Ruth

Patience, Faithfulness and Diligence

Ruth 3:16-18

Ruth 3:16 And when she came to her mother-in-law, she said, "How did it go, my daughter?" And she told her all that the man had done for her.17 And she said, "These six [measures] of barley he gave to me, for he said, 'Do not go to your mother-in-law empty-handed.'“ 18 Then she said, "Wait, my daughter, until you know how the matter turns out; for the man will not rest until he has settled it today."

We have Ruth returning from the festivities at the end of harvest. She obediently followed Naomi’s instruction to attend the activities at the threshing floor where she secretly let Boaz know of her desire to have him fulfill his role as kinsman redeemer for her late husband’s name. Boaz reacted kindly toward her and sent her home with a gift of grain and a promise that he would indeed take care of the matter. Yet, only if the one who was next of kin was unable to fulfill his obligation.

Naomi was likely anticipating the return of her daughter-in-law since she welcomed her with the question, ‘How did it go, my daughter’. This question may have been one of surprise. Remember, Ruth got up before the morning light as Boaz had told her, then he had sent her on her way before anyone had the opportunity to speak poorly of them. It was likely that Naomi had not expected Ruth to show up so early in the morning. Perhaps she wondered what had happened and maybe thought things did not go as well as she had hoped.

Considering this response, how often do we have expectations of something going a certain way? When circumstances do not develop the way we think they should we are apt to think the worst or wonder what the problem may be. Sometimes, in fact often, we cannot see things clearly. God has a perfect plan. It is good for us to trust in His timing and His execution of the events of our lives.

Ruth then gave her account of Boaz’s response. She showed her mother-in-law the grain Boaz had sent with her. Naomi’s reply in verse 18 is an example for us to follow. She tells Ruth to sit still and wait until Boaz gives her an answer, Ruth 3:18 Then she said, "Wait, my daughter, until you know how the matter turns out. Remember in Ruth 3:12-13 what Boaz said to Ruth on the threshing floor, “And now it is true I am a close relative; however, there is a relative closer than i. Remain this night, and when morning comes, if he will redeem you, good; let him redeem you. But if he does not wish to redeem you, then I will redeem you, as the Lord lives. Lie down until morning”.

Boaz was going to make certain that neither of them acted too quickly without paying attention to facts. This may mean that decisions cannot be made right away. It may take time to sort things out to be certain all information is considered.

How often might we think to ourselves that we need to do something to fix a situation or to figure out an answer NOW?

Once we have taken care of our responsibility in a circumstance, we need to be okay with knowing it is not up to us to make everything right. Instead, we are to have the attitude spelled out for us in the Psalms.

Psalm 37:3-5 Trust in the LORD, and do good; Dwell in the land and cultivate faithfulness. Delight yourself in the LORD; And He will give you the desires of your heart. Commit your way to the LORD, Trust also in Him, and He will do it.

Trust <batach> to hie for refuge, to be confident or sure, to put confidence, to (make to) hope.

We are to hie, or move fast, to safety. A refuge is something or someone turned to for assistance or security. Our confidence is to be in the Lord, Jehovah, the eternal God. We are to turn quickly to a heart that trusts that God is working.

Do you seek to act according to His will?
Do you believe God will not fail you?

Sometimes, we can choose to change direction because we do not see results or we do not get answers fast. We like to take matters into our own hands! Listen to this commentary, “To trust in the Lord, on his promises for support … persevering in the path of duty, however … discouraging it may appear” (Thomas Haweis).

We have a responsibility to place our trust in God even if circumstances are not what we think they ought to be. In fact, we are to be busy about doing the things God would have us do while we are trusting in His direction and care – “do good; dwell in the land and cultivate faithfulness”.

Be at rest right where God has you. Your security is in God, not in circumstances.

Are you able to find delight in the Lord?

Delight <anag> to be soft or pliable. Think about this for a moment. Perhaps your answers will not be God’s answers. That is okay. Our own determination for what should be can derail us from seeing something with different possibilities. God is in charge!

Are we open to a different direction than perhaps the one we have entertained?
Do we allow ourselves to consider an alternative that we had not thought of?
Are we able to trust in God when His direction does not make sense in our mind?

Consider anyone in authority. Their position means they make decisions for all those for which they are responsible. Parent/child, Teacher/student, Employer/employee, and Government/citizens, are all examples of these relationships. While these relationships are all subject to error because of human limits, we are still to move, even without understanding, in the direction we are told.

God, who is perfect in all His ways, and understands all things, and desires to bless His children, tells us to trust in Him and be flexible to His plan.

When we seek our joy in the Lord, through His word and promises, He will bestow upon us everything that is good. If our delight is in pleasing God, our desires will be for those things that glorify His name.

Psalm 43:4 Then I will go to the altar of God, To God my exceeding joy; and upon the lyre I shall praise Thee, O God, my God.

Psalm 104:34 Let my meditation be pleasing to Him; As for me, I shall be glad in the LORD.

“Think what he is, and what you are; and at once, both wonder and yield. And what else have you to delight in? What thing will you name that shall supply the place of GOD, or be to you in the stead of him? Moreover, who should delight in him but you -- his friends, his sons, those of his own house? Think what life and vigor it will infuse into you, and that "the joy of the Lord will be your strength," Treasury of David

“The desires of God, and the desires of the righteous, agree in one; they are of one mind in their desires”. John Bunyan.

Commit <galal> to roll (literally or figuratively); roll (away, down, together), run down, seek.

“Roll thy way upon -- as one who lays upon the shoulder of one stronger than himself a burden which he is not able to bear”. William De Burgh, D.D., in "A Commentary on the Book of Psalms. Dublin:" 1860.

Think about what happens when you commit to something. You devote yourself to someone or something. You put all your efforts confidence and trust into the thing that you have determined is important. Seek God; commit your way to follow Him. This is an active choice to follow God in obedience – even if you are unsure of the direction.

Psalm 22:8 "Commit [yourself] to the LORD; let Him deliver him; Let Him rescue him, because He delights in him."

Proverbs 16:3 Commit your works to the LORD, and your plans will be established.

Psalm 55:22 Cast your burden upon the LORD, and He will sustain you; He will never allow the righteous to be shaken.

Consider how well you do following your own wisdom.

Where do you place your concerns?
Do you fully expect God to take care of your circumstances, to fulfill your desires, to accomplish what is needed to grow you into His likeness?

He will do it! God will certainly cause His will for you to be done. This is not a maybe.

Luke 12:29 "And do not seek what you shall eat, and what you shall drink, and do not keep worrying.

Philippians 4:6 Be anxious for nothing, but in everything by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known to God. And the peace of God, which surpasses all comprehension, shall guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.

“When thou hast any difficult business in hand, and art doubtful of the success; or when thou knowest not what course to take, for the accomplishing of thy honest designs; leave all to the Lord, and trust to him in pious and upright courses, that he will direct and assist thee, and bring things to a good issue.” Patrick/Lowth/Whitby/Lowman Commentary

“Commit thy way unto the Lord. Roll the whole burden of life upon the Lord. Leave with Jehovah not thy present fretfulness merely, but all thy cares; in fact, submit the whole tenor of thy way to him. Cast away anxiety, resign thy will, submit thy judgment, leave all with the God of all. What a medicine is this for expelling envy! What a high attainment does this fourth precept indicate! How blessed must he be who lives every day in obedience to it! Trust also in him; and he shall bring it to pass. Our destiny shall be joyfully accomplished if we confidently entrust all to our Lord. We may serenely sing --

"Thy way, not mine, O Lord, However dark it be; O lead me by thine own right hand, Choose out the path for me."

"Smooth let it be or rough, It will be still the best; Winding or straight, it matters not, It leads me to thy rest."

"I dare not choose my lot, I would not if I might; But choose Thou for me, O my God, So shall I walk aright."

"Take thou my cup, and it With joy or sorrow fill; As ever best to thee may seem, Choose thou my good and ill."

The ploughman sows and harrows, and then leaves the harvest to God. What can he do else? He cannot cover the heavens with clouds, or command the rain, or bring forth the sun or create the dew. He does well to leave the whole matter with God; and so to all of us it is truest wisdom, having obediently trusted in God, to leave results in his hands, and expect a blessed issue.” Treasury of David

We are to choose to trust God, we are to find our delight in Him alone, and we are to commit to His perfect plan, having confidence that He is in control.

After Naomi tells Ruth to wait, she gives more insight into the character of Boaz, for the man will not rest until he has settled it today.

Determination. Follow-through. True to his word. Boaz can be counted on to take care of the matter as he said he would. He does not lay his responsibility aside for someone else to figure out. He is not idle, wasting time, hoping the matter will resolve itself. He does what is needed to follow through with his promise to Ruth.

Boaz’s actions remind us of his integrity and faithfulness. We see wisdom in waiting upon God’s answers and direction when we have done all that we could. We see wisdom in the necessity to be diligent to take care of the responsibility we have. Both of these things are necessary in our walk with God.

What is your response?

Following Direction

 Have you purposed to trust God’s direction in your life? How does your response to trust God manifest itself in your life?

Following Directions

Ruth 3:3-4 "Wash yourself therefore, and anoint yourself and put on your [best] clothes, and go down to the threshing floor; [but] do not make yourself known to the man until he has finished eating and drinking. And it shall be when he lies down, that you shall notice the place where he lies, and you shall go and uncover his feet and lie down; then he will tell you what you shall do."

It is difficult to wrap our heads around all the meaning in these two verses. The culture and time we are drawn into is very different from what we understand today. What we do know is that Naomi desired for Ruth to have a better future. That future seemed logically and rightfully connected to Boaz according to Jewish law. In the steps Ruth was to take, she would be letting Boaz know that she desired his action as kinsman redeemer of Elimelech’s family name. The process of uncovering Boaz’s feet and lying down at them gives information to Boaz that Ruth was indeed willing to follow what was expected under the law. It may be similar to Ruth saying she had been given direction by Naomi, understood the role of kinsman redeemer, and desired for Boaz to implement this law in marriage. Ruth was instructed to wait for Boaz to tell her his plan, “Then he will tell you what you shall do”.

The Jamieson-Fausset-Brown Commentary addresses the actions in Ruth 3:4 this way, “Singular as these directions may appear to us, there was no impropriety in them … in the case of Ruth, it was a method, doubtless conformable to prevailing usage, of reminding Boaz of the duty which devolved on him as the kinsman of her deceased husband. Boaz probably slept upon a mat or skin; Ruth lay crosswise at his feet – a position in which Eastern servants frequently sleep in the same chamber or tent with their master; and if they want a covering, custom allows them that benefit from part of the covering on their master’s bed. … there was no indelicacy in a stranger, or even a woman, putting the extremity of this cover over her.”

Picture a large feast and celebration at the end of harvesting. It would be plausible that all those attending would put on their best attire, just as we would dress differently when going to a special party. Recall what we know of Ruth and Boaz. Ruth was faithful, she was a hard-worker, and she followed God. Boaz was a relative of Elimelech; he was honorable, kind and compassionate, and recognized and encouraged Ruth’s devotion to God.

We read these few verses and have a difficult time comprehending the culture and the exact meanings of some actions. Imagine Ruth, from a different land and culture, hearing the instruction Naomi was giving her. Ruth must have trusted Naomi’s wisdom and genuine care for her because she followed her advice probably without complete understanding of the laws and customs.

Ruth 3:5 And she said to her, "All that you say I will do."

Ruth took Naomi’s advice and counted it as wisdom, even though the customs and actions described for her to follow may have seemed odd. Ruth trusted in Naomi’s discernment of the laws.

Do you seek advice from those who have more knowledge and understanding?
When someone, out of love and concern for you, shares specific action for your benefit, are you willing to proceed with their instruction?
Are we able to take direction even when we suppose our way is better? Even when we may not completely understand or even agree?

Patrick/Lowth/Whitby/Lowman Commentary says, “She put a great confidence in her mother’s prudence and piety, and trusted God would give good success to her design; which seemed not very modest, but had not other intentions than what was agreeable to the law of God”.

Naomi had made it clear to Ruth that Boaz was the wise choice for her future. She gave Ruth specific instructions to follow. Ruth’s actions would state her intentions to secure the family’s property and name with Boaz’s role as her kinsman redeemer under Jewish law. Ruth was also given clear direction to wait for Boaz’s response. Imagine Ruth hearing all this, taking a deep breath, and timidly moving ahead with this strange plan. Would this plan be accepted or rejected? What response would she receive?

To this point, it seems Boaz had given Ruth encouragement towards her future, Ruth stepped out in faith, doing what looked best and trusted God for the outcome.

Consider. What happens to our thoughts when we place our trust completely in God’s hands?

Psalm 5:11 But let all who take refuge in Thee be glad, Let them ever sing for joy; and mayest Thou shelter them, That those who love Thy name may exult in Thee.

Let us not miss the word ‘all’ in verse 5. Each translation I looked at used this adjective meaning complete or entire. Consider following the plans for constructing an airplane. How important would it be to pay attention to all directions exactly? Why?

Completely or entirely following God’s instruction is an important concept that we will take time to explore. Ruth did not follow some of Naomi’s instructions, she was careful to follow all of them. This is a picture of complete trust and total obedience, even though Ruth may not have understood the entire picture.

Think for a moment. What would it look like to follow all God’s truths on a daily basis as we interact with one another?

