Surrender

These words are important because it seems the inclusion of surrendering is not only what we may possess in physical material, but that also which we may possess in our own ‘rights’ as individuals – our very selves.

C:\Users\Sharyn\AppData\Local\Microsoft\Windows\INetCache\Content.Word\surrender.jpgIn 1896, Judson W. Van DeVenter, a teacher, painter, artist and photographer,​​ penned the song “I Surrender All”. ​​ Read the words to the first stanza and refrain. ​​ All to Jesus I surrender, all to Him I freely give; I will ever love and trust Him, in His presence daily live. ​​ I surrender all, I surrender all; All to Thee, my blessed Savior, I surrender all.

When we think of the word surrender, it can have a negative connotation. Giving up may be the words you associate with surrendering. ​​ Yet, for the sake of this study, we will consider surrendering and giving up to be different in their motivation. ​​ 

To​​ surrender​​ can mean to agree to forgo power or possession. ​​ It​​ describes​​ a relinquishment of control to another. ​​ A yielding to another.

Typically​​ giving up​​ is associated with defeat or a lack of hope. ​​ It marks the end of something.

Lu 14:33 So therefore, whoever of you does not renounce all that he has cannot be my disciple.​​ (RSV)

Lu 14:33 "So therefore, no one of you can be My disciple who does not give up all his own possessions. (NASB)

renounce, give up <apotassomai> literally, to say adieu (by departing or dismissing); to​​ renounce; bid farewell, forsake, take leave, send away. ​​ The word relinquish is given as a synonym for renounce in​​ WordWeb.

You can read in the definition that this verb is a choice. ​​ 

Lu 5:11 And when they had brought their boats to land,​​ they left everything​​ and followed Him.

They forsook all (KJV). ​​ They laid aside everything or yielded up​​ absolutely​​ all.

Lu 18:22-23 And when Jesus heard this, He said to him, "One thing you still lack;​​ sell all that you possess, and distribute it to the poor, and you shall have treasure in heaven; and come, follow Me." But when he had heard these things, he became very sad; for he was extremely rich.

All that you hold: ​​ your possessions, abilities, relationships, and conditions, in order to follow.

Php 3:7-8 But whatever things were gain to me, those things​​ I have counted as loss​​ for the sake of Christ. More than that,​​ I count all things to be loss​​ in view of the surpassing value of knowing Christ Jesus my Lord, for whom​​ I have suffered the loss of all things, and count them but rubbish in order that I may gain Christ,

Just previous to the above verses, we are given insight to how we easily place our value and confidence in ourselves and the things we are able to accomplish. ​​ Our verification rests on what we have done; our goodness on our performance in light of others. ​​ The conclusion is all things that we might do are useless in comparison to what Christ has done for us. ​​ There is an obvious repetition of phrases: ​​ “the loss of all things”. ​​ 

I have suffered the loss of all things] ​​ for whom I have thrown away all things-I have made a voluntary choice of Christ, his cross, his poverty, and his reproach; and for these I have freely sacrificed all I had from the world, and all I could expect from it.​​ Adam Clarke’s Commentary

Look again at Luke 14:33 above. ​​ “All that he has” or “possessions” comes from two Greek words.

<huparchonta> things extant or in hand, property or possessions; goods, that which one has, things which one possesses, substance

<heautou> himself, own selves

These words are important because it seems the inclusion of surrendering is not only what we may possess in physical material, but that also which we may possess in our own ‘rights’ as individuals –​​ our very selves. ​​ 

Consider​​ the difference between giving​​ up a material possession and​​ surrendering a thought, or right, or what you consider is fair. ​​ Which is more difficult?

Self​​ must be secondary when following Jesus. No room for ego. ​​ No room for self-concern. ​​ No room for self-interest. ​​ Even our identity becomes wrapped up in Christ. ​​ We have personal concerns and interests, but what takes center stage? ​​ What make our heart beat? ​​ Who do we live for?​​ ​​ Are we willing to give ourselves to His cause?

