedules to meet the needs of others. ​​ If you are involved in serving, you recognize that a large part of your life is spent in ministry – preparing, praying, and encouraging others. ​​ My own opinion is if you are bored, you’re not serving enough. ​​ Pull out a piece of paper and write an encouraging note; pick up your phone and share encouraging words. ​​ If you are lonely, you are not looking for opportunities to serve. ​​ If you become discouraged, disappointed, or depressed, serve more – get involved in people’s lives for the sake of encouraging others. ​​ When we are consumed with serving to benefit others, we will not have the time to concentrate on ourselves, our feelings, etc. ​​​​ We do need to take care of everyday responsibilities, so this does not mean we serve in lieu of dealing with the immediate things that need our attention. ​​ It does mean if we are​​ only​​ focused on our own issues, we are in danger of ignoring opportunities to help others.

How do we serve?

By the strength which God supplies.​​ ​​ God blesses each of His children with gifts to be used for Him. ​​ Our talents, abilities, strength,​​ and​​ compassion, are not given to us to make us feel good about ourselves, instead we use these things to encourage others in the faith. ​​ All we are and have, is for God’s glory.

Romans 12:6-8 Since we have gifts that differ according to the grace given to us, each of us is to exercise them accordingly: if prophecy, according to the proportion of his faith; if service, in his serving; or he who teaches, in his teaching; or he who exhorts, in his exhortation; he who gives, with liberality; he who leads, with diligence; he who shows mercy, with cheerfulness.

God uses us;​​ however,​​ we must be careful to remember​​ He​​ is the author of all good things. ​​ Anytime we are able to help, encourage, or serve, it is not to be for personal accolades. ​​ It is for His praise alone.

“[Of the ability which God giveth] Perhaps the ministering here may refer to the care of the poor, and the ability is the quantum of means which God may have placed in their hands; and they are to minister this as coming immediately from God, and lead the minds of the poor to consider Him as their benefactor, that He in all things may be glorified through Christ Jesus. ​​ This is implied in the essence of any charitable act: the actor is not the author, God is the author; and the poor man should be taught to consider Him as his immediate benefactor. ​​ Those who give any thing as from themselves, rob God; for to Him the praise for all good, and the dominion over all men and things, belong for ever and ever. ​​ ​​​​ Adam Clarke’s Commentary

We should serve in humility, knowing it is God’s work through us;

we should serve diligently, knowing it is God’s desire for us.

 

Matthew Poole’s Commentary​​ says,​​ “Let him do it as of the ability which God giveth; i.e. not remissly and coldly, but diligently and strenuously, and with his might, as far as God enables him; this being to do it faithfully, which is especially required in a steward,​​ 1Corinthians 4:2 In this case, moreover, it is required of stewards that one be found trustworthy”.

Consider. ​​ We serve in God’s strength, using the gifts He has given to each of us. ​​ We are to be found trustworthy in being good stewards of the abilities we have. ​​ Therefore, we do not hide our talents in the closet but rather, we need to be sensitive to the areas where we can be helpful. ​​ In this way, the truths of the Gospel are manifest in our lives as a witness to those around us.

Why do you serve? ​​ What is your motivation?

There are some who are not believers, who serve others. ​​ But they get their rewards in full here on earth by men. ​​ The motivation is to do something good,​​ yet invariably they gain something. ​​ A special interest​​ of theirs​​ gets attention, their financial donations offer a tax benefit, or perhaps they get support from a foundation they choose to help. ​​ Something or someone other than God is elevated. ​​ 

Matthew 6:1-2 "Beware of practicing your righteousness before men to be noticed by them; otherwise you have no reward with your Father who is in heaven. ​​ So when you give to the poor, do not sound a trumpet before you, as the hypocrites do in the synagogues and in the streets, so that they may be honored by men. ​​ Truly I say to you, they have their reward in full.

There’s lots of reasons people serve in the church. ​​ We need to be careful even when serving in the church body because our motivation may be for self. ​​ Some give of their time, energy, and resources because it is expected, and others may be watching. ​​ Some serve because it gives them a sense of belonging. ​​ Unfortunately, recognition, titles, popularity, and importance can be motivators in serving in a church body. ​​ But what if no one encouraged you; what if no one recognized your hard work; what if you felt unsupported and were even discouraged by others’ lack of response – would you keep serving? ​​ Do you serve when it means sacrificing your time, or when it gets difficult?

