Make Lemonade

There is a saying: When life gives you lemons, make lemonade. How about adding to that? When life gives you lemons, make lemonade and dwell on God’s Truth – then you will be refreshed both inside and out!

You know how you suggest to others different Bible verses to help with whatever circumstances they are facing? ​​ Usually, those scriptures stick in our mind because they have been instrumental in our own lives.​​ 

One of my favorite sections of scripture​​ is familiar to most believers.​​ It begins in​​ Philippians Chapter 4 verse 6. ​​ “Be anxious for nothing, but in everything by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known to God.​​ ​​ 7​​ And the peace of God, which surpasses all comprehension, shall guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus”. ​​ To be anxious means to be​​ disquieted, to be worried or nervous or uneasy. ​​ We are commanded to not be troubled by anything at all!​​ Easier said than done, right? ​​ Instead of being worried we are to earnestly pray,​​ presenting our requests to God. ​​ The result promised, when this is done, is​​ peace​​ – the​​ opposite of a disquieted spirit – a quiet, restful, serenity of mind. ​​ These two verses go on to say that we cannot even begin to understand how peace can enter into our troubled hearts but, when we obey and act according to God’s word, it does and the result is a heart and mind that is protected in Christ Jesus.​​ 

The first time I truly studied this scripture​​ in a pen-to-the-paper practical mode, I was in California and my son and his wife lived across the country. My​​ young​​ daughter-in-law was found to have an extremely large tumor which would require​​ immediate and extensive surgery, followed by a long recovery and the question of whether pregnancy would​​ ever​​ be possible. ​​​​ It’s in those times especially that you feel the distance​​ of miles​​ that separate you from loved ones. ​​ I was unable to sleep and​​ was beginning to feel​​ a bit overwhelmed by​​ circumstances. ​​ It’s so cool how God uses His word to direct us to the place He wants us.​​ I was led to Philippians 4 and​​ when I carefully read verse eight,​​ God showed me clearly​​ there was a very practical exercise that would direct my thoughts to a place of rest. ​​ This was the first time I took out my notebook and​​ physically wrote​​ a list according to the categories​​ in​​ Phil 4:8: ​​​​ ​​ (I’ve done this several times since.)

“Finally, brethren, whatever is true, whatever is honorable, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is of good repute, if there is any excellence and if anything worthy of praise, let your mind dwell on these things.”

After completing my list of all that was absolute truth, the facts; all that was honest and honorable; all that was just and pure and acceptable; and so forth, in connection with my son and his wife and the challenge they were facing, I had so much to ponder of​​ God’s grace in their lives that my heart was put at rest once again. ​​ 

There is a saying: When life gives you lemons, make lemonade. ​​ How about adding to that? ​​ When life gives you lemons, make lemonade and dwell on God’s Truth – then you will be refreshed both inside and out!  ​​​​ Dwelling on Truth – an incredible, practical remedy for discouragement. ​​ Sometimes life can seem overwhelmingly complicated, confusing, unfair and downright depressing. ​​ 

Have you been in a place where you’ve almost had to physically will yourself to remain hopeful and joyful in the things that were true and honest and good so that the things that were unfair and dishonest and bad were unable to find a dwelling place in your heart? ​​​​ God understands and He offers His Divine direction.

Once again, in​​ Philippians 4:9, God promises his peace with us as we seek to follow Him.

Php 4:9 The things you have learned and received and heard and seen in me, practice these things; and the God of peace shall be with you.

When tears are at the surface, when the words don’t come, when you are tired and feel like giving up,​​ or you don’t know which way to turn, focus heavenward. ​​ God’s prescription for healing has already been written. ​​ 

To Be or Not to Be Content? That is the Question.

Find beauty in the desert.

Here’s my disclaimer. I am in no way a scholar learned Bible student. My only qualification to understanding and applying God’s word comes from His work in my life through His Holy Spirit. Therefore, what I share in this blog, in the Bible studies I help to lead, and in the retreats which I’ve had the pleasure of speaking, is from a heart that is devoted to following my Lord and Savior in all things. My efforts to understand God’s truth take me to several different resources that help my limited knowledge. I am thankful God has given me a passion to communicate His love and many avenues to express the urgent need we have for His gift of salvation.

Sometimes, I wish I had a more formal education in Biblical studies but, alas, that brings me to one of the words that has been on my heart.
Contentment – What does it mean?

Php 4:11-12 Not that I speak from want; for I have learned to be content in whatever circumstances I am. I know how to get along with humble means, and I also know how to live in prosperity; in any and every circumstance I have learned the secret of being filled and going hungry, both of having abundance and suffering need.

Let’s think opposites.
Want – Have
Content – Discontent, Dissatisfied

Are we able to change our circumstances? In many ways, yes. But do we want to or should we? We have the freedom to make many of our own choices. This is fun, it allows for individual likes and dislikes. But, think of those things that you are unable to change. For instance, I cannot change my age! A few years ago I was surprised to find out I was actually a year older than I realized – a true, albeit concerning, story that may cause you to question my mental status! I may be able to change my appearance to look younger but the numbers are what they are.

On a more serious note, many individuals are presented with physical challenges that are beyond their control. Change in these cases is not an option so management and satisfaction with the way things are becomes the normal.  Think also of the  number of people who find themselves placed in a geographical area that perhaps is not their primary choice.  But it is  a necessity because of employment or cost of living. In that case, it is well to accept where you are and be thankful for the opportunity to provide an income.

I grew up near the foothills of the San Bernardino mountain range. My teenage years were spent hiking on mountain trails just a half-hour away or driving to the beach with friends, equally as convenient. Later on, circumstances and choices led me to a different location.

I now live in the high desert. It has been my home for over thirty years.  It is hard for many people, including myself, to find the beauty in the Joshua trees, tumble weeds, dry winds, and hot summers. Yet, it grows on you. I struggle with the lack of green, beautiful tall trees, natural woods, and what many would consider to be a more idyllic setting.

When we visit the northeast coast where one of our sons lives with his family, we enjoy the beauty that surrounds us as we walk through the Pennypack Trail just a few minutes away. It has always amazed me that everything is green and there are no automatic sprinkler systems except nature!  But, there is a downside. Humidity and mosquitos!

So, what to do, if anything?  I can choose to be discontent with what I don’t have or content with what I do have. I choose to be satisfied where God has placed me. Is this always easy? Heck no! My perfect world would have all my adult children and grandchildren living within a close radius of one another. My ideal setting would be for everyone to have employment that would provide well for their families yet grant time off for getting together. My preference would be to have a guarantee that all those I love would be called by God and live for Him.

It seems humans are wired to want what they don’t have, doesn’t it?! This begins early in life. Just spend a few minutes with small children wanting the same toy – often the toy that has been neglected until another child shows interest.

If we look back to our scripture in Philippians, the concentration is on becoming satisfied with whatever we have, wherever we are and with anything God has allowed into our lives. Paul emphasizes that he has learned to be content. This sounds like a choice. A conditioned response acquired over time. The more I am aware of God and who He is, the more I can sincerely say I want His plan. Why? It’s better than mine! It’s perfect.

So I will find  beauty in the desert. When I’m missing my kids who live across the country and when I’m tired of the dry landscape surrounding me, I will thank God for the winds that provide clear blue skies. I will thank God for technology and the opportunity to FaceTime.  I will appreciate the open land that surrounds me.  The beautiful, color-filled sunsets. The occasional snow cover glistening on the Joshua trees.

Continue on for more study on contentment.