For the sake of encouraging even just one of you, I’ll take this to a personal insight of my own. I would have readily told you I absolutely have surrendered myself to following​​ Jesus. ​​ It is what I whole-heartedly desire. ​​ But, God has torn my heart up a bit and graciously as shown me that​​ I​​ struggle with this in a way that is probably considered acceptable, you might say it’s one of those ‘acceptable sins’. ​​ I get hurt by words. ​​ Then my personal insecurities flood my mind. ​​ I am too easily disheartened​​ by the knowledge that others think poorly of me because of something carelessly said​​ or misrepresented in relation to my person or motives. ​​ Most of us would say, “Well that’s okay”. ​​ But, is it? ​​​​ The​​ conviction God is putting on my heart says​​ NO! ​​​​ Why? ​​ Because my ‘tender hearted’ reactions cause my focus to sway from what I should be doing to what others are doing. ​​ This effectively lessens my serve. ​​ I am not completely giving up of myself to follow​​ when I am concerned about myself. ​​ I still care about​​ Me! ​​​​ Ughhhhhhh…

Are you able to relate? ​​ How is ‘self’ still imbedded in your life? ​​ Look hard, look deep, it may be subtle. ​​​​ 

We are asked to surrender all things that may stand in the way of our ability to do what God desires. ​​ Anything we hang onto that allows our affections to​​ be​​ swayed,​​ that​​ keeps us from being wholly committed to living for God. ​​ Am I​​ focused​​ towards God or away from God in my interests? ​​ Is my relationship in Him being built up or torn down​​ by my activities or thoughts? ​​ Am I being encouraged to persevere in His will or drawn towards myself?

Doddridge​​ puts it very straightforward:​​ So then do you consider whether you think it worth your while to adhere to me on these terms, for I assure you, I will admit you on no other; and whosoever he be of you that does not steadfastly resolve to give up all his possessions whenever he is called to it on my account, he cannot be owned by me as my disciple indeed.”

Robertson’s NT Word Pictures​​ states, “The spirit of self-sacrifice is the point”.

We may not be called actually to do so, but we must be quite ready to lose all for Jesus' sake, or else we are not his true followers.” ​​ Spurgeon Devotional Commentary

To forsake all, without following Christ, is the virtue of a philosopher. ​​ To follow Christ in profession, without forsaking all, is the state of the generality of Christians. ​​ But to follow Christ and forsake all, is the perfection of a Christian. ​​​​ Adam Clarke’s Commentary

Mt 19:27 Then Peter answered and said to Him, "Behold,​​ we have left everything​​ and followed You; what then will there be for us?"

Here is where I remind you​​ once again​​ I am not a Biblical Scholar in any stretch of the imagination. ​​ But, it seems Peter gets the first point right in leaving his fishing nets, boat and all worldly possessions behind but perhaps doesn’t really get the total picture of sacrificing self. ​​ He questions, what’s in it for him. ​​ Maybe he just didn’t completely understand. ​​ Perhaps he just needed to be reaffirmed of what he heard in the previous encounter between Jesus and the rich young man in​​ Mat​​ 19:20-21. ​​ Jesus had there stated that​​ if the young man were to give up all he had and follow Him, then he would have treasures in heaven. ​​ 

After all, what have any of us to lose for Jesus compared with what we gain by him? ​​​​ ‘What shall we have?’​​ is a question which we need not raise, for we ought rather to think of what we have already received at our Lord's hands. Himself is reward enough to the soul that hath him.” ​​ Spurgeon’s Commentary on Matthew

I am caused to look carefully at motivation. ​​​​ Do we look for rewards in following Jesus? ​​​​ Certainly, as His children, we have the promise of eternal life. ​​ Do we seek rewards here on earth? ​​​​ Is that the motor that drives us? ​​​​ I think as we strive to labor in doing good,​​ following​​ God in all things, knowing that He loves us and sent His Son to die for us should be enough reward in itself. ​​​​ Just the thought that He chose us to know and understand His great love is the greatest gift we ever will receive. ​​ The comparison of all other things we could have is not even close.