We cannot only take a piece of truth that conveniently fits our lifestyle and thinking for the moment. Seeking to follow all God’s ways means we do not react according to others actions. This negates excuse in our failures. In other words, we are unable to justify a poor response on our part. When you are treated unfairly, spoken of unjustly, or receive hurtful words or actions, there is no freedom to respond with careless thoughts or words. When the road ahead looks unclear or even scary, you can continue to move forward if you completely trust in God. He is working to unfold His perfect plan. Obedience in the believer’s life leads to blessing.

Psalm 119:4-6 Thou hast ordained Thy precepts, that we should keep [them] diligently. Oh that my ways may be established to keep Thy statutes! Then I shall not be ashamed when I look upon all Thy commandments.

There are more than two dozen scriptures that command us to love one another. These commands are clear and there are no exceptions. Continuing on with the same thought above, the Bible does not say that we are to show care for one another only when we feel like it or it is easy or when others make us feel loved. God’s word does not place conditions on showing love. We are to love one another even when we are slighted, hurt, accused, betrayed or experience any negative interaction. We should not respond according to our interpretation of others’ actions. We are responsible to love one another regardless, showing mercy and kindness.

Do you seek to obey God’s word even when you may not understand and it seems especially difficult, for example, in always loving one another?
Do you respond to God as Ruth responded to Naomi – all you say, I will do?

Ruth paid careful attention to Naomi’s instruction. Often, we do not pay close enough attention to instruction; we remember only part but not everything. Our intentions are only as good as our actions. Consider how different the account we are reading might have been if Ruth had not followed through with the advice given her. For instance, we can think of many things we should do but if we never put those thoughts to work, they remain only thoughts.

Ruth 3:5 gave us Ruth’s verbal response to Naomi. She said she would follow her instruction. Ruth 3:6 tells us that Ruth’s response was genuine as she put information into practice.

Ruth 3:6 So she went down to the threshing floor and did according to all that her mother-in-law had commanded her. Ruth’s action to observe Naomi’s instructions gave honor to her mother-in-law. We will take a sideline here and consider several verses that speak of honoring parents by yielding to their instruction.

Exodus 20:12 “Honor your father and your mother, that your days may be prolonged in the land which the LORD your God gives you.

Deuteronomy 5:16 'Honor your father and your mother, as the LORD your God has commanded you, that your days may be prolonged, and that it may go well with you on the land which the LORD your God gives you.

Proverbs 1:8 Hear, my son, your father's instruction, and do not forsake your mother's teaching;

Proverbs 4:1 Hear, [O] sons, the instruction of a father, and give attention that you may gain understanding,

Picture a feast following the hard work of those employed by Boaz. Boaz has included himself among the workers to oversee that the grain is winnowed without unnecessary waste. Then as the evening winds down, with a full stomach and the satisfaction of a completed harvest, Boaz lies down on the threshing floor to sleep until morning.

Ruth 3:7 When Boaz had eaten and drunk and his heart was merry, he went to lie down at the end of the heap of grain; and she came secretly, and uncovered his feet and lay down.

The Targum, which is a translation of the Old Testament Scriptures in the Chaldee or Aramaic language adds, “He blessed the name of the Lord, who had heard his prayer, and removed famine from the land of Israel”. This is consistent with the honorable character we have seen in Boaz.

According to Thomas Scott’s commentary, “His heart was merry” can be translated as “his heart was good and may be used to mark his cheerfulness and thankfulness for the plenty which the Lord has sent after the famine; and his subsequent conduct shows that his feast was consistent with temperance and piety”. The word ‘drunk’ <shathah>, or drinking to full is different from the word used in Ephesians 5:18 when speaking of getting drunk <methusko>, “And do not get drunk with wine, for that is dissipation, but be filled with the Spirit”. One is having plenty of liquids as in quenching your thirst, the other is excess, becoming intoxicated with a substance that controls you. Instead of being filled or controlled with wine, we are to be filled with the Spirit.

After the celebration of the end of harvest, Boaz lay to sleep on the threshing floor and Ruth secretly, or quietly, places herself at his feet. To us, Ruth’s action may seem overt, yet remember Ruth’s character of virtue noticed by him earlier in Ruth 2:11-12. Ruth was simply obeying the instruction of Naomi and depending upon the honorable character of Boaz.

This strange interaction causes me to consider the necessity of moving forward in faith and trust in God’s plan even when we do not clearly see or understand His ways. Our responsibility is to seek wisdom and guidance from His word. Often, we are unable to figure out every detail or turn. However, we can be certain that God will protect and guide those who sincerely seek to do His will. This takes a desire and purposed plan to spend time in God’s word.

2 Samuel 22:31 "As for God, His way is blameless; the word of the LORD is tested; He is a shield to all who take refuge in Him.

Psalm 36:7 How precious is Thy lovingkindness, O God! And the children of men take refuge in the shadow of Thy wings.

Psalm 84:12 O LORD of hosts, How blessed is the man who trusts in Thee!

Proverbs 3:5 Trust in the LORD with all your heart, and do not lean on your own understanding.

Isaiah 26:3 "The steadfast of mind Thou wilt keep in perfect peace, because he trusts in Thee.

Have you purposed to trust God’s direction in your life? How does your response to trust God manifest itself in your life?

Ruth 3:8-9 And it happened in the middle of the night that the man was startled and bent forward; and behold, a woman was lying at his feet. And he said, "Who are you?” And she answered, "I am Ruth your maid. So spread your covering over your maid, for you are a close relative."

Reading this verse tells us there was no indication from Boaz that Ruth would be sleeping at his feet. Picture, the middle of the night feeling like something was not quite right, even having a moment of fear, as you felt something at your feet. Upon asking who was there, Ruth answers with a request for Boaz to take her as his wife and protection. The phrase, “spread your covering over your maid’ was a symbol of matrimonial protection according to the Annotated Bible Notes. Imagine how awkward this must have been for Ruth and Boaz alike. She had willingly placed herself in a position that presented the possibility of rejection. She also trusted that Boaz would honor her virtue and not take advantage of her. We continue to witness Ruth following Naomi’s direction and God’s care and protection of his children. You can imagine Ruth almost holding her breath as she waits for Boaz’s response.

Ruth 3:10 Then he said, "May you be blessed of the LORD, my daughter. You have shown your last kindness to be better than the first by not going after young men, whether poor or rich.

Boaz responds favorably with a blessing toward Ruth. Ruth has shown care to follow what was expected of her according to Jewish law – that is to seek to continue the family name by appropriation of a kinsman redeemer. Remember the information we were given in Chapter two of Ruth’s piety as she went home each evening after work instead of being out and about (Ruth 2:23). Finding a younger man, whether rich or poor, could have been the main concern for Ruth. Yet, she was more interested in carrying on the family’s name and inheritance. This strongly speaks of sincerity in her desire to honor Naomi and her late husband’s family. She is not focused entirely on her own benefits but on the greater good for those involved.

Consider. What is the difference between selfishness and selflessness? There are times when doing the ‘right’ thing is difficult or does not seem rewarding. Taking care to know God’s word, to seek His direction in all circumstances, is a benefit to each of us. Proof of our genuine desire to follow God puts our own wants last as we place His truths first. Selfish motives and actions please the doer; righteous motives and actions bless others and honors God.

Boaz was an honorable man. He did not take advantage of Ruth. Rather he recognized her virtuous character. Ruth chose to follow Naomi instead of staying in Moab, which would have proven a greater opportunity to marry. Ruth chose to dedicate herself to the care of her mother-in-law instead of going about the town in the evenings. Ruth chose to follow Naomi’s instructions carefully instead of doing things her own way or perhaps in a way that made more sense to her at the time – even to the extent of placing herself in what might have been a questionable position. Her desire to be obedient is protected by God’s hand and direction.

Romans 8:27-28 and He who searches the hearts knows what the mind of the Spirit is, because He intercedes for the saints according to [the will of] God. And we know that God causes all things to work together for good to those who love God, to those who are called according to [His] purpose.

Choosing to observe Godly instruction is an example to follow.

God’s Abounding Love

God desires to bless each of His children according to His plan.

Ruth continues to relay the words of Boaz to Naomi in the next verse. Ruth 2:21 Then Ruth the Moabitess said, "Furthermore, he said to me, 'You should stay close to my servants until they have finished all my harvest.'" The blessings continue to multiply! This is like listening to a story that just keeps getting better and better – and we have not neared the end!

It is interesting that verse 21 begins with the words ‘Ruth he Moabitess’. This particular description of Ruth is a reminder of her background and renders these events even more amazing. Remember, the land of Moab was known for its worship of idols. The fact that Ruth is now part of the family name of Elimelech through marriage, and living among the Jewish peoples, having adopted their customs and their God, is only a scene that could have been written by God’s own hand.

NASB uses the word ‘furthermore’, other translations say ‘yea, he said unto me’, ‘besides, he said unto me, and ‘he also said to me’ (ASV, RSV and NKJV). Imagine the conversation between Ruth and Naomi. Ruth can hardly believe what has transpired that day. She expected little, just the possibility of gathering a small amount of grain for food, yet she was granted kindness, security, refreshment, and hope. Through the course of her interaction with Boaz, Ruth remembered her position; her humility continues to shine in her actions and words.

Think of your position in Christ. You were called to Him, and although you had nothing to offer, He stretched out his arms for you to offer riches untold. Unworthy, unlikely and once His enemy, you have been embraced by God’s mercy and blessed abundantly. We have an example of Ruth, excited to tell the whole incredible story to Naomi of her unexpected blessings.

Are you excited to talk about the gift you have received in Christ and the blessings that are yours as His child?

Ruth reveals that Boaz told her to stay close to His servants until they finished the harvest. Several commentaries report that there were two harvest periods. The first being barley which was currently being harvested, and the latter being wheat which would follow. Ruth had been invited to join Boaz’s servants until all the harvest was complete.

It is noteworthy to look at what Ruth did not share with Naomi. Boaz was full of praise towards Ruth in verses 11-12. One commentary makes this observation of Ruth’s conversation with Naomi, “She tells what kindness Boaz had shewed her; but not, how he had commended her. Humility teaches not only not to praise ourselves, but not to be forward in repeating the praise which others have given us”. John Wesley’s Notes on the Old and New Testaments

Ruth 2:11-12 And Boaz answered and said to her, "All that you have done for your mother-in-law after the death of your husband has been fully reported to me, and how you left your father and your mother and the land of your birth, and came to a people that you did not previously know. "May the LORD reward your work, and your wages be full from the LORD, the God of Israel, under whose wings you have come to seek refuge."

Consider God’s answered prayer and direction in your own life. There are things you had probably hoped for or thought would be a good direction that God, in His mercy, kept from you. Instead, you see His answers, in His timing, and as you look back, realize His perfect blessings.

The hardships that Naomi and Ruth have experienced were allowed by God to prepare them to receive His blessings. God’s plan for His children makes no compromise, has no holes, and is not left to chance. Blessings are not acquired by our merit but by His abounding love. God chose to bless Naomi and Ruth, placing them in His perfect timing for His perfect blessings. God desires to bless each of His children according to His plan. Adversity prepares us for what lies ahead, teaches us to trust in God and proves our sincere faith.

Psalm 119:71 It is good for me that I was afflicted, that I may learn Thy statutes.

Psalm 66:10 For Thou hast tried us, O God; Thou hast refined us as silver is refined.

Psalm 34:8 O taste and see that the LORD is good; how blessed is the man who takes refuge in Him!

Jeremiah 17:7 "Blessed is the man who trusts in the LORD and whose trust is the LORD.

1Peter 1:6-7 In this you greatly rejoice, even though now for a little while, if necessary, you have been distressed by various trials, that the proof of your faith, [being] more precious than gold which is perishable, even though tested by fire, may be found to result in praise and glory and honor at the revelation of Jesus Christ;

Humility and Kindness

It is not our hard work that accomplishes anything but the ability to work hard that comes from God. It is not our intelligence that garners our understanding but the intelligence that God gives.

Ruth responds in humility to the kindness of Boaz, she did not expect or think she deserved his favor. After Boaz assured her of her safety and welcome in his fields, verse 10 describes her reaction.

Ruth 2:10 Then she fell on her face, bowing to the ground and said to him, "Why have I found favor in your sight that you should take notice of me, since I am a foreigner?"

Ruth cast her eyes down being overwhelmed and prostrated herself before Boaz. She placed herself in a position of inferiority. The culture of that day would signify her behavior as one of reverence and gratitude towards Boaz. We see this same posture when Joseph was governor and his brothers came needing food (Genesis 42:6). Also, in Matthew 2:11 when the Magi presented gifts to Jesus. There are many accounts of showing humility and reverence in the Bible.

Consider much of what we see today in the attitude of individuals. There is a permeating attitude of deservedness in our culture. We get caught up in wondering why someone did not treat us better, or the idea that something is not fair. We want accolades for who we are and what we have accomplished. We feel slighted when we are not recognized by individuals who are placed above us. Basically, we often think higher of ourselves than we ought. In fact, a humble attitude is easily overlooked in the world, even considered weak. Yet, the example we are shown throughout God’s word is to have a heart of humility, the opposite of pride and arrogance and deservedness.