As a side note, we should try to show our appreciation for those who work hard to serve us so this is not a license to ignore those who serve diligently; but appreciation should never be expected. ​​ You should squelch those feelings of hurt when your efforts go unnoticed.

Consider what Christ did for us. ​​ He came to serve – not for His own benefit, but for the glory of His Father. ​​ He was ignored; He was not appreciated. ​​ He never belonged, in fact he had nowhere to even lay His head. ​​ Matthew 8:20 Jesus *said to him, "The foxes have holes and the birds of the air have nests, but the Son of Man has nowhere to lay His head. ​​ "He was of lowly birth​​ (Luke 2:7 And she gave birth to her firstborn son; and she wrapped Him in cloths, and laid Him in a manger, because there was no room for them in the inn). ​​ His ministry was challenged, certainly not supported​​ (Mark 11:27-33); He was threatened, and ridiculed, beaten, and crucified. ​​ Yet, even while dying on the cross, He served – asking forgiveness for those who sinned and proclaiming salvation to one of the criminals crucified with Him.

Are you self-serving or serving God? ​​ Do your thoughts center more on how you feel or what you can do to encourage others? ​​​​ If you are serving self, you are likely to receive earthly benefits; serving for God’s glory will prove your eternal birth right.

Matthew 7:21-23 "Not everyone who says to Me, 'Lord, Lord,' will enter the kingdom of heaven, but he who does the will of My Father who is in heaven will enter. ​​ "Many will say to Me on that day, 'Lord, Lord, did we not prophesy in Your name, and in Your name cast out demons, and in Your name perform many miracles?' "And then I will declare to them, 'I never knew you; DEPART FROM ME, YOU WHO PRACTICE LAWLESSNESS.'

We serve​​ so that in all things God may be glorified through Jesus Christ, to whom belongs the glory and dominion forever and ever. ​​ Amen.

Remember the account written for us in Mark, of James and John asking who would sit on Jesus’ right and left in glory. ​​ They were all about themselves, seeking their own benefit. ​​ Jesus’ reply to them is recorded in​​ Mark 10:42-45.

Calling them to Himself, Jesus *said to them, “You know that those who are recognized as rulers of the Gentiles lord it over them; and their great men exercise authority over them. ​​ “But it is not this way among you, but whoever wishes to become great among you shall be your servant; and whoever wishes to be first among you shall be slave of all. ​​ “For even the Son of Man did not come to be served, but to serve, and to give His life a ransom for many.”

Whatever you do is to be done for God’s glory. ​​ The last part of 1Peter 4:11 reads,​​ Jesus Christ, to whom belongs the glory and dominion forever and ever. ​​ Amen.

Revelation 5:12-13 saying with a loud voice, "Worthy is the Lamb that was slain to receive power and riches and wisdom and might and honor and glory and blessing." And every created thing which is in heaven and on the earth and under the earth and on the sea, and all things in them, I heard saying, "To Him who sits on the throne, and to the Lamb, be blessing and honor and glory and dominion forever and ever."

Ephesians 3:20-21 Now to Him who is able to do far more abundantly beyond all that we ask or think, according to the power that works within us,​​ to Him be the glory in the church and in Christ Jesus to all generations forever and ever. ​​ Amen.

Romans 11:36 For from Him and through Him and to Him are all things. ​​ To Him be the glory forever. ​​ Amen.

Jude 1:25 to the only God our Savior, through Jesus Christ our Lord, be glory, majesty, dominion and authority, before all time and now and forever. Amen.

Hebrews 13:20-21 Now the God of peace, who brought up from the dead the great Shepherd of the sheep through the blood of the eternal covenant, even Jesus our Lord,​​ equip you in every good thing to do His will, working in us that which is pleasing in His sight, through Jesus Christ, to whom be the glory forever and ever. ​​ Amen.

Think of the words associated with Christ – glory and dominion. ​​ There is none other who can rightly claim honor, praise, and worship. ​​ There is none other who has power and strength over all creation.​​ 

Amen. ​​ Literally, this is a trustworthy statement.