Consider. ​​​​ What have we really left behind to follow Jesus? ​​​​ Answer. ​​​​ All that was never really ours to begin with! ​​​​ 

1Ti 6:7 For we have brought nothing into the world, so we cannot take anything out of it either.

Nothing. ​​ Naught. ​​ Nada. ​​ 

Pray that we willingly relinquish control of all things, every conceivable possession or thought, to God who owns all things and causes all things, including persons, to glorify Himself. ​​ Surrender.​​ ​​ Hope is increased when self is relinquished.

Side note: this was a hard study for me to write, to recognize and to share. ​​ I pray you are blessed and encouraged to be real, transparent and humble before your God.

Broken Hearts

Back then, she would have proudly told you she could do anything.   With enough hard work, she would have the life she dreamed.  Dependence on others showed weakness.

Broken Hearts – Broken Dreams – Broken Trust

Consider​​ the following​​ phrases. ​​ Work hard. ​​ Laborious effort​​ means​​ success​​ and​​ then doors​​ to​​ dreams will​​ open. ​​ Others​​ respond​​ well​​ to​​ success. ​​ Hard work will get you where you want to go. ​​ Learn to live​​ up to expectations. ​​ Hard work​​ helps​​ make the sacrifices of those who love you​​ seem worthwhile. ​​ Be strong. ​​ Don’t disappoint.

She was not a beauty, and​​ average in just about everything.​​ She didn’t​​ really having a single, outstanding talent,​​ but​​ was​​ willing to spend hours​​ in​​ becoming a stellar student. ​​ She maintained​​ a GPA worthy of receiving awards and recognition. In her senior year, an offer of​​ full tuition​​ to a well-known university​​ was awarded. ​​ So it seemed,​​ she could excel, with no need to rely upon anyone else​​ but her own relentless drive​​ and hard work.​​ 

Back then, she would have proudly told you​​ she could do anything.  ​​​​ With​​ enough​​ hard work,​​ she would have​​ the life she​​ dreamed. ​​ Dependence on others showed​​ weakness. ​​ She was convinced that she was solely responsible for the direction of her life. In fact, it was​​ critical​​ to take​​ pride in yourself​​ and your accomplishments in order​​ to achieve goals. ​​​​ Help was​​ seldom​​ needed.​​ Confidence in​​ one’s​​ self was unquestionably the key.​​  ​​​​ 

Confidence that proved​​ she could do it all. ​​ Until that one day.  ​​​​ Suddenly​​ unable​​ to direct her future.​​ ​​ No matter how hard she tried,​​ something she could not fix​​ presented itself. ​​​​ For the first time, hard work and​​ self-assurance,​​ and doing the “right” things,​​ didn’t produce the​​ expected​​ outcome.​​ ​​ This was unimaginable. ​​ A​​ total failure.​​ It was at that​​ lowest​​ point​​ she​​ was forced to accept she​​ lacked the power​​ to determine​​ the direction of her life. ​​ The independence​​ and confidence that had always empowered, suddenly​​ felt empty. ​​ Just about everyone​​ around her​​ bailed out.​​ No one liked failure. ​​ It didn’t matter who was to blame.​​ ​​ What happened?

Human reality. ​​ Sin.​​ ​​ Self.​​ ​​ Actions​​ born out of pride, always looking for something more, something better. ​​ People tiring of imagined promises​​ of happiness. ​​ Decisions​​ made to end​​ relationships​​ that​​ required​​ more effort than​​ seemed​​ reasonable. ​​​​ Responsibilities seeming​​ overwhelming. ​​ Then, after the bomb dropped,​​ before the dust was even settled, came​​ the​​ realization that​​ the source of​​ her​​ identity,​​ fulfillment and hope wasn’t​​ to be​​ found​​ in the person she​​ originally thought was the answer to​​ her future.​​ The “I do’s”, the “I will’s”, the vows,​​ all​​ cast aside. ​​ Sin.​​ Man’s sin.​​ ​​ It​​ happens. ​​ All the time. ​​ I am guilty. ​​ You are guilty. ​​ The affects are strong. ​​ Often​​ pointed​​ to those​​ ignorant and​​ unsuspecting. ​​ Often to those who have learned to rely on self​​ because they are so engrossed at making things seem right​​ that they don’t see what’s going on around them. ​​​​ Often to those who have fooled themselves into thinking they​​ controlled​​ the direction of their life.​​ ​​ Most often to those who look to​​ themselves​​ for happiness and​​ success. ​​ Always to those who hold themselves in greater esteem than their Savior.​​ 