Ruth questioned Boaz about his kindness to her especially because she was not from Bethlehem. Perhaps she thought Jewish law may not apply to her in gleaning the fields. Remember, the Jewish nation disdained the Moabites who were known as enemies of God. Boaz however shows kindness where kindness needs to be shown. Are we able to say this of ourselves? Or are we selective, or too busy, or consider it to be someone else’s job? Do we show mercy only to the extent we consider necessary? Are we willing to help others where they need help?

Read Jesus’ words in Matthew 25:35-36, “For I was hungry, and you gave Me [something] to eat; I was thirsty, and you gave Me drink; I was a stranger, and you invited Me in; naked, and you clothed Me; I was sick, and you visited Me; I was in prison, and you came to Me”.

James 2:15 says, “If a brother or sister is without clothing and in need of daily food, and one of you says to them, "Go in peace, be warmed and be filled," and yet you do not give them what is necessary for [their] body, what use is that”?

1John 3:16-18 tells us, “We know love by this, that He laid down His life for us; and we ought to lay down our lives for the brethren. But whoever has the world's goods, and beholds his brother in need and closes his heart against him, how does the love of God abide in him? Little children, let us not love with word or with tongue, but in deed and truth”.

We are to have hearts of humility and thankfulness when kindness is shown towards us, understanding we are undeserving of such mercy. We are reminded to show kindness and grace towards others when we see a brother or sister in need. Learning to say thank you and learning to have eyes and actions that reach out to others is opposite of the world’s picture of service towards one another. Where do we stand – in the world or in the Word?

Moving on to verse 11 in Chapter Two of Ruth, think carefully for a moment and ask yourself these questions - What is your reputation? What characteristics would be used by others to describe you?

Ruth 2:11 And Boaz answered and said to her, "All that you have done for your mother-in-law after the death of your husband has been fully reported to me, and how you left your father and your mother and the land of your birth, and came to a people that you did not previously know.

When Ruth questioned his kindness to her, Boaz proceeded to recall what had been relayed to him about her actions. The words ‘fully reported’ mean what he had heard stood out to him as her circumstances were explained. Rewind a bit and recall that Ruth had also lost her husband just as Naomi did. What hasn’t been recorded for us is her lamenting over her own situation. She must have experienced grief yet it doesn’t seem to be her focus. Instead, her example was to care for her mother-in-law who had lost her husband and both her sons. Ruth relinquished any possible support or acceptance she may have received from staying in her home town, and she followed Naomi into a foreign land and culture and professed faith in the God of the Jewish nation. Ruth heard God’s call and responded by leaving all behind.

Luke 14:27, 33 "Whoever does not carry his own cross and come after Me cannot be My disciple. "So therefore, no one of you can be My disciple who does not give up all his own possessions.

Matthew 16:24 Then Jesus said to His disciples, "If anyone wishes to come after Me, let him deny himself, and take up his cross, and follow Me.

Luke 9:23 And He was saying to [them] all, "If anyone wishes to come after Me, let him deny himself, and take up his cross daily, and follow Me.

God had allowed Ruth to understand the necessity of trusting in Him alone for all things. This shouldn’t prompt you to walk away from your home, job, family and all that is part of your immediate life. However, consider what comes first in your life? If you were to lose any of the persons or things familiar to you, would you be able to continue with a heart of trust and praise for God? Unfortunately, people often place their purpose in everything except the one constant we have – Jesus. Then, when loss knocks at the door, meaning and security and happiness dissipate and life’s focus is lost also. God knows us well and commands us to place Him at the forefront of our existence. Because of Jesus, we live. All lasting joy is found in Him alone. We praise God for the moments of laughter, and sweet memories and relationships and numerous blessings poured on our lives yet we must be prepared and willing to hold all things loosely. Only then can we fully grasp what is truly important. And only then will we learn to truly enjoy God’s blessings. Consider this – if we are always busy trying to hang on to something or control a situation, or we are in fear of losing a person or memory, how much are we able to relax and simply delight in the moments?

John 12:26 reads, “If anyone serves Me, let him follow Me; and where I am, there shall My servant also be; if anyone serves Me, the Father will honor him”.

Ruth’s actions preceded her reputation. In Ruth 1:16 we read of Ruth’s commitment and intentions, “But Ruth said, "Do not urge me to leave you [or] turn back from following you; for where you go, I will go, and where you lodge, I will lodge. Your people [shall be] my people, and your God, my God”.

So Boaz had been previously informed of Ruth’s pious behavior and desire to follow the God of Israel. He was impressed by what he had heard and this showed in his special kindness to her. This confirms the righteous character of Boaz also – that he was a man of God, esteeming those who follow God. Doing what God desires will always lead to blessing, perhaps not tangible in this life, but always to the reward of an eternal future in heaven. In following the God of the Jewish nation, Ruth had denounced the idols of Moab, the land of her birth and family. Any comfort or security she may have found in Moab was left behind. Her sincere choice to follow the one true God was evident in her actions. Her sole dependence was placed upon God for His provision and protection. Ruth’s actions caused Boaz to form a favorable impression of her faith and virtue.

Psalm 37:5 says, “Commit your way to the Lord, trust also in Him, and He will do it”. Also read Psalm 55:22 which says, “Cast your burden upon the Lord, and He will sustain you; He will never allow the righteous to be shaken”. Read the words of Jesus to Peter in Luke 18:28-30, “And Peter said, “Behold, we have left our own [homes,] and followed You.” And He said to them, “Truly I say to you, there is no one who has left house or wife or brothers or parents or children, for the sake of the kingdom of God, who shall not receive many times as much at this time and in the age to come, eternal life”.

Think back again to what Ruth left behind. In leaving Moab, it is possible she also left the possibility of being remarried. She was an outsider in Bethlehem and worse, she was from a land that was looked down upon because of its heathen gods. Leaving the town of her birth very well may have been like putting a seal on her fate as a single woman living in poverty forever. The essence here is Ruth did not just leave one possibility for another, she left all chances for a bright future for a plethora of unknowns. Each of us needs to come to Jesus willing to forsake all things that will vie for our attention. There is a daily, and even moment by moment, pushing away of the world from grabbing hold of us. Read Jesus’ words in Luke 14:33, “So therefore, no one of you can be My disciple who does not give up all his own possessions”.

We live fairly easy lives in comparison to the cultures of Biblical times. There is little true religious persecution in America. Most of us are not forced to choose between family and faith. And even in the small percentage of those who have had to make this choice, who would you rather please? Who do you fear most? Man or God? There are many verses that tell us to fear God above all else. Here is just one of them, "And to man He said, 'Behold, the fear of the Lord, that is wisdom; and to depart from evil is understanding”, Job 28:28. So then, what holds us back? What are you afraid to let go of in order to follow Jesus with your whole heart? We cannot slice salvation like a pie – a small piece for now, another later – it’s all or nothing.

In Ruth 2:12, Boaz gives Ruth a blessing. “May the Lord reward your work, and your wages be full from the Lord, the God of Israel, under whose wings you have come to seek refuge.”

What stood out the most as I first read this verse was the repetition of God’s name – the Lord …, the Lord, the God of Israel. Perhaps Boaz is reiterating to Ruth the true source of her blessings. The Lord rewards us; the Lord blesses us. It is not our hard work that accomplishes anything but the ability to work hard which comes from God. It is not our intelligence that garners our understanding but the intelligence that God gives us. We each need to be reminded where glory and honor is due, not at the hands of men but in God’s care for us. Boaz certainly knew Ruth’s background of idol worship and that she was a newer convert to the Jewish faith so maybe he was making the most of an opportunity to encourage Ruth to continue to trust in God, the one true God of Israel.

When people are thankful towards you for serving them, how do you respond? This is a great chance to speak of God’s blessings and care for His children. Do we turn praise towards God or accept it for ourselves? What is your motivation in serving? Remember the warning given in Mathew 6:1, “Beware of practicing your righteousness before men to be noticed by them; otherwise you have no reward with your Father who is in heaven”. Boaz refers to God as the Lord Jehovah and the God of Israel – the eternal Lord, and judge and ruler of the Jewish people. There was no mistake who Boaz worshiped and served.

Consider how exciting it is to watch someone learn to trust God. Imagine the blessing of knowing Ruth’s background and seeing her confidently move forward in her faith. God has purposed each step Ruth has taken and will continue to do so as she takes refuge in Him. Boaz knows this and Ruth must be marveling at God’s provision towards her and Naomi. As you take a moment to rewind circumstances in your own life, are you able to see the protection of the God who loves you? Do you find peace and security in His hands? Ruth 2:12 says, “the God of Israel, under whose wings you have come to seek refuge”. These words remind us that God is our refuge. He is the one we should flee to for protection. He is the one who offers true hope. Is your trust in Him alone? Where do you go for protection?

Psalm 17:8 Keep me as the apple of the eye; Hide me in the shadow of Thy wings,

Psalm 36:7 How precious is Thy lovingkindness, O God! And the children of men take refuge in the shadow of Thy wings.

Ps 57:1 (For the choir director; [set to] Al-tashheth. A Mikhtam of David, when he fled) (from Saul, in the cave.) Be gracious to me, O God, be gracious to me, for my soul takes refuge in Thee; And in the shadow of Thy wings I will take refuge, until destruction passes by.

Ps 63:7 For Thou hast been my help, And in the shadow of Thy wings I sing for joy.

God will fully supply our needs as we rely upon Him. Boaz’ response to Ruth gives us further evidence of her true conversion to Naomi’s God because her faith is seen in her actions. Hebrews 11:6 says, “And without faith it is impossible to please [Him], for he who comes to God must believe that He is, and [that] He is a rewarder of those who seek Him”.

Ruth 2:4-9

Humility of mind causes us to be thankful for all things, realizing we deserve nothing.

We continue with the account of God’s providence in the life of Ruth – and Boaz. In verse three, Ruth happened upon a field belonging to Boaz. Now, in verse four, we read that Boaz appears in the field to encourage his workers.

Ruth 2:4 Now behold, Boaz came from Bethlehem and said to the reapers, "May the LORD be with you." And they said to him, "May the LORD bless you."

Certainly, it is noteworthy that Boaz would be in the same field at the same time as Ruth. Remember, Boaz was a man of wealth and it is possible that he owned many fields for harvesting grain. Before we get to the introduction of Boaz to Ruth, we are given a bit more information about Boaz.

First, the fact that Boaz was among his servants and payed particular attention to them shows he was a kind master to those working for him. His salutation of them shows his love of God. Adam Clarke’s Commentary suggests the words ‘May the Lord bless you’, might be paraphrased, “May God be with you, to preserve you from accidents, and strengthen you to accomplish your work!” This expression is more than just an acknowledgment of ‘Hi, how are you’ while passing through. It is a sincere and genuine blessing to those who are working for him.

What can we learn from the words and action of Boaz? There is value in a kind greeting given with sincere motivation to encourage another. Taking the time to stop and acknowledge the hard work of others is an example of genuine care. Do we seek to show true kindness to all those we are associated with? Are we too busy, self-centered, or important in our own eyes to acknowledge others?

The reply to Boaz from his workers is just as significant. There was an exchange of blessing. Instead of recording for us the words of disgruntled servants, the response we have comes from thankful workers. Perhaps the work we have been given or need to perform is not necessarily what we might choose, or is physically harder than we would like. Maybe we see our job as boring and without meaning. Regardless of how we feel, we should recognize that work is a blessing from God. This turns our heart towards thankfulness for the work He provides no matter what it is.

You may be thinking that the exchange of greetings between Boaz and his workers is simply the cultural thing to do, yet as we read on to the actions of this master, it is easy to see that his expressions are not just formal politeness but genuine care. Moreover, this care is reciprocated.

The second thing we learn about Boaz in this exchange of words is the reminder that, although he is well known and holds a place of distinction in the city, he does not regard himself above others in his actions. True children of God recognize they are all in need of God’s care and intervention. There is no definition between wealth, poverty or position. No matter our calling, we are reminded to be kind in our overseeing of others and to be faithful in our work.

It does seem that there must have been a remnant culture at this time in Palestine that was receptive to God. There was no hesitation to mention His hands of blessing both in Boaz’s words and those of his servants. We might read this and think our salutations of one another are quite different today. There does not seem to be the same openness or recognition of God. In fact, the mention of God’s name may not be received as favorable. Yet, does that mean we cannot or should not extend God’s blessing towards others? Perhaps a response would not be positive but often, at least in my personal observation, the response of God’s blessing on another is welcomed. The challenge or question is do we show our love for God by speaking of Him freely, in all circumstances. Do I show my genuine care for others by sharing what is most important?

Some time ago, I was convicted of the necessity in my own life to become bolder about God’s priority in my own life. As I have purposed to mention His name in almost every situation – grocery store, walking, restaurant, etc. – not once have I been met with hostility. Sure, sometimes silence can be deafening or conversations end abruptly but every now and then, my greeting is returned with a similar blessing, and smile and conversations have resulted in encouragement. John Wesley’s Notes says this, “They expressed their piety, even in their civil conversation, and worldly transactions; which now so many are ashamed of.

2Thessalonians 3:16 says, “Now may the Lord of peace Himself continually grant you peace in every circumstance. The Lord be with you all!” Consider what might happen if you were to give a similar greeting to those around you.

We have an example of the encouragement of a genuine, sincere expression of God’s blessing upon those we are in contact with. This is more than courtesy. It is kindness allotted to one another and acknowledgement that all blessings come from God.