 

Speak His Truths,

serve in His strength,

all for His glory.

 

 

Milquetoast

I would propose that none of us have ever come close to the rejection and persecution of Paul. Yet we have assimilated several “acceptable” excuses to be much less bold – milquetoast.

It’s Interesting. ​​ We can be so concerned about what others may think of us that it gives cause to be meek and mild regarding sin, or to be low-key and quiet about our faith. ​​ How many​​ times have I thought to myself that I should say something, bring up Truth, but don’t because I will be thought of as pushy or weird. ​​ Often, I do move forward with talk of Jesus, but often this is only after I have tested the waters and I’m reasonably​​ sure I won’t receive a negative reaction.​​ I am bothered by my lack of boldness in some situations. ​​ Perhaps the reader can relate.

Are we as afraid of being offensive to our God as we are to others?​​ ​​ I wonder how it would change​​ things in the lives of believers if they were to develop more of the mindset we see in Paul.

Ac 20:24 "But I do not consider my life of any account as dear to myself, in order that I may finish my course, and the ministry which I received from the Lord Jesus, to testify solemnly of the gospel of the grace of God.

So what if someone doesn’t like what you believe! ​​ I’m not proposing an in your face approach because that may come off as being prideful,​​ and may shut down the conversation before it has a chance​​ to begin. ​​ I do believe we need to be genuinely interested and sincere with others. But I am considering that we, believers in general, have learned to be so sensitive to offending others that we have accepted a form of social quietness about God. ​​ However, when I read about the lives of the apostles, there is no such consideration. ​​ 

Instead of waiting upon most opportunities to share the Truth, opportunities were made. ​​ People​​ expected​​ that they would hear about God when they saw Paul.​​ 

What has happened?! ​​ What do others expect when they see us? ​​ What kind of conversations can they count on? ​​ 

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Several years ago, a movie titled ‘My Big Fat Greek Wedding’ was released. ​​ A word used in that film seems to describe my concern perfectly: ​​ Milk Toast. ​​ This is​​ how the bride’s Dad described her betrothed. ​​ Milk toast, no backbone. ​​ Dictionary.com states that a person who is “milk-toast” is an ineffectual, timid person. ​​ In my searching, I came across this​​ spelling of the word: ​​ Milquetoast, meaning a very timid, unassertive, spineless person. ​​ Answers.com​​ explains that this word comes from a comic strip character, Casper Milquetoast, who exhibited the characteristics of being timid, meek and unassertive. ​​ Wikipedia says Caspar Milquetoast was a comic strip character created by​​ H. T. Webster​​ for his cartoon series​​ The Timid Soul.​​ This character was given the name Milquetoast as a nod to the popular food prepared in the early 1900’s for children, the sickly and the aging,​​ because of its bland taste and soft texture. ​​ The recipe simply calls for toasted bread set in a dish of milk, sometimes sprinkled with sugar and/or cinnamon.

When it comes to the Gospel,​​ or addressing sin,​​ I don’t want to exhibit the characteristics listed above! ​​ I definitely want no part in being​​ Milquetoast. ​​ Paul says ‘he did not consider his life of any account as dear to himself’. ​​ Give me more of that, please!

The translation​​ of​​ Acts 20:24​​ in the RSV reads,​​ But I do not account my life of any value nor as precious to​​ myself, if only I may accomplish my course and the ministry which I received from the Lord Jesus, to testify to the gospel of the grace of God.

Chapter 20 of Acts begins with the reminder of the problems that had arisen because of Paul’s teaching that there was only one God and this was not a god made by human hands. ​​ A silversmith named Demetrius would be directly affected if the people began to follow this teaching because his business in making silver shrines would suffer. ​​ The concern was not really if​​ Paul’s teaching was right or wrong, it was monetary. ​​ If there was no need for idols then there would be no need for craftsmen to make them. ​​ The financial likelihood of this group would be in danger. ​​ So the whole city of Ephesus was in disorder, led by Demetrius (see Acts 19).