Broken hearts,​​ broken​​ dreams, broken​​ confidences​​ stem from confused hearts,​​ self-serving dreams, and​​ misplaced​​ trust.​​ 

Jeremiah​​ understood his need of God. ​​ He desired God’s direction. Instead of being proud, he humbly acknowledged his weakness. ​​​​ Jer 10:23 I know, O LORD, that​​ a man's way is not in himself; nor is it in a man who walks to direct his steps.​​ 

The​​ Bible​​ supports the truth of God being in control of all things. ​​​​ Read these verses from Proverbs.

Pr 16:9 The mind of man plans his way, but the LORD directs his steps.​​ 

Pr 19:21​​ Many are the plans in a man's heart, But the counsel of the LORD, it will stand.

No one wants to be dependent upon another. ​​​​ It seems weak.​​ It feels​​ disqualifying and restricting. ​​ Yet​​ our relationship with God​​ is​​ built on dependence. ​​ Total dependence. ​​ We are unable to bring anything to the table​​ of our​​ own accord. ​​ We need​​ His grace and mercy in all things. ​​ Complete dependence. ​​​​ Absolute reliance​​ upon God.

Because God loves us, His​​ grace is often shown through the​​ consequences He allows​​ in our lives.​​ The horrific consequences of sin. ​​ Then, we fall​​ to our knees, prostrate​​ before​​ Him. ​​ Crying to Him for help as our life support. ​​ 

Ps 116:6 The LORD preserves the simple; I was brought low, and He saved me.

Is this a sign of weakness or wisdom? ​​​​ Both!  ​​ ​​ ​​ ​​​​ 

Recognizing our weakness bears the mark of wisdom.​​ Understanding our dependence​​ on God frees us from depending​​ upon ourselves and others to make life meaningful.

 

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Identity Crisis!

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Beyond the basic need for a sense of control, we are deeply driven by our sense of identity, of who we are. We are in the middle of our individual world, where we place central importance on our sense of individual self. As Descartes said, ‘I think, therefore I am.’ Many social theories are to do with creating or preserving our sense of identity. Changingminds.org

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identity: the distinct personality of an individual regarded as a persisting entity; the individual characteristics by which a thing or person is recognized or known. WordWeb

With technology increasing and permeating the work place, financial markets and just about every aspect of our personal lives, identity has become a big topic. Mostly in connection with fraud and the need for protection. There are those who feel as if they’ve lost their identity in certain situations.

Several individuals we know, including ourselves, have had experiences with stolen identity within different organizations. Years ago, my husband was in the hospital for ongoing medical issues and we received a call from the admitting department that there was an inpatient using the same social security number. A few years ago, our tax return was stolen by someone who had assumed our identity and filed taxes under our social security numbers. Several years ago I received a letter from the IRS stating I owed thousands in back taxes – my name had been associated with someone else, again, an identity breech. This is real and it is unnerving.

You can purchase several different plans for identity protection. Sometimes, a company will offer protection for up to a year if the fraud has happened on their end. Of course, there are fees attached to most of these programs.

What does the future hold as technology becomes more complicated and ingrained into every area of our lives? I suppose we should take reasonable precautions and approach the possibility of identity fraud as real. However, no one can hack into my true identity.

My identity in Christ is impossible to lose once claimed. I need not fear something will be taken from me or that I would lose my representation in Christ. I did not have to purchase this identity. It was purchased for me! In Christ. By his death and resurrection. Because of His Father’s love. It is given to me as a gift. My identity in Christ is 100% foolproof. No one will steal it. Yet, they can join me in this same identity, for free. Just by accepting the gift of God’s Son.

This is a wonderful source of peace and comfort in this world of uncertainty.

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