What is your behavior towards others as a master or leader, or the one in charge? What is your behavior towards others as a worker, or the one taking direction? Is mutual good will shared in your relationships? Would others know, by your words and actions, it is God you serve?

Joshua 24:15 "And if it is disagreeable in your sight to serve the LORD, choose for yourselves today whom you will serve: whether the gods which your fathers served which were beyond the River, or the gods of the Amorites in whose land you are living; but as for me and my house, we will serve the LORD."

Moving forward, Boaz enquires about Ruth,

Ruth 2:5-6 “Then Boaz said to his servant who was in charge of the reapers, "Whose young woman is this?" And the servant in charge of the reapers answered and said, "She is the young Moabite woman who returned with Naomi from the land of Moab.

There were servants appointed to look after a group of workers to see that the work was done well. Apparently, there were persons gleaning in the field at the same time, one of them, Ruth. Perhaps in a smaller town, you would begin to recognize faces and get to know who was among the poor gleaning the fields during the harvest. Boaz did not recognize this young woman he saw and inquired his servant about her.

Remember Ruth’s faithfulness to Naomi in choosing to leave Moab and follow her to Bethlehem. In Ruth 1:16, Ruth had dedicated herself to Naomi’s people and to her God. We continue to see God’s care of His children as His plan develops. Did Ruth know what was going to happen or who she was to meet? There is no indication of this. We are blessed to have the entire narrative to read in God’s word so we are able to follow the intent of circumstances that lead to blessing. Ruth stepped forward always trusting, doing what was suggested by Naomi. So now we find Ruth gleaning in a field, belonging to Boaz, and he has questioned who she is. Boaz’s servant goes on to explain how Ruth has happened to be in the field. He recounts for Boaz the request Ruth made of him earlier in the morning.

Ruth 2:7 "And she said, 'Please let me glean and gather after the reapers among the sheaves.' Thus she came and has remained from the morning until now; she has been sitting in the house for a little while."

There is so much packed into verse seven. First, although Ruth had knowledge that gleaning was for the poor and widowed, she did not assume she would be given the same consideration as those who were from Bethlehem. When she encountered the servant in charge, she asked permission to glean in the field. The NAS Bible translates Ruth’s words as saying ‘please’; The KJV translates the same words as ‘I pray’.

In each translation, what we see is a modest thought of oneself. Clearly, Ruth is humble; not expecting something is owed her. Proverbs 15:33 says, “The fear of the Lord is the instruction for wisdom, and before honor [comes] humility”. Read also, Matthew 5:3 “Blessed are the poor in spirit, for theirs is the kingdom of heaven”. None of us is above another, no matter the circumstances. Ephesians 5:21 reminds us of the need to have a lowly thought of oneself, “and be subject to one another in the fear of Christ”. 1 Peter 5:5-6 commands us to clothe ourselves with humility saying, “God is opposed to the proud, but gives grace to the humble”.

I wonder how often our expectations become something we feel we deserve. We could address so many specific areas. We will look at the idea of deservedness in general. Any blessing God chooses to bestow upon us is because of His love. We do not even deserve to have breath in our bodies. It is easy for us to look at what others should be doing for us or how we should have this or that or how we should be treated. We can often focus on what we do not have and become bitter over our supposed lack. Do you recognize your blessings? Do you act like a victim – always having something bad happen to you at the hands of another? Is someone else always to blame for your lack? This attitude does not recognize the hand of God in an undeserving soul. Humility of mind causes us to be thankful for all things, realizing we deserve nothing.

An attitude of anger and bitterness and deservedness, comes from a prideful heart; an attitude of joy and thankfulness are born of humility.

Think of how Ruth’s attitude could have been different. She may have insisted that she be treated the same as those who were long-time residents of Bethlehem. After all, she gave up her own country to aid her mother-in-law. She could have been disgruntled to find herself among the poor, gathering leftovers in order to provide food for herself and Naomi. Bitterness over the loss of her husband could have filled her heart. Trying to navigate in a completely new culture, with its laws and putting herself in an uncertain position may have caused her to have a sour attitude. Yet this is not what we see. When Boaz required of his servant in charge about Ruth, the servant recounted how she had asked permission to collect the sheaves left on the ground. He then added that she had worked hard all day with only a small break.

This brings us to our second point – Ruth was grateful for the opportunity to work at providing and this showed in her willingness to put forth effort. She did not just expect something to be handed her, regardless of her situation. She was diligent in her labor. Romans 12:11 gives us this command of how to conduct ourselves, “not lagging behind in diligence, fervent in spirit, serving the Lord”.

Ruth 2:7 places Ruth sitting in a shelter. The picture painted for us is Ruth perhaps taking cover from the sun in a covered area, after a long days’ toil, catching her breath, and Boaz walking around with his overseer, making sure all is well. His eye catches the face of someone unknown to him and he asks his servant about her. Boaz’s servant tells him of her asking permission to gather after the reapers and of her perseverance to work all day.

Boaz now directly addresses Ruth. Ruth 2:8-9 Then Boaz said to Ruth, "Listen carefully, my daughter. Do not go to glean in another field; furthermore, do not go on from this one, but stay here with my maids. " Let your eyes be on the field which they reap, and go after them. Indeed, I have commanded the servants not to touch you. When you are thirsty, go to the water jars and drink from what the servants draw."

Here is Boaz stretching out his hand in kindness to Ruth. He not only allowed her to gather grain as the Jewish law intended, but encouraged her to stay in his field alongside his workers. He also assured her of safety as she worked in the fields and looked out for her comfort in encouraging her to use the same resource of water available to his servants. Earlier, we were introduced to Boaz as being a righteous man seen by his words to those working for him, now in his actions toward Ruth, we see the same character.

Do we do what we can to make others feel comfortable in an unfamiliar situation? Often we can become focused on what we want or need to do that we neglect reaching out to others. Genuine words and acts of kindness and thoughtfulness are an important avenue for encouraging others. The word genuine is not to be missed here. Words mean nothing without action. Notice how Boaz felt for Ruth’s protection and did something about it by speaking with the young men in his employ. This is more than a statement of, ‘I hope you stay safe’, it is an action of let me do what I can to provide safety for you.

When we desire to encourage another, let us take the extra step and be willing to put our words to action. What practical examples can you think of that would show kindness? For instance, instead of saying you will pray for someone, how about praying with them at that time or following up with a text or note that reminds them you are covering them in prayer.

Boaz instructed Ruth to follow the reapers and collect what was left. Since she was a stranger, Boaz had also taken care to protect her from possible uncivil or rude acts from his workers. It is obvious Boaz has a genuine concern for her well-being. In our next study in Ruth, we will see that she noticed his kindness and responds in humility.

God’s Perfect Plan

God is the one in complete control of all things and all individuals. My purpose needs to be in concentrating on how I respond to what God wants me to do.

The first chapter of Ruth sets the stage for events that will take place in the lives of Naomi and Ruth. We were given a clear picture of Ruth’s respect for Naomi’s advice. As we continue, Ruth’s growth in her trust in the God of Israel and the miraculous way God uses unlikely circumstances for His glory, will be developed. Also, a third character, Boaz will enter into this story of trust and redemption.

Recall, Naomi had returned at the beginning of barley harvest. Just in this small detail alone, God’s perfect timing is evident. Consider for a moment His perfect timing in your life for circumstances that have taken place. Perhaps in the moment we are a bit surprised and even dismayed at what befalls us, yet God’s hand is always in the events of His children’s lives. Often without our knowledge, He is preparing us for what is to come – because He loves us and cares for us.

For example, in the eighties I relocated to the Antelope Valley. I had grown up and lived in the foothills of the San Gabriel Mountains for most of my life so the high desert was not exactly appealing. However, the housing market was affordable and my husband insisted we move in order to purchase a more sizeable home. So I excitedly got on board and we relocated our family – including our three children, ages 9 months, almost three years and seven years old – to a large home on the east side of Lancaster. We knew no one in the area and had left friends and family. Many, many years later I can look back and marvel to see God’s hand in every decision, including the exact house and neighborhood, all the while I had not yet accepted Him as Lord and Savior. There are no words to describe God’s care for His children.

It is now time to meet Boaz.

Ru 2:1 Now Naomi had a kinsman of her husband, a man of great wealth, of the family of Elimelech, whose name was Boaz.

What is a kinsman? The literal translation is simply an acquaintance. However, there is an additional word attached to kinsman, the word <yada’> which seems to imply that Naomi had knowledge of this person beforehand. The NKJV describes Boaz as a relative and in fact we read that Boaz is from Elimelech’s family. Elimelech had apparently been well-known in the town and seemingly of some wealth before his move to Moab. We know his family had not been entirely forgotten because a scene is recounted for us in Chapter One of people in the town recognizing Naomi when she returned after Elimelech’s death and the death of her two sons.

The word kinsman used in this section of scripture means that Boaz was a relative, and therefore found himself in the place of a ‘kinsman redeemer’. This is important information because there were obligations attached to the male relatives of a family in the case of death or poverty. Culture at that time was different than what we might experience today. According to Easton’s Bible Dictionary, a kinsman was the nearest male blood relative and could be called upon to restore or save a family name as well as family property.

It would be neglectful if we didn’t take a moment to pause here and consider the incredible role Jesus Christ willingly took as our Redeemer. He is the perfect example of restoration. However, Jesus was not under the arm of culture or law in fulfilling His redemption for mankind. Instead, He chose, out of obedience and love for the Father, to embrace the position of Redeemer. Read the following scriptures that title God as our Redeemer. Make note of His uniqueness – the only one who has the power to deliver mankind from sin; none other compares to Him; He alone is creator of all things.

Isaiah 44:6 "Thus says the LORD, the King of Israel and his Redeemer, the LORD of hosts: 'I am the first and I am the last, and there is no God besides Me.

Isaiah 44:24 Thus says the LORD, your Redeemer, and the one who formed you from the womb, "I, the LORD, am the maker of all things, Stretching out the heavens by Myself, and spreading out the earth all alone,

Continuing in Ruth 2:1, we learn that Boaz was also a man of great wealth. The wealth referred to is both in resources and virtue. In one commentary, it was suggested that Boaz may have been a judge in the land. In any case, we can conclude that Boaz was a man of authority and held a place of honor in Bethlehem. This information about Boaz will be necessary to recall as we move forward in this chapter.

In Ruth 2:2, we read that Ruth understands the immediate need to supply food for herself and Naomi. She continues to seriously consider her role in providing and caring for her mother-in-law as she is learning about the Jewish culture and their God, whom she has acknowledged as her God.

Ruth 2:2 And Ruth the Moabitess said to Naomi, "Please let me go to the field and glean among the ears of grain after one in whose sight I may find favor." And she said to her, "Go, my daughter."

It was expected that Ruth would walk to a field and gather grain that had been left on the ground after harvesting. This was in accordance with Jewish law to provide for the widows and the poor. As we read along in this book, we will see Naomi continuing to instruct Ruth in Jewish law and custom. Recall that Ruth was a Moabitess, unfamiliar with the God she chose to follow, apart from what she saw in her mother-in-law’s example. Ruth was a model student of asking questions, listening, and applying what she was taught. Hover over this last sentence for a moment. How might your day change if you were to pay special attention and Ask – Listen – and Apply the correct information and knowledge?

Consider for a moment, the personal application of both Naomi’s example and Ruth’s response. Does your life – in words and actions – draw others to a desire to know more about God? Do you place yourself in the classroom of learning from the good examples around you? Do you then seek to hear truth, increase your understanding and make changes as God reveals areas that need attention? Are you coming to Him on your terms or His?

According to law, Ruth goes to the fields where harvest has begun and hopes to gain favor from its owner and glean the leftover grain. Leviticus 19:9-10 'Now when you reap the harvest of your land, you shall not reap to the very corners of your field, neither shall you gather the gleanings of your harvest. 'Nor shall you glean your vineyard, nor shall you gather the fallen fruit of your vineyard; you shall leave them for the needy and for the stranger. I am the LORD your God.

Ruth readily places herself amongst the poor in order to provide. This willingness speaks of a humble heart. It is possible when Ruth married into the family of Elimelech that she gained a respectable stature as she was now associated with a family who had been well-known and established in Bethlehem. Life was very different now and it seems Ruth is able to embrace her new role with a determination to do whatever was necessary. We don’t see her wasting time bemoaning the fact that things have changed. She steps up to the task at hand and moves forward.

The humility to do whatever is necessary to provide is an example for each of us to follow. Sometimes, we can mentally place ourselves above certain tasks. Either we feel we are too qualified or the work is unpleasant and certainly not meant for us to do. Can you relate? Simple things, such as picking up someone else’s mess or following through with a chore meant for another, are sometimes challenging in our prideful minds. Lest you quickly relate that you would never begrudge serving in any way, stop and think carefully for a moment. Have you wiped off a kitchen counter thinking it should have been done by the previous user? Does anyone here have a husband who leaves things lying around or out of place? How do you respond? When you extend your help, are their limitations to what you are willing to do? When you say you are available, do you hope no one takes you up on your offer?