This turmoil did not stop Paul however. ​​ In Acts 20, we have record of the Jews plotting against him. ​​ Paul recounts his hardships in​​ Acts 20:19 – “serving the Lord with all humility and with tears and with trials​​ which came upon me​​ through the plots of the Jews”. ​​​​ “Well might the apostle say, he was in deaths often, in perils of robbers, in perils in the city, in perils by my own countrymen, in perils among false brethren.”​​ William Burkitt New Testament

Through all the apostles’ trials and tribulations, imprisonments, and false accusations, the example we have recorded for us is his boldness for Jesus. ​​ In​​ Acts 20:20-21​​ we read that Paul “did not shrink from declaring anything profitable and teaching publicly from house to house, solemnly testifying to everyone of repentance toward God and faith in our Lord Jesus Christ.”  ​​​​ And, although he knows afflictions and imprisonment will continue, he is not thwarted in his goal to preach Christ. ​​ 

The questions, “Why?” and “How?” beg to be answered. ​​ I would propose that none of us have ever come close to the rejection and persecution of Paul. ​​ Yet we have assimilated several “acceptable” excuses to be much less bold – milquetoast. ​​ Look again at​​ Acts 20:24. ​​ “But I do not consider my life of​​ any account as dear to myself, in order that I may finish my course, and the ministry which I received from the Lord Jesus, to testify solemnly of the gospel of the grace of God”.

The KJV of this verse start out with the words, “But none of these things move me”. ​​ In other words, no persecution or imprisonment or any kind of adversity whatsoever, keep me from my purpose. ​​ Wow, we are given a picture in the heart of a soldier that has a high view of God and sees himself as only an instrument for God’s purpose and glory!

Consider. ​​​​ What keeps you from sharing the Gospel? ​​ Is it a concern that people won’t like you? ​​ Do you refrain from showing your excitement about Christ because others will be turned off or think you’re weird? ​​ Is it possible to take your faith too seriously? ​​ I’m not promoting the idea that everyone should become a political activist, I’m not suggesting we hold large signs and stand on the corner of a busy intersection, but what about just bringing up the subject with your words? ​​ What have you got to lose? ​​ Sure, some may roll their eyes but you just might encourage a lost soul to look at the only One who can truly help them find their way. ​​ I wonder if the apostle Paul even considered his own comfort in sharing Christ…

We have to ask​​ an additional question.​​ ​​ How do we address sin in ourselves and in others? ​​ Do we measure our actions and thoughts according to the world around us, using what is acceptable as our scale? ​​ Or, do we see sin clearly from God’s truths and take action to​​ put off​​ behavior that is inconsistent with being a child of God?

I was in a conversation with someone who had been struggling with the battle of a specific sin. ​​ They had come to the resolution that it would just have to be okay to allow this behavior in their life because the thought of doing without was too much to ask. ​​ They assured me they loved Christ and were desiring to live for Him, just not in this one area. ​​ The thought that God would ask them to deny themselves this one pleasure for the rest of their lives was difficult to accept. ​​ Can we​​ serve​​ God wholeheartedly and still choose to live in sin? ​​ This was a difficult interaction but the answer is so clear. ​​ We are to honor God in all things. ​​​​ 

Joh 8:34 Jesus answered them, Verily, verily, I​​ say unto you, whosoever committeth sin is the servant of sin. ​​​​ (KJV)

Ga 5:24 Now those who belong to Christ Jesus have crucified the flesh with its passions and desires.

Ro 6:12 Therefore do not let sin reign in your mortal body that you should obey its lusts,

No amount of negativity thwarts Paul’s mission to proclaim truth. ​​ His own life is not held as valuable as the message he has been commissioned to preach. ​​ His own desires are not what he lives for. ​​ He says his life is not ‘dear​​ to himself’. ​​ He honors God;​​ the message of Christ is more precious than his reputation. ​​ Do we care more about what others think of​​ us​​ than what they think of​​ God? ​​ 

Why does Paul make the​​ statement,​​ But I do not consider my life of any account as dear to myself? ​​​​ He goes on to explain his thinking as we move through the verse. ​​ Acts 20:24​​ continues,​​ ‘in order that I may finish my course and the ministry which I received from the Lord Jesus’. ​​ So if his own consideration of his life gets in the way with the ministry he has in Christ, then he chooses to uphold his​​ mission above himself. ​​ You want to just be a cheerleader for Paul, right! ​​ But maybe, we want to be more than cheerleaders on the sideline, maybe, we want to be on the squad, in the game. ​​ 

