Make Lemonade

There is a saying: When life gives you lemons, make lemonade. How about adding to that? When life gives you lemons, make lemonade and dwell on God’s Truth – then you will be refreshed both inside and out!

You know how you suggest to others different Bible verses to help with whatever circumstances they are facing? ​​ Usually, those scriptures stick in our mind because they have been instrumental in our own lives.​​ 

One of my favorite sections of scripture​​ is familiar to most believers.​​ It begins in​​ Philippians Chapter 4 verse 6. ​​ “Be anxious for nothing, but in everything by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known to God.​​ ​​ 7​​ And the peace of God, which surpasses all comprehension, shall guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus”. ​​ To be anxious means to be​​ disquieted, to be worried or nervous or uneasy. ​​ We are commanded to not be troubled by anything at all!​​ Easier said than done, right? ​​ Instead of being worried we are to earnestly pray,​​ presenting our requests to God. ​​ The result promised, when this is done, is​​ peace​​ – the​​ opposite of a disquieted spirit – a quiet, restful, serenity of mind. ​​ These two verses go on to say that we cannot even begin to understand how peace can enter into our troubled hearts but, when we obey and act according to God’s word, it does and the result is a heart and mind that is protected in Christ Jesus.​​ 

The first time I truly studied this scripture​​ in a pen-to-the-paper practical mode, I was in California and my son and his wife lived across the country. My​​ young​​ daughter-in-law was found to have an extremely large tumor which would require​​ immediate and extensive surgery, followed by a long recovery and the question of whether pregnancy would​​ ever​​ be possible. ​​​​ It’s in those times especially that you feel the distance​​ of miles​​ that separate you from loved ones. ​​ I was unable to sleep and​​ was beginning to feel​​ a bit overwhelmed by​​ circumstances. ​​ It’s so cool how God uses His word to direct us to the place He wants us.​​ I was led to Philippians 4 and​​ when I carefully read verse eight,​​ God showed me clearly​​ there was a very practical exercise that would direct my thoughts to a place of rest. ​​ This was the first time I took out my notebook and​​ physically wrote​​ a list according to the categories​​ in​​ Phil 4:8: ​​​​ ​​ (I’ve done this several times since.)

“Finally, brethren, whatever is true, whatever is honorable, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is of good repute, if there is any excellence and if anything worthy of praise, let your mind dwell on these things.”

After completing my list of all that was absolute truth, the facts; all that was honest and honorable; all that was just and pure and acceptable; and so forth, in connection with my son and his wife and the challenge they were facing, I had so much to ponder of​​ God’s grace in their lives that my heart was put at rest once again. ​​ 

There is a saying: When life gives you lemons, make lemonade. ​​ How about adding to that? ​​ When life gives you lemons, make lemonade and dwell on God’s Truth – then you will be refreshed both inside and out!  ​​​​ Dwelling on Truth – an incredible, practical remedy for discouragement. ​​ Sometimes life can seem overwhelmingly complicated, confusing, unfair and downright depressing. ​​ 

Have you been in a place where you’ve almost had to physically will yourself to remain hopeful and joyful in the things that were true and honest and good so that the things that were unfair and dishonest and bad were unable to find a dwelling place in your heart? ​​​​ God understands and He offers His Divine direction.

Once again, in​​ Philippians 4:9, God promises his peace with us as we seek to follow Him.

Php 4:9 The things you have learned and received and heard and seen in me, practice these things; and the God of peace shall be with you.

When tears are at the surface, when the words don’t come, when you are tired and feel like giving up,​​ or you don’t know which way to turn, focus heavenward. ​​ God’s prescription for healing has already been written. ​​