We are blessed to have many meaningful relationships among the college/career age group. There is a common and persistent struggle that often presents itself as these young adults finish their education or training and are ready to seek full-time employment. It is more typical than not for these intelligent and talented individuals to be offered a position that, in their mind, does not measure up to their knowledge or degree. The response we see falls in two categories. Either, any position at all is welcomed and appreciated with a willingness to start anywhere, or these young adults are offended to accept something for which they feel over-qualified. Unfortunately, we have witnessed the choice to remain unemployed too often. The Bible is clear, we are to work. The title or position or salary is not the key. The willingness to work to provide is the goal. Family Bible Notes puts it this way, “True piety will lead those who have it to be industrious, and to engage in any honest, useful employment to which they may in the providence of God be called”.

Back to our example in Ruth. She walked to the fields that were being harvested in the hopes that someone would allow her to gather the leftover grain. Boaz is mentioned in the preceding verse, however Ruth at this point does not know him and does not know the owner of the fields she is seeking to gather. We have been given information in order to clearly see God’s hand at work in the lives of Naomi and Ruth. Although the law provided for the poor to glean, perhaps there were some owners who prevented this practice. Recall also, that Ruth was a stranger in the land. She was from Moab and recognizably different in her dress and likely stood out in her features also. Would she be accepted to take part in the provision of Jewish law for its poor?

Ruth is quite fearless to move forward, hoping to gain the favor of a landowner, knowing she is an obvious foreigner. John Wesley’s Notes on the Old and New Testaments says, “Nor was she ashamed to confess her poverty, nor would she eat the bread of idleness”. She moves forward with Naomi’s blessing. She walks down a dusty road pursuing a field to glean. She is looking for someone to show her favor or grace as the NAS translation says. Again, what we do see is a humble heart seeking that which is undeserved. Do we thankfully acknowledge the opportunities God places before us? Do we move forward in them, trusting in Him? Do we recognize how undeserving we are of the numerous blessings God has afforded His children?

An additional observance that comes to mind is the fact that Ruth sought guidance from Naomi, she sought wise counsel and waited for her answer before she forged ahead. This reeks of patience I don’t always display! I am personally reminded of the importance to ask questions, especially of those things I am not as familiar with. Often, a piece of information I may not have thought of is revealed. At the very best, I am assured of the direction I am to go when it seems clear I should move forward. Naomi’s go-ahead must have given Ruth confidence as she was about to embark in a practice which was unfamiliar to her.

Ruth 2:3 So she departed and went and gleaned in the field after the reapers; and she happened to come to the portion of the field belonging to Boaz, who was of the family of Elimelech.

God’s hand of care is written all over this! Consider how blessed we are to have this encouragement of God working in our life. Even in dire circumstances which are unforeseen, God has an incredible plan.

I mentioned earlier how it came about that I moved to this valley. I didn’t mention that three weeks later, with absolutely no foresight on my part, my husband left myself and our three young children. This move in his mind had been premeditated. I also didn’t mention that the house we had moved into was directly across the street from a young family who happened to attend Valley Bible Church and host one of the two weekly growth groups at their home. Of course, she invited me to attend the Bible study and thirty plus years later, here I am.

Our text says Ruth happened upon a field belonging to Boaz. This word ‘happened’ means something met with an accident or fortune, something befallen or by chance. Was this an accident or providence? Family Bible Notes makes this comment, “With a fatherly kindness God watches over and directs the concerns of the poorest, most obscure, and defenseless of his people, and directs them in such a manner as to promote their highest good”. Matthew Poole’s Commentary says, “It was indeed a chance in reference to second causes, but ordered and designed by God’s providence”. God uses the circumstances in our lives to bring glory to Himself.

If you are God’s child, you will be able to see His hand directing your life in all areas. Look back at seemingly unimportant events or decisions and praise God for how He has turned them for your blessing. Before we leave verse three of this chapter, don’t miss the example of hard work and trust given to us from Ruth’s actions. She did find a field where workers were harvesting and she did gather what was left on the ground. This was a strange, new practice for her and I think we can assume it may have felt a bit uncomfortable. Physically, this was hard work. Mentally, she must have been wondering if she was following protocol for this exercise or if she would be welcomed or reprimanded. But in faith she moved ahead and willingly placed herself at the mercy of those in charge in order to provide food for Naomi and herself. And she happened upon a field belonging to Boaz.

Some of us have a disease that labels us as control freaks. Lest you think you have not succumbed to this illness, consider how you react when things don’t happen exactly the way you think they should! Granted, this disease shows itself much stronger in some individuals. It is recognized early, even in childhood. Next time you have an opportunity to be in a room with several children take the time to watch how they play. The need to line everything up according to size or color or shape, or the drive to have everything in its place can be a blessing and a curse all at the same time! Why am I bringing this up? I wonder how often I misplace my responsibility. God is the one in complete control of all things and all individuals. My purpose needs to be in concentrating on how I respond to what God wants me to do. I am not able to hold everything together, that’s God’s job. I am not capable of changing people, God will take care of others. I am also unable to dictate most circumstances. God does not need us for the details! We have plenty to take care of without ordering the lives of others. This puts greater responsibility on myself for those things I am able to influence.

Think for a moment. What are the things you can influence for good? How about looking to your example that others see? Do you notice how your attitude can readily affect the attitude of others? In Ruth, we have an example of her faithfulness to do what God would have her do, paying attention to her own responsibilities. And God, in His providence, directs the circumstances and the individuals, to go according to His plan. Ruth happened to find herself in a field belonging to Boaz because it is precisely what God ordained.

Right now, if you are truly desiring and taking action to please God while remaining obedient to His truth and direction, you are where you belong. He has set the motion for your life to please Him in all circumstances.

Your responsibility is to

be faithful to His call,
be diligent to work at whatever task He places before you, and
trust in His perfect direction and timing.

Providence

“With a fatherly kindness God watches over and directs the concerns of the poorest, most obscure, and defenseless of his people, and directs them in such a manner as to promote their highest good”

Do you see the hand of God in your life? The word happenstance refers to an event that might have been arranged although it was really accidental. It is closely related to the idea of something being a coincidence. I don’t believe anything is a coincidence since the Bible says God has purposed everything according to His will. He is in control of all things, knows all things and nothing is beyond God’s scrutiny and dominion. Read Proverbs 21:1, “The king’s heart is [like] channels of water in the hand of the LORD; He turns it wherever He wishes”. God’s providence is quite the opposite of accidental. It is an event or circumstance that may look like coincidence but has been arranged all along by Him. It is God’s care exercised for His creation.

I am studying the book of Ruth at this moment. Ruth 2:3, turned my eyes toward thinking upon God’s divine direction in my life. As I look back I am truly amazed and thankful at the way each segment has been placed just so. Even the negative – or what I thought was negative – has been purposely used by God to show me Himself and to grow me in trust and understanding. My heart is full of praise and adoration for the One true God, our Lord, Jesus Christ.

Ruth 2:3 reads, “So she departed and went and gleaned in the field after the reapers; and she happened to come to the portion of the field belonging to Boaz, who was of the family of Elimelech”.

God’s hand of care is written all over this! Consider how blessed we are to have this encouraging picture of God working in the lives of those whom He has called. Even in dire circumstances which are unforeseen, God has an incredible plan.

Focus Heavenward, Sharyn.

Ruth 1:19-22

Everything we have is a blessing from God’s hand – undeserved, unmerited, unwarranted. Do we recognize His blessings when we have them? Do we hold blessings loosely, understanding they are not ours to own?

As we near the end of the first chapter in Ruth, Orpah has returned back to Moab and Naomi and Ruth begin their journey on to Bethlehem. After much persuasion on Naomi’s part for Ruth to return to her own family, Ruth makes it perfectly clear she will accompany Naomi, adopt her culture, her people and her God. We are not given information about the actual trek through desert land yet we can imagine it was not an easy journey. However they did make it and verse nineteen picks up with the two women arriving in Bethlehem. Once they entered the town, people gathered as they recognized Naomi.

Ruth 1:19 So they both went until they came to Bethlehem. And when they had come to Bethlehem, all the city was stirred because of them, and the women said, "Is this Naomi?"

Recall, Naomi had been gone for about ten years. Her family must have been known for her name to be remembered. As Naomi and Ruth approach Bethlehem, old friends and acquaintances of Naomi are excited to greet them. Most likely news had traveled that Naomi was now a widow and destitute, which was an obvious contrast to the young family of Elimelech who had departed from Bethlehem a decade earlier.

Consider how difficult this must have been for Naomi. Once she was the young bride of Elimelech, probably of significant financial means, enjoying youth, marriage and children. Now she has returned to her hometown minus all but perhaps the clothes on her back, worn and tired from difficult circumstances and a long arduous journey. She is no doubt feeling the heaviness of how her life has changed and her loss of husband and children.

There is a simple question recorded for us at the end of verse nineteen, “Is this Naomi?” We wonder in what spirit this question asked. Perhaps it is out of surprise or curiosity. Maybe the question is one of care and concern. It is good for each of us to remember how quickly our lives can change! Read the following verse.

Ps 103:15-16 As for man, his days are like grass; as a flower of the field, so he flourishes.16 When the wind has passed over it, it is no more, and its place acknowledges it no longer.

Our lives are short and uncertain. God’s word is everlasting and sure. Everything we have is a blessing from God’s hand – undeserved, unmerited, unwarranted. Do we recognize His blessings when we have them? Do we hold blessings loosely, understanding they are not ours to own?

Think about the response of the town towards Naomi’s return. What is our response when someone leaves for a while and returns heavy-hearted? What is our reaction when someone encounters difficulty? Is our heart quick to cast judgement or do we show compassion?

Thomas Haweis lived in the 18 century and was a key figure in the evangelical revival. Read what he writes about Ruth 1:19 –

1. Of the reception they met with. Collecting together on the rumour of her return, the women who remembered her former beauty and affluence, and now beheld her wrinkles and poverty, some perhaps in pity, some in scorn and upbraiding, and some in surprise, said, Is this Naomi? Note,

(1.) Age and wrinkles make strange alterations on the fairest face. It is a poor thing to be vain of what is so fading.

(2.) They who have any feelings of humanity, and much more those who have the bowels of Christ, will seek compassionately to alleviate the sorrows of the miserable.

(3.) They who have carried themselves most humble in prosperity, will be most regarded in adversity.

The next two verses in Ruth give us insight into Naomi’s struggle with the tragedies that have befallen her. Her response to the questions and raised eyebrows of her changed circumstances is heart wrenching.

Ruth 1:20-21 She said to them, "Do not call me Naomi; call me Mara, for the Almighty has dealt very bitterly with me. 21 "I went out full, but the LORD has brought me back empty. Why do you call me Naomi, since the LORD has witnessed against me and the Almighty has afflicted me?"

In the previous verse (19), we read it was the women who questioned Naomi. Most of us are blessed with close friendships, those we are connected to and perhaps know us a bit better than other acquaintances. You can almost hear the surprise in these women’s voices as they see Naomi again after ten years of her absence. Sorrow and poverty have most likely taken a toll on Naomi as well as the normal process of aging. It would be expected that she look different. She probably looks weaker physically because of the journey from Moab and the draining of her emotions from her experienced loss. The change in Naomi is recognizable and drastic and is difficult to ignore.

Naomi returns to Bethlehem with a heart full of sorrow. She has no means, no husband and no children. Each of us will encounter affliction in our lives. How will we react? Naomi’s name actually means pleasant or cheerful. Of course, at this point, her name doesn’t seem to fit what has befallen her. She shares the pain in her heart by her response in verse twenty. “Call me Mara”, meaning bitter or sorrowful. Hopefully at this point, the reader is feeling compassion with Naomi. Her discouragement is evident and is encompassing her attitude. We are all subject to hardship. Life can present many unexpected and uninvited tragedies. Are we prepared with God’s armor? What is our attitude when difficult things happen? How do we let circumstances affect our focus? At this low point in Naomi’s life, the name Mara seems more fitting and descriptive of her broken heart.

Naomi recognizes God has allowed grief in her life. Each of us can expect God’s correction and discipline through circumstances. Some of these difficult times may be brought from our own decisions and some from God’s loving hand of teaching us to grow in our dependence and trust of Him.

Job 5:17 "Behold, how happy is the man whom God reproves, so do not despise the discipline of the Almighty.

Psalm 94:12 Blessed is the man whom You chasten, O LORD, and whom You teach out of Your law;

Proverbs 3:11-12 My son, do not reject the discipline of the LORD or loathe His reproof, 12 For whom the LORD loves He reproves, even as a father corrects the son in whom he delights.

James 1:12 Blessed is a man who perseveres under trial; for once he has been approved, he will receive the crown of life which the Lord has promised to those who love Him.

Revelation 3:19 'Those whom I love, I reprove and discipline; therefore be zealous and repent.

In Ruth 1:21 Naomi states her position to those greeting her. She left Bethlehem with a husband and children and she has returned without them. She has experienced incredible grief. No matter the circumstances or the cause, loss is hard. Personal casualty is painful. It is even more painful when we recognize it has befallen us because of unwise decisions on our part. Naomi attributes her chastening from God as a direct punishment. Have you suffered loss or disappointment because of God’s direct hand of discipline for your sin? I would be willing to state that each of us can understand Naomi’s plight if only to a small degree.