How is Paul able to do this? ​​ How are we able to have this mindset? ​​​​ Consider. ​​​​ Where did Paul receive his ministry? ​​​​ From the Lord Jesus.​​ ​​ This is a win-win! ​​ If God wants us to do something, He will provide what we​​ need: ​​ His understanding, His strength, His boldness, His grace – whatever is needed to fulfill His will for us​​ to accomplish the works He has ordained. ​​ I began writing this blog several months ago. ​​ As I’ve been studying, and praying about my own lack of boldness, I’ve seen some incredible changes that can only come from God working in me. ​​ Seriously, over the last month I’ve been able to share the truths of God’s word with more people than I can count. ​​ These are not people that I know, I haven’t even ‘tested’ the waters before I​​ speak.​​ I’ve just asked the question straight up, “Is Jesus Christ your Lord and Savior?”​​ or “Have you been able to trust in Jesus for ……? ​​​​ People want to tell you about themselves, about their problems and struggles – I think God is giving me better ears to hear,​​ coupled with a growth in genuine concern and compassion. ​​​​ The conversations God has ordained have been incredible! ​​ Mostly​​ interactions have been encouraging​​ with opportunities to share​​ the Gospel message;​​ a few individuals were closed doors to Truth,​​ but still positive words were exchanged. ​​ I truly believe that God has blessed my desire to tackle my own problem of​​ Milquetoast! ​​​​ Certainly, all glory to God for His amazing grace and work in the life of a sinner such as myself. ​​​​ But, He will use us. He will provide understanding, strength, boldness and grace – whatever is needed to fulfill His will for us to accomplish the works He has ordained.

I love the encouraging truths from Philippians 1:

Php 1:3-7 I thank my God in all my remembrance of you,​​ 4​​ always offering prayer with joy in my every prayer for you all,​​ 5​​ in view of your participation in the gospel from the first day until now.​​ 6​​ [For I am] confident of this very thing, that He who began a good work in you will perfect it until the day of Christ Jesus.​​ 7​​ For it is only right for me to feel this way about you all, because I have you in my heart, since both in my imprisonment and in the defense and confirmation of the gospel, you all are partakers of grace with me.

What​​ is the mission? ​​​​ To testify solemnly of the gospel of the grace of God. ​​ To witness to others, specifically the gospel, God’s grace​​ in the lives of sinners. ​​ This is more than​​ just witnessing by my life style,​​ and​​ by what others see in me. ​​ Although this is important and may even lead to conversation, it is passive. ​​ It’s more ‘the sidelines’ cheerleader and the extra players on the bench than it is​​ being on​​ the team on the field. ​​ Paul has​​ been on the field, in fact, leading the way. ​​ Remember Paul’s testimony? ​​​​ ​​ 1Ti 1:15 It is a trustworthy statement, deserving full acceptance, that Christ Jesus came into the world to save sinners, among whom I am foremost [of all.]​​ ​​ None of us are without sin; a perfect God does not need to save perfect people! ​​ Let’s get out there with the right motivation, remembering who we are without Christ, sharing out of gratitude what we’ve been given.​​ 

1Ti 1:5; 9-11 But the goal of our instruction is love from a pure heart and a good conscience and a sincere faith.​​ 9​​ realizing the fact that law is not made for a righteous man, but for those who are lawless and rebellious, for the ungodly and sinners, for the unholy and profane, for those who kill their fathers or mothers, for murderers​​ 10​​ and immoral men and homosexuals and kidnappers and liars and perjurers, and whatever else is contrary to sound teaching,​​ 11​​ according to the glorious gospel of the blessed God, with which I have been entrusted.

Where are we in our boldness for Christ? ​​ We are to be exceedingly joyful to serve our Lord Jesus in the ministry​​ we have received​​ to earnestly share the good news of God’s grace!​​ Are we​​ instead​​ choosing to be​​ Milquetoast?