The book of Job begins with giving all glory to God in all circumstances, “Naked I came from my mother’s womb, and naked I shall return there. The Lord gave and the Lord has taken away. Blessed be the name of the Lord” (Job 1:21). The book begins well but certainly Job suffered his moments of overwhelming grief upon the loss of his family and livelihood and even turned to questioning God’s hand of judgement. Read Job 19:6 – “Know then that God has wronged me and has closed His net around me”. Who are we to ever question what God does or what He allows? But even the strongest men and women of faith can succumb to the stress of heavy burdens for a short time. Have you ever felt closed in by all sides with difficulty in all directions? How do you respond? How should you respond?

Look back to the scriptures above. Chastening is proof that you are God’s child. He cannot allow sin to go unpunished and He will be faithful to continue to discipline us and train us to be used for His glory. Even when we do not understand, we have an opportunity to trust. What we do not see is Naomi making excuses or complaining. She simply states the truth – she acknowledges God’s hand against her, and she accepts His perfect and righteous judgement.

Hannah, upon the birth of her son Samuel, recognizes the power and right of God to do whatever He deems necessary in people’s lives. 1Samuel 2:7-8 "The LORD makes poor and rich; He brings low, He also exalts. 8 "He raises the poor from the dust, He lifts the needy from the ash heap to make them sit with nobles, and inherit a seat of honor; for the pillars of the earth are the LORD'S, and He set the world on them.”

We can easily live our lives with expectations of what we think should happen or even what we think we deserve. The reality is, God will do what He desires for His greater purpose and glory. When we step into the world as an adult, we set forth a ‘plan’ in our mind of how things will go. If we begin college, our expectation is to finish college. If we have a desire to marry, we anticipate meeting someone. When it is time to have children, [we think] we make decisions of when and how many. Then if we are blessed with children, we plan for the fulfillment of dreams we have for them. Goals are necessary to keep us motivated but they need to be held loosely. God is the one driving the car, calling the shots, and steering the boat. However you want to look at it, we are not our own.

Psalm 24:1 The earth is the LORD'S, and all it contains, the world, and those who dwell in it.

Deuteronomy 32:6b Is not He your Father who has bought you? He has made you and established you.

Romans 14:6-8 He who observes the day, observes it for the Lord, and he who eats, does so for the Lord, for he gives thanks to God; and he who eats not, for the Lord he does not eat, and gives thanks to God. 7 For not one of us lives for himself, and not one dies for himself; 8 for if we live, we live for the Lord, or if we die, we die for the Lord; therefore whether we live or die, we are the Lord's.

The first chapter of Ruth concludes with the information that Naomi and Ruth had returned to Bethlehem at the beginning of barley harvest. Perfect timing, right? God’s hand is in all things!

Ruth 1:22 So Naomi returned, and with her Ruth the Moabitess, her daughter-in-law, who returned from the land of Moab. And they came to Bethlehem at the beginning of barley harvest.

Harvest was in the spring, perhaps March or April. This timing would have afforded Ruth the best opportunity to provide for herself and Naomi since it was the beginning of the season.

Naomi is home after ten years of sojourning in Moab. She has returned without her husband and sons. Her strong witness of faith to the God of Israel has made an impression upon one of her daughter in laws. God has used Naomi’s example in Ruth’s heart. Ruth chooses to leave her culture and family for the one true God. She vehemently insists on adopting the culture, people and God of the Jewish nation. With a broken heart and an empty purse, Naomi is greeted by her home town. She is recognizably changed, in her words chastened by God. Yet her afflicted heart will continue to trust God’s sovereignty. In chapter two of this book, Naomi will encourage Ruth by her words and example to place her faith in God’s plan and promises.

Determination to Follow

Our faith is not a one-time, say the right words and own a life insurance policy, act of acknowledgment. When God chooses to transform a heart to understand who He is and what He has done, it is permanent and it is complete. There is no turning away lest we desire His hand of discipline. God will use us or He will remove us, but He will never lose us.

Ruth 1:14 ended with a tearful good-bye. Orpah returned to Moab and Ruth chose to remain with Naomi. Yet Naomi is not finished trying to dissuade Ruth from accompanying her to Bethlehem.

Before we move on, let’s address the thought of sticking with those we know and love even when times prove to be difficult or uncertain. Do we love one another enough to forsake what is certain and comfortable? Do we love God enough to leave behind the pulls of the world for the promises of a future with Him?

Matthew 10:37 "He who loves father or mother more than Me is not worthy of Me; and he who loves son or daughter more than Me is not worthy of Me.

Matthew 19:21-22 Jesus said to him, "If you wish to be complete, go and sell your possessions and give to the poor, and you will have treasure in heaven; and come, follow Me." 22 But when the young man heard this statement, he went away grieving; for he was one who owned much property.

Luke 14:26 "If anyone comes to Me, and does not hate his own father and mother and wife and children and brothers and sisters, yes, and even his own life, he cannot be My disciple.

In 2 Timothy 4, towards the end of Timothy’s death, he speaks of those who had deserted him as the pull of the world became stronger than the message of the gospel (2 Timothy 4:10; 16).

Ruth’s insisting on remaining with Naomi testifies to the relationship that has formed between them. It also gives us insight to the strong pull of Naomi’s example of faith and trust in the God of Israel toward Ruth. Orpah most likely returned to the gods of Moab when she went back to her family. Ruth’s heart is changing however. She is being drawn away from the idolatry taught her and into the truth of Naomi’s God.

Naomi continues to make certain that Ruth has a realistic appreciation of the hardship ahead as she once again offers her a way out to return to her own people.

Ruth 1:15 Then she said, "Behold, your sister-in-law has gone back to her people and her gods; return after your sister-in-law."

This is a true test of Ruth’s conversion. No matter the unknown’s ahead, if she has truly been called by God she will choose to follow Him. For Ruth, that would mean leaving the teaching and culture of Moab behind, along with her relatives, and continuing on with Naomi to Bethlehem. There will be no turning back from her decision. Read Joshua 24:15, “If it is disagreeable in your sight to serve the LORD, choose for yourselves today whom you will serve: whether the gods which your fathers served which were beyond the River, or the gods of the Amorites in whose land you are living; but as for me and my house, we will serve the LORD."

Will Ruth remain steadfast in her decision to know the God of Israel? The next verses, Ruth 1:16-17, give us the answer.

Ruth 1:16-17 But Ruth said, "Do not urge me to leave you or turn back from following you; for where you go, I will go, and where you lodge, I will lodge. Your people shall be my people, and your God, my God. 17 "Where you die, I will die, and there I will be buried. Thus may the LORD do to me, and worse, if anything but death parts you and me."

What can we say here but wow! A beautiful account of a heart called by God has been recorded for us. In essence we have Ruth saying, “Stop asking me to leave you and turn back to Moab. I will go with you to Bethlehem and will dwell with you and adopt your nation and your God as my own. I am committed to remain until death”.

Ruth answers all of Naomi’s concerns.

Ruth shows her desire to follow Naomi through whatever may befall them – “where you go, I will go”,
she explains her intent to remain permanently – “where you lodge, I will lodge”,
she expressly says she will adopt the nation of Israel as her own which has to mean she will follow the commands of the Jews – “Your people shall be my people”, and
She will purpose to follow the one true God – “your God, my God”.

Ruth is fully changed from being an idol worshipper to kneeling before the God of Israel! If we jump ahead to chapter two of Ruth, Boaz also determines through Ruth’s actions that she has placed her trust in the God of Israel.

Ruth 2:11-12 Boaz replied to her, "All that you have done for your mother-in-law after the death of your husband has been fully reported to me, and how you left your father and your mother and the land of your birth, and came to a people that you did not previously know. 12 "May the LORD reward your work, and your wages be full from the LORD, the God of Israel, under whose wings you have come to seek refuge."

The account above begs for us to carefully examine not only whom we follow, but to what extent. Have we laid aside all things pertaining to this world in order to follow Jesus? Even if our lives may prove to be more difficult and uncertain? Is our faith genuine – is it represented in our words, our choices, and our actions?

Hosea 13:4 Yet I have been the LORD your God Since the land of Egypt; and you were not to know any god except Me, for there is no savior besides Me. (emphasis added)

2Corinthians 6:16-18 Or what agreement has the temple of God with idols? For we are the temple of the living God; just as God said, "I WILL DWELL IN THEM AND WALK AMONG THEM; AND I WILL BE THEIR GOD, AND THEY SHALL BE MY PEOPLE. 17 "Therefore, COME OUT FROM THEIR MIDST AND BE SEPARATE," says the Lord. "AND DO NOT TOUCH WHAT IS UNCLEAN; And I will welcome you. 18 "And I will be a father to you, and you shall be sons and daughters to Me," Says the Lord Almighty.

Ruth continues with her answer to Naomi in verse seventeen as she states that only death will separate them: “Where you die, I will die”. The commitment Ruth is making is long term, she has no intention of changing her direction when poverty or difficult circumstances present themselves. Ruth fully embraces the Jewish nation as her own as she is even intending to be buried with them – “and there I will be buried”.

And, just in case Naomi is still unconvinced of Ruth’s genuine affection and conversion to the one true God, Ruth adds judgement upon herself if she reneges on her promise! “Thus may the LORD do to me, and worse, if anything but death parts you and me”.

Paul, in the book of Acts, continued to follow the one true God, even knowing that persecution was part of his lot.

Acts 20:22-24 "And now, behold, bound in spirit, I am on my way to Jerusalem, not knowing what will happen to me there, 23 except that the Holy Spirit solemnly testifies to me in every city, saying that bonds and afflictions await me. 24 "But I do not consider my life of any account as dear to myself, so that I may finish my course and the ministry which I received from the Lord Jesus, to testify solemnly of the gospel of the grace of God.

Naomi certainly seemed wise in making certain Ruth understood what may befall her if she chose to journey to Bethlehem. Less than a pretty picture was painted for the difficulties that might await the women. Naomi served Ruth in giving her a clear understanding of what her decision to follow meant. Ruth would find herself in a foreign land with a foreign people worshipping a God that had been unknown to her until the connection between these unlikely families years ago. The people of Israel would not tolerate worship of an idol. Ruth would have to become one of them in her thinking, in her practice and in her worship. Was she up for it? How sincere was her commitment to God?

Our faith is not a one-time, say the right words and own a life insurance policy, act of acknowledgement. When God chooses to transform a heart to understand who He is and what He has done, it is permanent and it is complete. There is no turning away lest we desire His hand of discipline. God will use us or He will remove us, but He will never lose us. Will we hang tight in tough times and be used? Will we hide and not fully understand what it means to be joyful in all circumstances? God will keep us if we are truly His. Will we stay wholly committed to His work for His glory?

The scene has moved from Naomi’s repeated persuasion for Ruth to turn back from the hardship ahead to a clear understanding of Ruth’s determination to follow. Nothing was able to dissuade Ruth from accompanying Naomi on this journey.

In Acts 21:10-12, Agabus had warned Paul that he would be bound and delivered into the hands of the Gentiles in Jerusalem. Those with Paul even begged him to not journey there for fear of what would befall him. But Paul was determined to follow God no matter the cost. Acts 21:13 Then Paul answered, "What are you doing, weeping and breaking my heart? For I am ready not only to be bound, but even to die at Jerusalem for the name of the Lord Jesus."

How would we hold up to this test of our faith? Paul, in the book of Ephesians, exhorts the church at Ephesus to live according to the grace of God. Midway through chapter six, after a long discourse on Christian living, we read these words, “Finally, be strong in the Lord and in the strength of His might” (Ephesians 6:10). He then goes on to list the armor we have in Christ. It is certain we are unable to live in a manner pleasing to God without His power working in us. Ruth has chosen to forsake all things to follow God. And He will use her for His glory.

Returning

The only thing Naomi has to offer is her commitment and love to God and the people of Israel. This is more than enough if you are truly devoted to God and trust in Him. For Naomi, this is the best decision, this is where she belongs, and she can count on God upholding her.

Ruth 1:10-14

Naomi has made a decision to return to the land of Bethlehem. Orpah and Ruth accompany her part of the way and we read of their tearful farewells. Naomi shares her desire of blessing upon her two daughters in law as they each return to their own families. The expectation is that Naomi will continue through the desert to Bethlehem and Orpah and Ruth will go back into Moab. They will be separated, and most likely never see each other again. This separation is very different than what we might experience today! There are no phones, no computers with Facebook or Instagram, and no regular mail delivery, just word of mouth. However, the parting does not go as expected!

Ruth 1:10 And they said to her, "[No,] but we will surely return with you to your people."

Orpah and Ruth assure their mother in law that they intend to break tradition and accompany Naomi to Bethlehem. You can hear them saying, ‘Of course we are not going back to Moab, and we had always planned on remaining with you’. Their response continues to give us insight into the special relationship of these women. The care and love that has built between them is evident. Somehow, the pull to stay with Naomi has become stronger than the desire to reside within their own homeland and relatives. Even when it means a greater opportunity for care and security. Remember there is a chasm of difference between the culture and teaching of Naomi’s birth land of Bethlehem and her daughters in law birth land of Moab. One was taught to follow Jewish law and the God of Israel; the others were brought up in a land known for its worship of many gods and pagan sacrifices. The young women have been drawn away from what they knew and drawn into the graciousness shown by Naomi.

We have the benefit of the whole story – isn’t it fun to see how God uses all circumstances for His glory in bringing people to Himself? Are we encouraging others to be drawn toward the God of the Bible as they interact with us? The next few verses give us Naomi’s response to her daughters in law and a picture into her burdened heart.

Ru 1:11 But Naomi said, "Return, my daughters. Why should you go with me? Have I yet sons in my womb, that they may be your husbands?

Naomi challenges the decision made by Orpah and Ruth to stay on with her. In fact, it almost seems like Naomi is warning the young women to turn back. The word ‘return’ is used repeatedly in the next several verses as Naomi urges her daughters in law to consider their only real option. Naomi asks them why they would journey with her since she is unable to offer them hope for the future. We have to remember once again a women’s position in that time – a man meant security, food, and shelter. Naomi is not in a position to bear more children and she most likely considers herself too old to be married again. Under Jewish law, if there had been a brother of Mahlon or Chilion, he then would have redeemed the young widow’s. But, this is not the case.

Deuteronomy 25:5 "When brothers live together and one of them dies and has no son, the wife of the deceased shall not be [married] outside [the family] to a strange man. Her husband's brother shall go in to her and take her to himself as wife and perform the duty of a husband's brother to her.

Even after having been removed from Jewish culture and law, we see Naomi following what she knew. This may be a testament of her strong desire to continue in her obedience to the God she has known. Perhaps she had even been instructing her daughters in law in the Jewish religion all along. Orpah and Ruth see an example of faithfulness in Naomi. Faithfulness to her people and faithfulness to her God.

Naomi realizes the difficulties that lie ahead of her. The journey to Bethlehem would be exhausting. Without benefit of male companions it would be even more challenging. Then when Naomi does arrive in Bethlehem, she is without her husband and needs to secure shelter and food for herself from family members who still reside there. She is well aware that her survival in Bethlehem will depend on gleaning the fields with the poor, fatherless, and needy. Naomi has compassion for her daughters in law and must wonder if they truly understand the choice they are making. Life in Bethlehem will not be easier, in fact, it may be very difficult. She is not even certain of her own future, never mind securing a future for her daughters. What a helpless feeling!

Transport yourself for a moment. Think of having lived in a foreign country for about ten years, experiencing the loss of your husband and only two sons, journeying back to the country you left and perhaps bringing the two women who have been the closest part of family for the last several years, into an unknown situation. You would feel responsible for their welfare, yet would be unable to make any promises of a bright future to them. I can only begin to imagine the difficult choices being made. Maybe Naomi’s tone of despair comes from wanting her daughters in law to truly understand the hardship they might be prolonging upon themselves if they chose to accompany her. The only thing Naomi has to offer is her commitment and love to God and the people of Israel. This is more than enough if you are truly devoted to God and trust in Him. For Naomi, this is the best decision, this is where she belongs, and she can count on God upholding her.

But where are Orpah and Ruth’s hearts in this matter? Have they learned to turn from their heathen God’s to the one true God of Israel? Is their trust in Him one which will cause them to leave the possibility of comforts and security found in their families? What about when it becomes even more difficult, do they have a faith that will sustain them or will they regret the decision to follow Naomi?

In Ruth 1:12-13 we continue to read Naomi’s response to her daughters in law as she appeals to their sense of reality and understanding.

Ruth 1:12-13 "Return, my daughters! Go, for I am too old to have a husband. If I said I have hope, if I should even have a husband tonight and also bear sons, 13 would you therefore wait until they were grown? Would you therefore refrain from marrying? No, my daughters; for it is harder for me than for you, for the hand of the LORD has gone forth against me."

Naomi once again tells her daughters in law to return to their own land with their own families. She continues to warn them of a road wrought with difficulties, maybe in an effort to test their resolve to follow her into Bethlehem. It even seems she is being a bit sarcastic in stating the obvious and impossible. She is old, will probably not marry and even if she did and was able to conceive immediately and have a son, it would be years before he could carry out Jewish law and marry one of them! This scenario is unrealistic, impractical and unfortunately begins to express the hopelessness and bitterness Naomi feels in her circumstances. I think my reply would be something like, “Seriously, I don’t even know if I am going to be able to take care of myself, let alone you younger women who still have the hope of a future”.

Read what Jamieson-Fausset-Brown Commentary says about Ruth 1:12-13, “That Naomi should dissuade her daughters-in-law so strongly from accompanying her to the land of Israel may appear strange. But it was the wisest and most prudent course for her to adopt: first, because they might be influenced by hopes which could not be realized; second, because they might be led, under temporary excitement, to take a step they might afterwards regret; and, third, because the sincerity and strength of their conversion to the true religion, which she had taught them, would be thoroughly tested”.

Naomi could have just responded with, ‘Oh sure, everything will be just fine, it will all work out’. Ultimately, when our faith is placed in God, we understand this to be true. Yet, is the whole picture represented well? What does ‘everything will be just fine’ convey? Often, the road of our faith has twists and turns and hills and valleys in it. Sometimes the journey we are on proves to be really hard! It is prudent to prepare for times of difficulty so we are not caught off-guard. Perhaps this is what Naomi is thinking for her daughters in law – preparing them for the journey ahead by reminding them of the hardships they are likely to encounter. She is careful to not only paint a rosy picture of the future which may benefit herself because she would have travel companions and help once settling in Bethlehem. Naomi presents the whole truth of what is likely. Even the opportunities for Ruth and Orpah to marry are lessened once they arrive. They are from a land that is not thought well of and marrying outside of the Jewish culture would be frowned upon in Israel.

2Corinthians 4:8-9 [we are] afflicted in every way, but not crushed; perplexed, but not despairing; 9 persecuted, but not forsaken; struck down, but not destroyed;

Romans 8:17-18 and if children, heirs also, heirs of God and fellow heirs with Christ, if indeed we suffer with [Him] in order that we may also be glorified with [Him.] 18 For I consider that the sufferings of this present time are not worthy to be compared with the glory that is to be revealed to us.

Psalm 119:50 This is my comfort in my affliction, that Thy word has revived me.

Romans 15:4 For whatever was written in earlier times was written for our instruction, that through perseverance and the encouragement of the Scriptures we might have hope.

Hebrews 6:19 This hope we have as an anchor of the soul, a [hope] both sure and steadfast and one which enters within the veil,

The importance of embracing reality also causes me to think upon how we share our faith. Consider this. What happens when faith is presented only as God’s love bestowing wonderful gifts on His children with multiple blessings and promises for a delightful future and no worries or trials or wants? When it gets difficult, how can this kind of faith sustain you? It won’t, it can’t! Do we share only one side of God – His love – without sharing the full truth of God – His judgement upon sin and the payment and trials that go along with His judgement?

Do we embrace God only when things are going well? What is the basis of our faith – is it built on truth, is it sustained with truth?

Although Naomi shows genuine concern for her daughters in law, she is feeling her own distress at the difficult circumstances surrounding her. Even to the point of wondering out loud that God’s hand is against her. When things go really south for us, we can easily allow ourselves to be overwhelmed by the conditions surrounding us rather than assured by God’s care keeping us.

Job expressed his sorrow much the same way in Job 19:21, "Pity me, pity me, O you my friends, for the hand of God has struck me”. In the book of Psalms, David says he felt God’s heavy hand against him. Psalm 32:4 For day and night Thy hand was heavy upon me; my vitality was drained away [as] with the fever heat of summer. Selah.

God’s hand can feel heavy upon us at times. We may be suffering the consequences of poor decisions we personally have made, or God, in His love, has chosen to allow circumstances in our lives that cause us to learn to trust Him more. Naomi may be wondering if hardship has come her way because of the family’s decision to move to Moab years before. Whatever the cause of our trials, we can make choices. If we are in error, we need to confess and make changes appropriate to honoring God. If we are unable to recognize specific sin that is causing our difficulty, we need to trust that God in His sovereignty knows what He has allowed for His glory to be manifested in our lives.

What is your reaction to difficulty and hardship? How can you continue to find peace and joy when you are feeling heavy-hearted? How can you encourage someone going through great difficulty?

We can almost hear the hopelessness in Naomi’s words. She is so downtrodden that there doesn’t seem to be anything she can do to help her daughters in law. God has stripped almost everything away from her. In Ruth 1:12 it says Naomi is grieved by the dire situation she is in. She knows it is best for her to return to her homeland but it means leaving two young women she has grown to love and care for. Consider her relationship again with her daughters in law. They are more than just acquaintances, they have become family with affections toward one other. Naomi is unable to invite the women to accompany her with any hope of a guarantee for a better life. She is also acutely aware than as she sends them back to their own relatives, their instruction in the Jewish law and the God of Israel will likely cease. This would be heartbreaking for any of us!

In our next study in Ruth we will look at a heart touched by God and prepared for His call.

Tearful Goodbyes

Naomi may have been separated for a time from her land and the customs of Jewish worship and law, yet she did not lose her desire to return to what she knew.

The first five verses in Ruth gave us some important details of people involved, location, time and specific circumstances. (See Chasing Rainbows, Ruth 1:1-5). In a short review, we have Elimelech leading his family – wife Naomi, and sons Mahlon and Chilion – out of Bethlehem in Judah and into Moab during a time of severe famine. Moab was widely known as a land which worshipped heathen gods. Elimelech dies and both sons marry Moabite women – Ruth and Orpah. Then Mahlon and Chilion die, leaving Naomi, Ruth and Orpah as widows in a culture and time where woman were quite dependent on men for their care and provision. This is a dire situation. We now pick up the book of Ruth in verse six – Naomi makes decisions and takes action for her future and that of her daughters in law.

Ruth 1:6-7 Then she arose with her daughters-in-law that she might return from the land of Moab, for she had heard in the land of Moab that the LORD had visited His people in giving them food. 7 So she departed from the place where she was, and her two daughters-in-law with her; and they went on the way to return to the land of Judah.

Naomi makes a decision to return to Bethlehem. She hears that the famine is over which would mean there is now better opportunity for her care amongst the family and friends she had left behind when moving to Moab with her husband and sons. Although circumstances may lead us to believe that God has forgotten his children, this is never the case. He bestows His blessings at the perfect time, often requiring us to trust in His timing and direct provision. He will always provide what is necessary in our lives for His glory. Do we recognize this in our own lives – do we see God’s blessing hands guiding us?

Exodus 4:31 So the people believed; and when they heard that the LORD was concerned about the sons of Israel and that He had seen their affliction, then they bowed low and worshiped.

Ruth 1:5 says “the Lord had visited His people in giving them food”. Many families say a prayer of thankfulness when they eat. I pray we do not just say words habitually but instead recognize it is God’s blessing to have food to eat. God cares for His children, He knows our needs and bestows every good gift upon those who love and obey Him. It is easy for us to become expectant of having food when we are hungry. We should always remember that every blessing is a gift from God’s hand. It is His goodness that sustains His children.

James 1:17 Every good thing bestowed and every perfect gift is from above, coming down from the Father of lights, with whom there is no variation, or shifting shadow.

Matthew 6:11 says, 'Give us this day our daily bread’ as an example of how we ought to pray to God – recognizing whose hand it is that sustains us.

Elimelech had determined it was necessary to move out of Bethlehem during the famine but now that Naomi has heard it is over, she intends to return to her own country. Her decision may have been influenced by the reality that she was a woman alone in a strange country with little hope for providing for herself. She had no male relatives to seek for her welfare in Moab.

Both Naomi’s daughters in law accompanied her at the beginning of her return to Judah. Since the assumption is Orpah and Ruth had families in Moab, they must have had somewhat of an endearing relationship to Naomi to consider leaving their own means of support. Orpah and Ruth are now young widows and the same difficulty that Naomi faces of sustaining herself applies to them. It seems the easier thing for the young widows to do would be return to their Moabite relatives for support and the hope of remarrying. Even with their husbands no longer living, their faithfulness to Naomi speaks of their affection and kindness toward each other. Think again about the differences in the land and customs each of these women came from. Naomi was from Bethlehem, a country of devoted Jews, largely following the laws God handed down to Moses for the nation of Israel. Orpah and Ruth grew up in a land devoted to idle worship, perhaps including acts of abomination, far removed from the one true God. It doesn’t seem these women could be farther apart in their culture and practice.

We don’t have a written record of Naomi’s reaction to Mahlon and Chilion marrying the women from Moab. It may have been difficult for her to accept the decisions her sons made as they went against what they had been taught. Perhaps Naomi felt there was no other solution since they now resided in this foreign country and her husband, Mahlon’s and Chilion’s father, had died. Whatever her reaction to Orpah and Ruth, what we do see is that they had formed a close enough relationship to care for one another. Naomi had shown grace toward these young women even though it may have been difficult to accept them. Think about how this example of graciousness may translate to your own life and relationships. Are we reluctant to reach out to those who may look or think different than ourselves? How do we react toward the seemingly unwise decisions of others? Do we forget God will use all things for His glory and purpose? Our responsibility is to be longsuffering, always being ready to share truth, having an encouraging and gentle spirit in the hopes of a soul being drawn towards Christ.

1Corinthians 13:4 Love is patient, love is kind, [and] is not jealous; love does not brag [and] is not arrogant,

2Corinthians 6:1, 3-4, 6 And working together [with Him,] we also urge you not to receive the grace of God in vain-- 3 giving no cause for offense in anything, in order that the ministry be not discredited, 4 but in everything commending ourselves as servants of God, in much endurance, in afflictions, in hardships, in distresses, 6 in purity, in knowledge, in patience, in kindness, in the Holy Spirit, in genuine love,

Back to our story line in Ruth. Orpah and Ruth walk with Naomi at the beginning of her travel back to Bethlehem. One commentary says it was the custom to accompany those whom they loved some part of their way when they went on a long journey (Patrick/Lowth/Whitby/Lowman Commentary). This again speaks of the relationship that had formed between Naomi and her daughters in law. The next verses, eight and nine, tell of Naomi’s encouragement to her daughters in law to return to their families.

Ruth 1:8-9 And Naomi said to her two daughters-in-law, "Go, return each of you to her mother's house. May the LORD deal kindly with you as you have dealt with the dead and with me. 9 "May the LORD grant that you may find rest, each in the house of her husband." Then she kissed them, and they lifted up their voices and wept.

It is possible that this conversation took place as the three women came to the borders of Moab. Naomi urges Orpah and Ruth to go back to their own mother’s house. She recognizes their kindness to herself and to her sons while they had been living, and she dismisses Orpah and Ruth with a blessing.

Consider this possible application as we look at our own relationships. Are we kind to the individuals God has placed in our lives? This is more than just smiling or having nice words to say. It is desiring God’s favor and mercy to be shown. Even when things get difficult do we continue in our care for one another, looking out for others best interests? Widowhood would expose Orpah and Ruth to a life of hardship. Desiring that they return to their own families and stay in the land where they are known would give them the best chance of finding a husband. Naomi is thinking more of them than herself. It would have been much easier for Naomi to have them accompany her on her journey back to Bethlehem. The three women had been through difficult circumstances together and the thought of parting was sorrowful. A kiss was the usual sign of greeting and farewell.

In conclusion, Ruth 1:6-9 has continued to be action packed. Upon hearing of God’s blessing in lifting the famine from Bethlehem, Naomi makes a decision to go back to her country after the death of her husband and two sons. Her daughters in law begin accompanying her, as was custom, to the edge of Moab. Naomi then encourages each of them to go back to the homes of their relatives where they would have the best chance of securing a future for themselves. A small insight into the women’s relationship together suggests that it was one of kindness and affection. Ruth dismisses the young women with a blessing that the kindness they have shown towards herself and her sons when they were alive, is turned towards them. Finally we read of the difficult and emotional good-byes as each woman prepares to go on her way.

Some additional thoughts to consider:

Naomi may have been separated for a time from her land and the customs of Jewish worship and law, yet she did not lose her desire to return to what she knew. What is our response when we are removed from our church family for a time? Do we miss being in fellowship? Does our desire to return remain strong?
Naomi’s concern for her daughters in law happiness is evident. We read this in verses eight and nine and down through verses 11-13 of this same chapter. The same desire of ‘rest’ – a more peaceful and secure life than that of widowhood – is again spoken of by Naomi toward Ruth in chapter three verse one.

Ruth 3:1 Then Naomi her mother-in-law said to her, "My daughter, shall I not seek security for you, that it may be well with you?

When our circumstances seem dire, are we still able to focus on the blessing of others? Do we suffer from tunnel vision, only able to see our own difficulties?

Chasing Rainbows

Do we easily become discontent with our circumstances? Do we hastily try to fix things on our own? Do we prayerfully consider if there is truly a call to change direction or does our trust in God need to grow?

The book of Ruth is sandwiched between Judges and 1 Samuel, acting as an appendix to Judges and an introduction to 1st and 2nd Samuel. Ruth is the shortest of the historical books and at its conclusion, it contains the genealogy of Jesus. God uses all things for His glory – including an unsuspecting foreigner from a heathen land! The exact time Ruth was written and the author of Ruth is somewhat uncertain. We have a general period of time that the writings of Ruth took place during the days when the judges ruled and during a time of severe famine. There are three possibilities of authorship: Hezekiah, Ezra and Samuel, with most theologians agreeing on Samuel as the author. With this bit of background information, let’s begin our study.

Ruth 1:1-2 Now it came about in the days when the judges governed, that there was a famine in the land. And a certain man of Bethlehem in Judah went to sojourn in the land of Moab with his wife and his two sons. 2 And the name of the man [was] Elimelech, and the name of his wife, Naomi; and the names of his two sons [were] Mahlon and Chilion, Ephrathites of Bethlehem in Judah. Now they entered the land of Moab and remained there.

When – The days when the judges governed.

Where – Bethlehem in Judah and the land of Moab

Who – Elimelech (el-ee-meh’-lek), Naomi, Mahlon (makh-lone’) and Chilion (kil-yone’) – a family from Bethlehem

The setting of this book quickly moves from Bethlehem to Moab. There was a famine in the land, a judgment on the Jewish nation from God foretold in Leviticus chapter 26.

Leviticus 26:19-20 'And I will also break down your pride of power; I will also make your sky like iron and your earth like bronze. 20 'And your strength shall be spent uselessly, for your land shall not yield its produce and the trees of the land shall not yield their fruit.

During this time of famine, Elimelech chose to relocate his family to a more fertile area – Moab, a country south-east of Judah (Palestine). This was in order to provide for his family. Here’s a thought to consider: on one hand this move seems good in the caring of his family. Yet, it begs the question of perhaps trying to get by with less and trusting God more. Sometimes necessity dictates a move or change in direction, yet, not always. Moving to a land which was known to worship heathen Gods would directly influence Elimelech’s family. Waiting patiently upon God’s provision and answers is a choice we can all make.

Bring these questions even closer to your own personal circumstances. Think! Sometimes, when we choose to make a change which seems for the better, we are avoiding a deeper problem. For instance, I heard a conversation between two individuals where one was determined to move out of state because it was becoming too liberal. This may be true, however, the opportunity to share truth becomes greater when we are surrounded by unbelief. Did Jesus hang around only those who thought like he did? Could the real problem reside in our own discomfort or disconnect with a church family to encourage us? Are we chasing after the hollow promise that ‘things will be better’ in general if we make a move?

Most people have heard the idiom, ‘chasing after rainbows’. In our human thinking we can easily be distracted by the thought that there is something better to attain, somewhere better to live, a better career to pursue, and sadly, even a better relationship then the ones we have. The truth is we have everything to live a life honoring to God right where we are. There is no need to chase after something more. To my knowledge, no one has been able to catch a rainbow!

We do have freedoms to make decisions we think are best but let’s not make choices based on discontent. God placed each of us right where He wants us and He will use our circumstances for His glory if we are obedient to His calling. This can be applied in many different areas of life – our families, our careers, the number of children we may or may not have, our relationships, our geographical location, our health, the home in which we live, and on and on. We can choose to trust that God will use us where He put us; He will provide for us and care for us if we sincerely desire to follow Him.

Lamentations 3:25 The LORD is good to those who wait for Him, to the person who seeks Him.

Matthew 6:26 "Look at the birds of the air, that they do not sow, neither do they reap, nor gather into barns, and [yet] your heavenly Father feeds them. Are you not worth much more than they?

The Family Bible Notes says: “To remove, from a regard to worldly circumstances merely, out of a land of religious light and privileges to a land of darkness and idolatry, is a course full of danger, and likely to terminate in distress.”

As we continue in the next verse of Ruth, we indeed see that grief entered into Elimelech’s family.

Ruth 1:3-4 Then Elimelech, Naomi's husband, died; and she was left with her two sons. 4 And they took for themselves Moabite women [as] wives; the name of the one was Orpah and the name of the other Ruth. And they lived there about ten years.

There is no exact time frame to follow regarding Elimelech’s death. It may have been shortly after the family arrived in Moab. Naomi was left with her two sons, Mahlon and Chilion. We are only somewhat familiar with the impact that Elimelech’s death would have on his family. We need to step back in time and culture to fully appreciate the dire circumstance this mother found herself in.

According to The Complete Guide to the Bible, written by Stephen M. Miller, “Widows, along with orphans and immigrants, were among the most vulnerable people in Bible times. It was a man’s world. Women were minors in a court of law – like kids today. Women were also the property of men – fathers, husbands, or sons. So women generally weren’t allowed to own property or conduct business. They weren’t considered capable of that since their education was typically limited to household matters: cooking, sewing, and hauling water.”

No matter the culture we live in or the circumstances we find ourselves, whether in trouble because of our own poor choices or being disciplined through God’s love, He has promised to care for His children. God will guide us through the greatest difficulties – always for His glory.

Psalm 34:4, 19 I sought the LORD, and He answered me, and delivered me from all my fears.19 Many are the afflictions of the righteous; But the LORD delivers him out of them all.

Hebrews 12:11 All discipline for the moment seems not to be joyful, but sorrowful; yet to those who have been trained by it, afterwards it yields the peaceful fruit of righteousness.

Do we hold on to God’s promises even when our own circumstances seem dire? We are never beyond God’s reach if we seek Him. No trouble or problem takes God by surprise. We can always find peace and security as we seek to follow Him.

Naomi finds herself a widowed mother of two sons. Ruth 1:4 gives us information that her sons seemed to have integrated fairly well into a society that did not honor God. In Bethlehem, the family had followed Jewish law and at least Naomi had continued on in that belief enough for Ruth to take notice later in this chapter.

Perhaps without strong leadership from their father Elimelech, Mahlon and Chilion had forgotten or decided to forego the teaching of their God. If we have been blessed with family, it is extremely important to consider the time we have with them as an opportunity to teach them by our speech and our example, of God truths.

Mahlon and Chilion married Orpah and Ruth – Moabite women. Reading the Strong’s Hebrew Dictionary definition of the word ‘took’ translated from nasa’ is interesting. There are several applications but what stood out to me were the words ‘accept’ and ‘yield’. These descriptions caused me to consider the importance of who we constantly place around us and the influence of culture. While we need to be out in the world, the necessity to guard against the enticement of sin is of utmost importance. It is easy to begin to think differently even without our immediate notice. Jewish law stated it was a grievance against God for Mahlon and Chilion to marry outside of their belief.

Deuteronomy 7:3-4 "Furthermore, you shall not intermarry with them; you shall not give your daughters to their sons, nor shall you take their daughters for your sons. "For they will turn your sons away from following Me to serve other gods; then the anger of the LORD will be kindled against you, and He will quickly destroy you.

‘Them’ refers to the foreign nations which were known to worship heathen gods. The nation of Israel was told to have nothing to do with them, ‘make no covenants with them and show no favor to them’ (Deuteronomy 7:1-2).

Ezra 9:1 Now when these things had been completed, the princes approached me, saying, "The people of Israel and the priests and the Levites have not separated themselves from the peoples of the lands, according to their abominations, [those] of the Canaanites, the Hittites, the Perizzites, the Jebusites, the Ammonites, the Moabites, the Egyptians, and the Amorites.

If you have spent time with children that are school age, you have certainly witnessed the surprising words and actions they repeat that they’ve been exposed to on the playground. Often, they are unaware what inappropriate words or actions even mean, they have just been influenced and are copying what they see to fit in. Influence happens quickly. Consider the impact of a television show or movie. Children, and sometimes adults, quickly pick up on a phrase or event and repeat what they’ve seen and heard. If you have worked outside the home, you understand how easy it is for mannerisms to ‘rub off’ on you. ‘Worldly’ behaviors can be adopted into our lifestyle if we are constantly surrounded by them. It is imperative that we fight against their influence. We do not and should not live in a protective bubble, but we must guard that our awareness does not become dull.

Have you been negatively influenced? How do you stay aware so this doesn’t happen? Are you careful to guard your heart or are you careless in choosing to constantly being exposed to things that dishonor God?

We can quickly think that we are impervious to poor influence in our walk. Years ago, one of my children began picking up an attitude. With this attitude was the rolling of the eyes which was done as a definite sign of disrespect against authority. Of course, this child was disciplined for this behavior – several times and over what seemed to be an agonizingly long period. To my dismay, unbeknownst to me, I had picked up this same expression from him. I didn’t even realize it until I was in the front yard working with my husband and he said something to me that apparently I didn’t agree with or didn’t like. I rolled my eyes at my husband, which he didn’t see, fortunately. One of my neighbors however, who had been talking with us, did see my rude expression. Needless to say I was embarrassed, humiliated and horrified and apologies followed. I had not meant to be disrespectful to my husband, but had picked up on the expression I had seen so often in our child! Influenced – guilty as charged.

Back to our account of Ruth. After about ten years, we read in the next verse of this section that Mahlon and Chilion died.

Ruth 1:5 Then both Mahlon and Chilion also died; and the woman was bereft of her two children and her husband.

According to some commentaries, the death of Naomi’s sons may have been judgement upon them for marrying women who were not Israelites. In any case, in the course of ten years, Naomi is without her husband and sons and in a place of strangers. This situation truly is desperate in that time with no means of support and no males in the family to provide.

Fast forward this account of extreme calamity in Naomi’s life and we know God is working all things out for His good and will use her to glorify Himself. This should cause us to remember the lovingkindness of God towards His children even in their often futile attempts at following Him. He does have a plan in spite of our poor judgement and weakness. Our sin is not bigger than God’s grace. Jeremiah reminds the Israelites of this in his letter sent from Jerusalem to those who were captive in Babylon. The Israelites are warned to beware of being deceived in Jeremiah 29:8-9. Then they are reminded that God is continuing to work in their lives and will bless them, in verses 11-13.

God is always faithful to bring about His perfect plan. In the most difficult of circumstances, comfort can always be found in God. Even in Naomi’s extreme condition of sorrow, God is working. He is preparing a young widow’s heart to express compassion and care.

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